Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

You're right I should've clarified. That's on me it felt like yall were patronizing me. I wasn't angry I was just like
this is the advice thread

 

[WIA20XX]

You're right I should've clarified. That's on me it felt like yall were patronizing me. I wasn't angry I was just like
this is the advice thread

This thread sometimes give you the Black Man style of advice.

Me - Yeah, so I need to fix the radiator on my BMW and......

Typical Old Head #1 - There's your problem right there, you gotta BMW...shoulda bought a Chevy.

Old Head #2 - I don't know what it is with these young boys and these foreign cars, nothing but headaches.

Old Head #3 - Man I had a Jag one time, thought I was fly, until that POS left me on the high way.

Me - *slowly getting frustrated*

 

[Brandsdale]

This thread sometimes give you the Black Man style of advice.

Me - Yeah, so I need to fix the radiator on my BMW and......

Typical Old Head #1 - There's your problem right there, you gotta BMW...shoulda bought a Chevy.

Old Head #2 - I don't know what it is with these young boys and these foreign cars, nothing but headaches.

Old Head #3 - Man I had a Jag one time, thought I was fly, until that POS left me on the high way.

Me - *slowly getting frustrated*

Lmao it really do tho

Too many opinions and some of which don’t apply to every dude in here

 

[Astroslik]

Dealing with women. Women. Women friends. Girlfriends. Women we fukk. Women we owe alimony. Women. nikkas are bitter for no reason. This is the type of shyt that makes posters stop coming in here

Toxic af. And pretentious for no reason. Just assuming and redpill babble. I used to need this thread. I'm good now. I can get gems from men who are well rounded respectable individuals

nikkas getting emotional in here lol

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Dealing with women. Women. Women friends. Girlfriends. Women we fukk. Women we owe alimony. Women. nikkas are bitter for no reason. This is the type of shyt that makes posters stop coming in here

Toxic af. And pretentious for no reason. Just assuming and redpill babble. I used to need this thread. I'm good now. I can get gems from men who are well rounded respectable individuals

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Lmao it really do tho

Too many opinions and some of which don’t apply to every dude in here

not only in here, the Internet in general

We are all strangers behind a screen. We don’t know your life, experiences, flaws, etc. We can only comment on the information we are given and apply our OWN life experiences to give a sufficient answer

 

[Rozay Oro]

Girls/women are funny.

Eyeball you all day, but when you step up - she's thrown off by you actually talking to her.

Embarrassed for you. (You thought I was feeling you);.

Embarrassed at the situation. (We're at church! You could be at Church's Chicken and get the same response);

And low-key embarrassed at herself, for being so obvious. (Which is why she might keep staring).

Speaking to the audience/ lurkers

The real lesson is that trying to nail down what exactly went "wrong" is a fools errand.

You won't know, because she doesn't know.

They don't know why they do what they do.

She might give you a reason, but whatever she says is really only her trying to reconstruct the scenario in her mind, and then give you a plausible explanation, so that she can get out of the conversation and still keep her ego intact and keep yours down.

Stop looking for these things.

Because if I can hit you with 5-20 plausible reasons why one particular broad might do something there are infinite number of other reasons.

All that said - these broads change their minds at the drop of a dime, with zero new information.

Chick will have a change of heart, and in weeks to come she might listen in in your conversation, find a way to be in the same space as you, be in your line of sight, talk to the last person you just talked to... All types of creepy behavior. (when men do these things, it's labeled creepy).

This creep before is her putting you in a position to try again.

It's happened to me, and I've seen it happen to others. Approach a grown woman respectfully and discretely, especially one giving choosing signals, only to have her dismiss dude. Few weeks later, she realizes all of those initial feelings were not her real feelings.

Even though y'all could have been in matching tshirts, she can't approach you....

Lemme be clear, She might strike up a conversation, but she won't make herself vulnerable to hearing you say no to her. She has to preserve her sense of self.

That's the game she's playing, what many play.

Playing games is not having game.

nikka can I buy book or something on this shyt? I feel like idk much after reading this post.

 

[Ohene]

Dealing with women. Women. Women friends. Girlfriends. Women we fukk. Women we owe alimony. Women. nikkas are bitter for no reason. This is the type of shyt that makes posters stop coming in here

Toxic af. And pretentious for no reason. Just assuming and redpill babble. I used to need this thread. I'm good now. I can get gems from men who are well rounded respectable individuals

You’re whilin and projecting breh

 

[FrontoBama]

Got dammit this the incel thread my bad I thot this was the thought overload thread.

 

[Brandsdale]

You’re whilin and projecting breh

Leave him.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Got dammit this the incel thread my bad I thot this was the thought overload thread.

nikka what?

 

[Brandsdale]

not only in here, the Internet in general

We are all strangers behind a screen. We don’t know your life, experiences, flaws, etc. We can only comment on the information we are given and apply our OWN life experiences to give a sufficient answer

great point cause its also fairly easy to start nonsensical arguments on the internet as well

the reason i told yall to lowe the dude with the lady problem at work is cause dudes will come in here legit asking for help (myself included) but met with e-bullying, talking down to, trolling or flat out not being taken seriously. And when that happens, dudes start berating this group like its Fresh n Fit or sum when its really supposed to simply be a Guide

 

[Brandsdale]

Got dammit this the incel thread my bad I thot this was the thought overload thread.

lmao you see my point breh? @RaspberryFitted ^^

 

[Ahadi]

Any other stories? I’m confused

 

[Sonny Bonds]

That friend I was supposed to hang out with got food poisoning on Friday and moved to Denver on Sunday. Why in hell didn’t she say she was moving?

The woman I was supposed to go on a date with said she has a lot going on and wanted to reschedule. I hit her up today and got no response.