Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Social circle can mean many things, but examples

One of my boys intro'd me to his sister in law

Girls my homies meet (i often end up maintaining better/any long term ties, they say I stole "their girls)

Women you are friends with, you meet their friends

The above story when my Dad's homie, and 70 something years old tried to set me up with someone he met at a fundraiser or something

Girls my homie dated, I met their sisters, maintained those relationships after

Girls my homies know, end up sliding with me, that one can get messier, when people feel possessive, have to know how to move.
 

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I'd say right now the game REQUIRES a hybrid approach.

Before you could just eat off of cold approach. As one ages out of the clubs, he needs Social Circle.
A lot of young dudes today are 100% IG dm's and Tinder. That's a recipe for mental disaster for most dudes.
  1. Cold Approach is still #1
  2. Warm Approach - i.e. Social Circle - you need to start meeting your friend's friends, your co-worker's friends, you church member friends, etc
  3. Social Media Game - You don't need to show riches, but someone should look at your page, and be like - Okay, I'm trying to hang with you. So maybe you're having a good time at the BBQ.
  4. Dating Apps - Again, you want to meet people OUTSIDE of your circles, but bring them INTO your circle. Tinder and such are complements, not the main meal.
Passport - I used to tell cats to travel, diff cities in the States, Europe, Lat Am, Asia, Africa, etc - but that entire idea of a black man seeing the world has been polluted by bad actors. A stylish brother in Sweden pulls broads - but the typical cat getting into passport game wants to pay hookers in DR.

But underneath all of this action,
1) You need a firm mental/emotional/spiritual base. Cause it's not as hard as guys think to run through broads. It's just not as satisfying when you're all messed up. Lotta dudes can't operate their daily lives without female in it. I don't know if cats need therapy, drugs, religion, meditation, but all the bs inside is what stops guys. Deep seated self image issues stops most guys from approaching strangers.

2) Work Out. - A good attitude, having a flat belly, and going out a lot - most guys would have more baddies than they could handle. No game required. (Those chicks would work him on the front end and back end, but he'd have lots...). If you want to get into college athlete shape, good on you. Pro Athlete cool. Pro Body Builder? You doing way too much.

3) Stack Your Bread Intelligently - As someone that's been making good money, but has to do 60-100 hours - that's not the move. Maximize your $ per hour, and then figure out how to make $ without the hours. Time for money is not the move.

4) Hygiene, Grooming, Styling is standard. You can label whore yourself out, you can Classic Man, white t-shirt and a gold chain - getting your outfit right when your body is on point is a trip to the mall and a few 100 bucks. You can be "fresh to def" in an afternoon.
When you say age out the club you mean when you not feeling it anymore or when you’re too old?

How old would be too old?

:lupe::lupe:

I only like the club because that’s the fastest way to meet different women in a short amount of time.

And you got any game on making more with less hours? This working all the time shyt is not the wave for me. I don’t be wanting to do shyt else because my energy just be gone for some reason.
 

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So what’s the conclusion for why doing the bare minimum for women awards us quickly vs doing a lot and receiving nothing?

Throughout my experience, I’ve done both and recognized by doing very little / doing something simple gets me more ass than, when I put actual thought into a date.
its more correlation than cause and effect

a woman whos already feeling you, you wont have to do much for off the strength
the one you have to do a lot for, its cause they prolly wasnt feeling you much to begin with

as a result, a correlation between success with women and less effort will appear. it isnt that you are successful because you put in less effort. it is that you had to put in less effort because she was already feelin you
 

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You know it’s funny, why do women get off on getting men to pay for their food. That alone makes me NOT want to do it.

:mjlol: :mjlol:

There's like deep cultural/social structural reasons for that, (some will say primal and biological, but I wouldn't) it's a very very traditional mindset at it's base.
 
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i want all women who judge and alienate me to suffer in life like i have. they wouldn’t have the fortitude to bounce back

i will continue to thrive in moments of hate because it only motivates me more

fukk hometown groupie bedwenches from a past life. and all hoes who try to pile on a grinding, most hated nikka like me self-esteem
 
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this ain’t it. Cut it out
nah they need to suffer. i hate spoiled c*nts nikkas kiss ass now egos run wild everywhere from basic bytches

they laugh at you for being different

but yet they’re all the same

they see a nikka alone but still decide to side with unchallenged perceptions and mob mentality of hating snake childhood nikkas

as i continue to grind to make something of my life

i am going to “beat it chick” THE HELL OUT OF THESE MFS

give me 3 years TOPS
 
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nah they need to suffer. i hate spoiled c*nts nikkas kiss ass now egos run wild everywhere from basic bytches

they laugh at you for being different

but yet they’re all the same

they see a nikka alone but still decide to side with unchallenged perceptions and mob mentality of hating snake childhood nikkas

as i continue to grind to make something of my life

i am going to “beat it chick” THE HELL OUT OF THESE MFS

give me 3 years TOPS
reading this (correct me if I’m wrong) sounds like you’re putting too much stock into what these women say or think
 

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its more correlation than cause and effect

a woman whos already feeling you, you wont have to do much for off the strength
the one you have to do a lot for, its cause they prolly wasnt feeling you much to begin with

as a result, a correlation between success with women and less effort will appear. it isnt that you are successful because you put in less effort. it is that you had to put in less effort because she was already feelin you

Yup
 

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nah they need to suffer. i hate spoiled c*nts nikkas kiss ass now egos run wild everywhere from basic bytches

they laugh at you for being different

but yet they’re all the same

they see a nikka alone but still decide to side with unchallenged perceptions and mob mentality of hating snake childhood nikkas

as i continue to grind to make something of my life

i am going to “beat it chick” THE HELL OUT OF THESE MFS

give me 3 years TOPS


I know where you coming from my nikka. Can’t be bitter about it tho.
 
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