Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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There's like deep cultural/social structural reasons for that, (some will say primal and biological, but I wouldn't) it's a very very traditional mindset at it's base.
It go both ways... men delude themselves into believing that they really do enjoy the company of women, conveniently ignoring the fact that if they did not want to have sex with them, they wouldn't spend any time at all with them.
 

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It go both ways... men delude themselves into believing that they really do enjoy the company of women, conveniently ignoring the fact that if they did not want to have sex with them, they wouldn't spend any time at all with them.


Sadly, I think in many cases that can be true. Men do feel like that. It's not at all how I feel, at the risk of sounding like Trump or someone, I love the company of beautiful women----granted, there is always extra thrill when there is the space for sex, in my case there usually is, can't think of many instances where it's entirely OFF the table. I love the company of women, escorts, hustlers, professional women, strippers, it doesn't matter to me. I'm cool with lots of people like that.

but, really I was thinking about this the other day, I always was helped by women. And your childhood shapes your impressions. This is obviously kinda secular, but a really gorgeous girl when I was in high school, she was like 2 years older, but living really, really fast, she used to pick me up from school, I was like 17, in penthouses condos drinking martini's and shyt with her and her girls, all older, she intro'd me to connects, took me to casinos, would be like 4:00 AM watching her play 21 at the table.

so to me, whatever the relationship, I'm with it.
 

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Sadly, I think in many cases that can be true. Men do feel like that. It's not at all how I feel, at the risk of sounding like Trump or someone, I love the company of beautiful women----granted, there is always extra thrill when there is the space for sex, in my case there usually is, can't think of many instances where it's entirely OFF the table. I love the company of women, escorts, hustlers, professional women, strippers, it doesn't matter to me. I'm cool with lots of people like that.

but, really I was thinking about this the other day, I always was helped by women. And your childhood shapes your impressions. This is obviously kinda secular, but a really gorgeous girl when I was in high school, she was like 2 years older, but living really, really fast, she used to pick me up from school, I was like 17, in penthouses condos drinking martini's and shyt with her and her girls, all older, she intro'd me to connects, took me to casinos, would be like 4:00 AM watching her play 21 at the table.

so to me, whatever the relationship, I'm with it.

why try to sugar coat shyt?

nikkas want hoes for sex and to have their kids, women want men to make their live easier as they don't want to work.

anything outside of the above is horse shyt.

Women aint signing up to take care of men lol.

And most men rather hang with their homies or be alone rather than deal with the emotional roller coaster of a woman (which tends to occur when you aren't actively doing something where she isn't idle).
 

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Subconsciously we associate travel travel travel with girls trips to Miami and Vegas to get their backs blown out by randoms

No man ever thinks "yeah she loves to travel to see the sights, hit up museums, great restaurants, some shopping, spa treatment" none of that shyt. We think she's getting trained and ran through every day and night when she's "traveling"

It's gotta be some hardwired DNA shyt. Like back in the day if your woman strayed too far from the res it was cause for concern and a sign that she was leaving you or about to.

we think this because its true. When I'm overseas these same traveling chicks blowing me up on tinder
 

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Casual friends with benefits chick that I deal with catching an attitude because I haven't been in the mood to deal with her lately.

Trying to correlate it to somebody I used to see like 4 or 5 years ago

:pachaha:

:dead:

Women can only play the ‘haha im the homie’ role for so long. Before long that long text and the feelings come in

That’s the type of interaction that officially makes it not worth it anymore. RIP to your fwb bruh.
 

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Casual friends with benefits chick that I deal with catching an attitude because I haven't been in the mood to deal with her lately.

Trying to correlate it to somebody I used to see like 4 or 5 years ago

:pachaha:


Didn’t need the last paragraph

No long talk

She’ll be back
 

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Casual friends with benefits chick that I deal with catching an attitude because I haven't been in the mood to deal with her lately.

Trying to correlate it to somebody I used to see like 4 or 5 years ago

:pachaha:


Women :laff:. I had one that told me repeatedly she didn't want a relationship with me because we both lived in different states and then at the same time would catch mood swings if I said something she didn't like or missed a day talking to her like I was her boyfriend.
 

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You know its over when she brings up the idea of fukking her and it just comes and goes like she asked if you want anything from the convenience store. lmaooo

Bruh🤣

Only 2 women have disgusted me to that point..

And they both act EXACTLY alike..

That shyt makes you want to pay to play and save the headache
 

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Women :laff:. I had one that told me repeatedly she didn't want a relationship with me because we both lived in different states and then at the same time would catch mood swings if I said something she didn't like or missed a day talking to her like I was her boyfriend.
Women always say one thing and do something different
 
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