Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Sonny Bonds]

That friend I was supposed to hang out with got food poisoning on Friday and moved to Denver on Sunday. Why in hell didn’t she say she was moving?

The woman I was supposed to go on a date with said she has a lot going on and wanted to reschedule. I hit her up today and got no response.

 

[FrontoBama]

nikka what?

engrish, do u speak et

I posted in wrong thread.

lmao you see my point breh? @RaspberryFitted ^^

tell me the point too

 

[skyrunner1]

That friend I was supposed to hang out with got food poisoning on Friday and moved to Denver on Sunday. Why in hell didn’t she say she was moving?

The woman I was supposed to go on a date with said she has a lot going on and wanted to reschedule. I hit her up today and got no response.

You know what to do..


Hit up more women

 

[Ahadi]

That friend I was supposed to hang out with got food poisoning on Friday and moved to Denver on Sunday. Why in hell didn’t she say she was moving?

The woman I was supposed to go on a date with said she has a lot going on and wanted to reschedule. I hit her up today and got no response.

If she doesn’t reschedule after she declines, I’m not asking again.



If a joint really wants to see you, she’ll find a way. Just like that corporate job, or that girls trip, or Beyoncé concert, don’t believe these women are inept.

I used to say “this is where you provide another date” but I stopped because not only are you forcing it, you aren’t bringing out her best self, the best interaction or best sex.

 

[WIA20XX]

nikka can I buy book or something on this shyt? I feel like idk much after reading this post.

Appreciate it.

Been writing a book for years. These little one-offs are so easy to write.

But something that is more comprehensive, more instructive, more useful, that's the tough stuff.

 

[bigde09]

That friend I was supposed to hang out with got food poisoning on Friday and moved to Denver on Sunday. Why in hell didn’t she say she was moving?

The woman I was supposed to go on a date with said she has a lot going on and wanted to reschedule. I hit her up today and got no response.

If they were in to you they would see you even if they were damn near dying

 

[WIA20XX]

If they were in to you they would see you even if they were damn near dying

The trick is how to get a chick into you that heavy.

 

[ViShawn]

Online dating is cool and all but you have to remember that you're meeting absolute STRANGERS with their own interests, goals, and underlying issues. Last girl I realized WHY she was unmarried at her age.

I won't belabor the details but this is the woman I went on a second date with after the first date we hiked. She came over to my place for the second date. We cooked food together, played Scrabble, and had sex...three times in a row. The chemistry was amazing.

She hit me a day later telling me that she is super attracted to me, enjoyed our chemistry, but she feels we aren't compatible because she thinks she's "too rough around the edges" for me She later told me that she doesn't feel comfortable and confident around me She did admit it's her own insecurities.

She was a bit of a nerdy introvert girl and she did like to dress down. In some aspect she may was right. You come to my place and I had candles lit. Nice plants, a well stacked bookshelf. I own a few custom suits. I'm bougie! She's from a working class family as am I. Just super interesting because it felt like I was overqualified for the job

She also mentioned wanting to wait to give me her number until the second or third date, but we fukked on the second date

 

[RaspberryFitted]

great point cause its also fairly easy to start nonsensical arguments on the internet as well

the reason i told yall to lowe the dude with the lady problem at work is cause dudes will come in here legit asking for help (myself included) but met with e-bullying, talking down to, trolling or flat out not being taken seriously. And when that happens, dudes start berating this group like its Fresh n Fit or sum when its really supposed to simply be a Guide

I keep into account that many brehs have been here since 2012, and have answered the same questions over and over. They also assume other brehs are their age, so they will hit you with the If the question you asked sounds basic

That’s why being in my early 20s, I just read and give my insight where it fits. I have nothing profound to state in a thread full of brehs that have been married, divorced, had affairs, caught multiple STDs, etc

 

[RaspberryFitted]

engrish, do u speak et

I posted in wrong thread.



tell me the point too

I speak it, what I don’t speak is that passive aggressive ass posr that made me quote you

 

[FrontoBama]

I speak it, what I don’t speak is that passive aggressive ass posr that made me quote you

Nothing passsive aggressive. I don’t know you or your posts but now I’ll gladly say you’re a docile fakkit and your mother could suck dikk.

You felt personally attacked because the shoe fit. Don’t make it about me

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Nothing passsive aggressive. I don’t know you or your posts but now I’ll gladly say you’re a docile fakkit and your mother could suck dikk.

You felt personally attacked because the shoe fit. Don’t make it about me

you popped into a pinned thread with a clear title about some incel shyt when we just regular brehs speaking on women. Ion even think a female would do that.

Generation X and Baby Boomers did a horrendous job with these grown ass men out here.

 

[Ahadi]

Online dating is cool and all but you have to remember that you're meeting absolute STRANGERS with their own interests, goals, and underlying issues. Last girl I realized WHY she was unmarried at her age.

I won't belabor the details but this is the woman I went on a second date with after the first date we hiked. She came over to my place for the second date. We cooked food together, played Scrabble, and had sex...three times in a row. The chemistry was amazing.

She hit me a day later telling me that she is super attracted to me, enjoyed our chemistry, but she feels we aren't compatible because she thinks she's "too rough around the edges" for me She later told me that she doesn't feel comfortable and confident around me She did admit it's her own insecurities.

She was a bit of a nerdy introvert girl and she did like to dress down. In some aspect she may was right. You come to my place and I had candles lit. Nice plants, a well stacked bookshelf. I own a few custom suits. I'm bougie! She's from a working class family as am I. Just super interesting because it felt like I was overqualified for the job

She also mentioned wanting to wait to give me her number until the second or third date, but we fukked on the second date

That means you were dealing with a low level woman.

If she kept seeing you, she would have to elevate herself to your standards and she simply wouldn’t be able to keep up.

I’ve let go of many women like this, or they eliminate themselves because I hold myself to a high bar and whoever I’m with has to do the same.

They feel “pressured” or “not enough” or “reduce their confidence”

 

[FrontoBama]

you popped into a pinned thread with a clear title about some incel shyt when we just regular brehs speaking on women. Ion even think a female would do that.

Generation X and Baby Boomers did a horrendous job with these grown ass men out here.

No, I posted in the wrong thread and clearly edited it so as to not fukkup y’all lil seance here. Only you seem to have been personally attacked.

All this fist pumping back in my day shyt ain’t about nun cuz u in a thread asking for woman advice lmao.

Maybe you really don’t read English.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

No, I posted in the wrong thread and clearly edited it so as to not fukkup y’all lil seance here. Only you seem to have been personally attacked.

All this fist pumping back in my day shyt ain’t about nun cuz u in a thread asking for woman advice lmao.

Maybe you really don’t read English.

nikkas only call shyt a personal attack when you check ‘em on somethin’

you said some weirdo shyt, I questioned you on it, and you immediately acted like a lil ass boy