Action Mike
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And if you scroll down the profile "travel travel travel"Goddam, all these bytches are hungry
Every bio is “food food food”
Every. Single. One.
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africngiant
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it’s way too late. im going to become like dikk gregory soon.
A friendly reminder:And if you scroll down the profile "travel travel travel"
Every. Single. One.
why is it that we as men see that as a red flag?And if you scroll down the profile "travel travel travel"
Every. Single. One.
is it because it signals high maintenance?
i dont know what it is but i cant stand when a girl's main hobby is "travelling".
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Digital Omen
All Star
Subconsciously we associate travel travel travel with girls trips to Miami and Vegas to get their backs blown out by randoms
No man ever thinks "yeah she loves to travel to see the sights, hit up museums, great restaurants, some shopping, spa treatment" none of that shyt. We think she's getting trained and ran through every day and night when she's "traveling"
It's gotta be some hardwired DNA shyt. Like back in the day if your woman strayed too far from the res it was cause for concern and a sign that she was leaving you or about to.
skyrunner1
Superstar
Being in miami and the amount of stories thru the years, shyt will give you trust issues for real..
One obvious one that pops in head, years ago, my boy is working cabanas on beach, pulls a couple black girls from England, he hit us up like if we jet skiing swing thru (that used to be a whole routine), we laughing our ass off like yoo, these are black chicks from England? Do they have the accents and shyt, our minds are blown and we like bet, we pullin up.. Do the whole thing and bring them to a couple spots, vibe, etc. On jetski, at time I dont think phones were water proof so we would put in ziplocks and put away. We turn up, drop them back off, Im linked in at time and get them set up at a couple spots that nite.
Tell them go pregame at Delano, I got a boy there take care of them. We had to take care of stuff and we catch up. They already lit and not used party starting so late or maybe time difference, we dont even make it to main spot, we head back. Getting it in with chick but her phone is blowing up.. She answers, Im close enough where I can hear him, its hours ahead and she is like why is he not sleeping, he said he was worried because he hadnt heard from her. She fakes a fight gets angry and says they will talk about it later, he says he loves her, she hangs up. That shyt could be anybody.. Everybody gets got. At one point stuff like that was happening weekly. Cold world.
When you say age out the club you mean when you not feeling it anymore or when you’re too old?
How old would be too old?
I only like the club because that’s the fastest way to meet different women in a short amount of time.
And you got any game on making more with less hours? This working all the time shyt is not the wave for me. I don’t be wanting to do shyt else because my energy just be gone for some reason.
Subjectively - I don't like the music being played at the place with the best (25-32 year old) broads. They will throw your boy a bone with an old school set while I sip on something, but much like these NYC Podcast Mc's - they need to let things go. I wanna hear about Buckshot going to Stretch and Bobbito, not how Big Daddy Kane is finna make a comeback with Conway.
Objectively - Your personal magnetism and charisma has to be MUCH stronger than the next mans youth and aggressiveness. You hit about the mid 30's, and you're not really keeping up Lil Who and Baby Yung Whatever - it's time to start hitting them whisky tastings and restaurant openings.
More Money Less Hours - Depends on the job. I had to throw in a side hustle. But ultimately, I have had to change careers. And finally, the big step is moving out of an employee role into employer role. All I know, is that whatever you're doing, someone is doing the same or similar for 10x the money. The key is figuring it out. Might be getting CS certs, a Security Clearance, Coming in as a Contractor vs and Employee, being a consultant....But the people that do the actual work in this country - get paid the least. The people that get paid more - usually know things that aren't explicitly taught in school. And that's the education that you're creating for yourself.
I can only speak for myself, and the typical mba/jd/good job having female that I deal with - but there's different types of cultural baggage that comes with travel chicks.
For me, these hoes are not fun. Travel/Vacation/Holiday is either work or a repetition of something I could have done at home.
The Travel Noire Set - it's almost always a Black Girls Group - and a lot of the time, they engage in the same ratchet Friday/Saturday night activities in a different time zone. Get drunk, twerking, often to American music (See Salvadaor...) These are not the same Miami/ATL/Spirit Airlines type of chicks, just a good emulation.
The "Luxury Lifestyle" Set. Almost the same as Travel Noire, just more $$$$. It's poolside in a foreign land.
The Hoes that Love Hiking. Isn't this vista so picturesque? Quick I need something for my IG.
The only type of travel broad I rock with is a Antonia Bourdain type chick. We finna grub, drink, and cool out. One site per day, and you might end up shopping on your own. We're not trying to be picturesque and turn the vacation into promotional opportunity.
Now if it's a homecoming type of travel, she's going back to her Native Land - that's some other BS, but they not really Passport Sistas
When you say age out the club you mean when you not feeling it anymore or when you’re too old?
How old would be too old?
I only like the club because that’s the fastest way to meet different women in a short amount of time.
And you got any game on making more with less hours? This working all the time shyt is not the wave for me. I don’t be wanting to do shyt else because my energy just be gone for some reason.
I used to get a lot of play from Tinder...but it's slowed down for me. It's probably cause I'm getting older, who knows.
I'm early 30's and club game is my goto right now. I go to a spot in my city that's 21+ on the weekends so I see women from 21-50 in there forreal. It's actually surprising how many older women I see...and the nice thing is they usually go out 1-2x year which is perfect since I'm not seeing the same women all the time. I think if you stay in shape and look good then it's fine while you're in your 30's especially if it's a mature spot.
But as @WIA20XX said...staying in shape is important. Just keeping the weight off and doing some pushups and situps 5x a week go a long way.
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Digital Omen
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I hit tourists in town from PR, the Bay, NY...shyt was just a turkey shootBeing in miami and the amount of stories thru the years, shyt will give you trust issues for real..
One obvious one that pops in head, years ago, my boy is working cabanas on beach, pulls a couple black girls from England, he hit us up like if we jet skiing swing thru (that used to be a whole routine), we laughing our ass off like yoo, these are black chicks from England? Do they have the accents and shyt, our minds are blown and we like bet, we pullin up.. Do the whole thing and bring them to a couple spots, vibe, etc. On jetski, at time I dont think phones were water proof so we would put in ziplocks and put away. We turn up, drop them back off, Im linked in at time and get them set up at a couple spots that nite.
Tell them go pregame at Delano, I got a boy there take care of them. We had to take care of stuff and we catch up. They already lit and not used party starting so late or maybe time difference, we dont even make it to main spot, we head back. Getting it in with chick but her phone is blowing up.. She answers, Im close enough where I can hear him, its hours ahead and she is like why is he not sleeping, he said he was worried because he hadnt heard from her. She fakes a fight gets angry and says they will talk about it later, he says he loves her, she hangs up. That shyt could be anybody.. Everybody gets got. At one point stuff like that was happening weekly. Cold world.
One night we were at club Play in South Beach. 3 of us. Eyed some PAAGs at the bar. Step up bla bla bla they're in town from The Bay. On my moms not 15 min. after introducing myself we're making out. I turn to look and my homie is also sucking face at the bar. Third homie was married so he laid back in the cut. More kissing and fondling with my PAAG for the evening. She tells me let's go. We hop in a cab and I got my hand up her skirt. They were staying at the Ritz on 15th and Collins.
We get there and go up to their room. Get to their door and hear some chick getting her back blown out. No shyt, guess one of their homegirls bagged a dude earlier. We're all standing by the door giggling and shyt. Couple of minutes later girl opens the door and she's got that dikk drunk look. They leave (to another room? keep fukkin in the hallway?) whatever. My homie takes his PAAG to the balcony and fukks her there. I get into my PAAG (I remember asking her "they weren't just fukkin on this bed right?" cuz it was 2 queens and they were both a mess).
Busted a fat nut off some strange and she fell asleep. Homie and his PAAG come in from the balcony and she's all "WTF?" I Kanye shrugged, peaced out, and headed back to the club. We closed the place down and got back home at damn near 6 am.
Didn't get her number, never saw or spoke to her again. They were in town on one mission and one mission only and I happily obliged. Remember, it doesn't count if it's not your zip code. Or your city. Or your state. Or your time zone. I never went back to that club either. What could top a night like that?
skyrunner1
Superstar
mannn, them prices must be having them chicks 4-5 deep to a room sometimes, lol.. First come first serve type shyt
Also nothing gonna top an unplanned nite when the expectations are raised but dammit Ima try..
‘Food and travel
‘ It just screams of basic. It screams of lack of personality. It signals she might be chasing the high of just looking the part , being ‘picked’, dressing up, a nice place to show on the gram. Any Ngga can fill the blank she just want a seat filler. Just a big noI posted before that I went to Antigua with a broad…now she’s going to Bahamas 
I told her I ain’t goin. They’re the same damn place
That’s the ‘travel’ chick in a nutshell. Women travel for luxury and ‘service’ and to literally “lay on a beach and do nothing”. To have poolside drinks in a nice resort.
And make no mistake, plenty of them can afford it themselves it’s not about the money. It’s about womens’ personalitis; they are BORING. That’s also why women do ‘brunch’ as an activity.
So that’s why ‘I love to travel’ gets a side eye. They go places and don’t do shyt. Then start seeing couples and be depressed… that single black woman travel don’t feel like it look
I told her I ain’t goin. They’re the same damn placeThat’s the ‘travel’ chick in a nutshell. Women travel for luxury and ‘service’ and to literally “lay on a beach and do nothing”. To have poolside drinks in a nice resort.
And make no mistake, plenty of them can afford it themselves it’s not about the money. It’s about womens’ personalitis; they are BORING. That’s also why women do ‘brunch’ as an activity.
So that’s why ‘I love to travel’ gets a side eye. They go places and don’t do shyt. Then start seeing couples and be depressed… that single black woman travel don’t feel like it look
‘Food and travel
Exactly & it’s almost seems like it’s a photo-op than a chance to digest real sights and learn about the culture.
All on your dime.
Had a coffee at that Ritiz Carlton, just in February on a morning walk, really impressive space, especially the lobby and veranda area .
Would say a lot of people travel for far more pedestrian purposes, men are no different. Since I am sober, never did a lot of that drunken partying on vacation, but I got to see parts of the world in a way different space. remember coming back from Paris, and South of France, when I turned 30, I'm straight off the block, out of jail, keep that in mind, and I was in fukking Paris! The Louvre! Hotel Martinez in Cannes. Took the train across the country. Muse De Orsay.
first thing my boy asks me, "did you get any p*ssy?" lol
it doesn't have to be pretentious, or "not fun", but getting drunk at a pool can be done ANYWHERE. Going to a bar and meeting someone can be done anywhere, granted a little more sexy and exciting in another country. Going to a club and trying to hook up can be done anywhere. You could be in Santa Barbra or Costa Rica. For a lot of people travel is just like a box to check, no originality, or sense of adventure, (beyond cheap thrills), but just a patterned google maps and scheduled brunch.
Would say a lot of people travel for far more pedestrian purposes, men are no different. Since I am sober, never did a lot of that drunken partying on vacation, but I got to see parts of the world in a way different space. remember coming back from Paris, and South of France, when I turned 30, I'm straight off the block, out of jail, keep that in mind, and I was in fukking Paris! The Louvre! Hotel Martinez in Cannes. Took the train across the country. Muse De Orsay.
first thing my boy asks me, "did you get any p*ssy?" lol
it doesn't have to be pretentious, or "not fun", but getting drunk at a pool can be done ANYWHERE. Going to a bar and meeting someone can be done anywhere, granted a little more sexy and exciting in another country. Going to a club and trying to hook up can be done anywhere. You could be in Santa Barbra or Costa Rica. For a lot of people travel is just like a box to check, no originality, or sense of adventure, (beyond cheap thrills), but just a patterned google maps and scheduled brunch.