Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Bay Area, NY, Florida or Vancouver for baddest, easiest Asian women or does it depend on your type?

Side note, I really don't like white women. I had one basically throwing herself at me yesterday but I just was not into it. There wasn't even anything wrong with her.

Vancouver has more variety imo.

You get every type of asian women here including one's you won't find in big numbers in other places.

But you've gotta know how to move around them. Knowing certain little things will make you even more appealing.
 

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If a woman tells you she wants you to open up to her and let her be there for you, would yall brehs trust it? :wow:

I want to but I been burned so many times in my life. I got battle scars on top of battle scars and baggage that makes it so hard for me to trust any woman. :wow:

Opening up would have me feeling like a fish out of water, suffocating, not able to breathe, in an environment that I'm sure will be the death of me.:wow:

I talked to a therapist last week for the first time in my life and she told me "But isn't that what love is about? Being open and taking that chance?"

I know she's right but man... I don't know if I got it in me to take another L in love these days :wow:

The next one just might be the one that breaks your boy, have me laying in the bed playing sad love songs like :to:
then why ask a group of strangers when your therapist told you a solution?
 

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If a woman tells you she wants you to open up to her and let her be there for you, would yall brehs trust it? :wow:

I want to but I been burned so many times in my life. I got battle scars on top of battle scars and baggage that makes it so hard for me to trust any woman. :wow:

Opening up would have me feeling like a fish out of water, suffocating, not able to breathe, in an environment that I'm sure will be the death of me.:wow:

I talked to a therapist last week for the first time in my life and she told me "But isn't that what love is about? Being open and taking that chance?"

I know she's right but man... I don't know if I got it in me to take another L in love these days :wow:

The next one just might be the one that breaks your boy, have me laying in the bed playing sad love songs like :to:

yeah if im not dating her :heh:


anything you tell a woman she will use against you
remember samson and deliahah
 

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Silly question, but what do y'all think of stunting a bit on social media? Highlighting your lifestyle? I'm personally not into a lot of travel like some of these people. I travel for work for one and two I'm not enamored by a bunch of excessive travel, but I do have cool hobbies and interests. I post and highlight some stuff but I think social media/IG is a way to highlight your lifestyle resume if that makes sense and may help with attracting partners. Thoughts?
 

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Silly question, but what do y'all think of stunting a bit on social media? Highlighting your lifestyle? I'm personally not into a lot of travel like some of these people. I travel for work for one and two I'm not enamored by a bunch of excessive travel, but I do have cool hobbies and interests. I post and highlight some stuff but I think social media/IG is a way to highlight your lifestyle resume if that makes sense and may help with attracting partners. Thoughts?
Ig is really just a social resume. I post myself doing things I enjoy. Don't force it, use it to your advantage
 

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Ig is really just a social resume. I post myself doing things I enjoy. Don't force it, use it to your advantage
Yea really I just post pics of family, a photoshoot my friend wanted me in, some of my hobbies (gardening, cooking, martial arts) and maybe some travel.
 

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I've been thinking about getting a little clout for myself and using it, not just for dating, but for life in general.

It's sad, but that's what ppl find value in. They judge books by their covers. It might be time to make my book cover fancy.
Sad indeed. I for example just made an IG story about my tailor coming over and measuring me for a sportscoat. It signals I have disposable income to do that lol.
 

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Silly question, but what do y'all think of stunting a bit on social media? Highlighting your lifestyle? I'm personally not into a lot of travel like some of these people. I travel for work for one and two I'm not enamored by a bunch of excessive travel, but I do have cool hobbies and interests. I post and highlight some stuff but I think social media/IG is a way to highlight your lifestyle resume if that makes sense and may help with attracting partners. Thoughts?

I hate IG//Socials but to my own detriment. I know I probably miss out on a lot of plays not being on all that shyt.
If your able to use it to your advantage then do it for sure.
 

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Silly question, but what do y'all think of stunting a bit on social media? Highlighting your lifestyle? I'm personally not into a lot of travel like some of these people. I travel for work for one and two I'm not enamored by a bunch of excessive travel, but I do have cool hobbies and interests. I post and highlight some stuff but I think social media/IG is a way to highlight your lifestyle resume if that makes sense and may help with attracting partners. Thoughts?

Always.

Take a photo of a nice lounge, airplane wing, whatever. Always post something luxurious.

Lifestyle resume is important. It always keep these women up to date.
 

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Always.

Take a photo of a nice lounge, airplane wing, whatever. Always post something luxurious.

Lifestyle resume is important. It always keep these women up to date.

This girl I stopped seeing ran into me a few weeks back and was like "How are you :smile: I saw your IG stories I see you're traveling a lot". They definitely see it. I just may step it up a bit lmao.
 

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Silly question, but what do y'all think of stunting a bit on social media? Highlighting your lifestyle? I'm personally not into a lot of travel like some of these people. I travel for work for one and two I'm not enamored by a bunch of excessive travel, but I do have cool hobbies and interests. I post and highlight some stuff but I think social media/IG is a way to highlight your lifestyle resume if that makes sense and may help with attracting partners. Thoughts?

If you're in the game, it seems like you don't have an option.

Try getting a proper job and you don't have a LinkedIn....
 

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This girl I stopped seeing ran into me a few weeks back and was like "How are you :smile: I saw your IG stories I see you're traveling a lot". They definitely see it. I just may step it up a bit lmao.

Yup. It’s social currency at the end of the day. Just post something. Even if you’re alone. Women are goofy lol.

At a nice restaurant, snap your wine glass. Act like you’re with another woman or group of friends.

Look up expensive hotel bars, take a photo in the building, the atmosphere, food, etc.

Fragrances, spas, luxury shipping centers, concert, landmarks, etc. sell a dream (“this is what my life will look like with him”

Girls who fall for social media currency are birds, so just smash and keep it moving.
 

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Silly question, but what do y'all think of stunting a bit on social media? Highlighting your lifestyle? I'm personally not into a lot of travel like some of these people. I travel for work for one and two I'm not enamored by a bunch of excessive travel, but I do have cool hobbies and interests. I post and highlight some stuff but I think social media/IG is a way to highlight your lifestyle resume if that makes sense and may help with attracting partners. Thoughts?
i shy away from it cause I genuinely don’t know how to make a profile look “cool” for shorties and I haven’t got a chance to really travel plus I know women like to compare/compete on where they’ve travelled so

I’d rather not use it cause then it gives you a bit of mystery and less for her to judge me about.
 
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