Why are people so passive aggressive? Namely women since I'm in here. But I don't understand why. Just be upfront and honest. shyt is weird people don't know how to communicate. Grown adults giving "hints" and avoiding conflict
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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My IG is lit. I basically use it as a dating app.
I can meet a woman in person and she's not 100% sure about me. I exchange IG's and I can wear her out over time by replying to her stories and show casing my "lifestyle". I got women on backlog in my DM's.
Or sometimes we exchange IG's and we have mutual friends in common it gives me "Social proof" so I'm just not starting at zero.
Assuming your a real-life DJ, you playing it on a whole different playing field..
If homeboy can't ramp up, he might as well hit pavement and figure out a strategy...
This is dependent on alot of variables tho...
I'll say this. Every man has something they are talented in or a hobby they are passionate about.
If you draw. You need to post your drawings.
If you like cars. You need to post your BMW or Hellcat just riding through the city it don't even have to be complicated.
You like to travel. You need to post pics traveling.
You always eating at new restaurants you need to post your food.
You cook everyday. Post what you are cooking. I got a homeboy who grills. He post a pic of him grilling meat on his stories and his DMs just be flooded with hoes asking to come over for a plate.
Djin
Gym
Cooking
Nothing wrong with that
Because you can step into a
and make it worthwhileThe problem is most men are lowkey playing in the "trick/pay 2 play market"....
Whatever material lifestyle you put out, she is expecting...
Which leads to the frustration/confusion when the "switch up" occurs
some people just werent raised right man...
its unfortunate but it is what it is. things like that just make me disregard you as a person. im only gonna attempt to pull you to the side once. alot of people also let their emotions and fear keep them from being truthful. or they aren't prepared to defend or stand up for whatever issue they have with you. its not really my problem at that point. its some other nikkas problem cause it clearly isn't gonna be handled by themselves.
skyrunner1
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Its not in womens nature to talk directly or get in conflict.. That would take away much of their social power that is one of their trump cards that they can carry, you are bigger and stronger, that would not help them to get in conflict. Covert communication gives them a few things, ability to be ambiguous, plausible deniability, ability to manipulate, play up on madonna/whore complex, use your protector genes to their advantage, trickle truth, play dumb, gas light, play victim, avoid responsibility, discretion, etc.
Women use more words than men, maybe triple the amount, their brain lights up with chemical high when they communicate. They have no incentive to communicate directly, doing so would allow you to not play with a hand tied behind your back.
And the crazy part is, even though I'm not shallow by any means, most of these women who act arrogant aren't even bad. Legitimately the "damn the club is about to close and I haven't bagged a girl yet. Lemme just settle for this one right here"
Dudes will fukk anything. So these women's standards are unrealistically high with the validation they get from Tinder, Hinge, IG, etc. Dudes on their level or moderately higher are disrespected by them while they fawn over the nikkas way out of their league. They tell a guy "I'll let you know" but then tell another guy "I'm in a relationship but we can make something happen"
This is why I don't do dating apps. Just too much toxicity. All these games played from women online with no redeeming factors. It's not even worth smashing at that point. Gen Z lost
Dudes will fukk anything. So these women's standards are unrealistically high with the validation they get from Tinder, Hinge, IG, etc. Dudes on their level or moderately higher are disrespected by them while they fawn over the nikkas way out of their league. They tell a guy "I'll let you know" but then tell another guy "I'm in a relationship but we can make something happen"
This is why I don't do dating apps. Just too much toxicity. All these games played from women online with no redeeming factors. It's not even worth smashing at that point. Gen Z lost
skyrunner1
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marriedRP, havent seen that in a hot minute.. I will say from that reddit stuff they had probably best sidebar overall..
I was searching Reddit to see if they referenced this book I just finished The Tactical Guide To Women and I found it.
Vetting women is crucial for a long term partner. Some of the shyt I thought were small later blew up in my face. I've learned a lot from my last break up and how to be more discerning.
Dance_Like_A_Fiend
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44 more minutes until Russian valentines day. s dnem Svyatogo Valentina. (s-nyom sva-to-vah va-len-tina)
It took me a minute but I can finally pronounce it without sounding weird.
Edit: She thought it was cute AND I got a chance to bust out my guitar.
It took me a minute but I can finally pronounce it without sounding weird.
Edit: She thought it was cute AND I got a chance to bust out my guitar.
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skyrunner1
Superstar
When I first heard about it, I was like isnt that an oxymoron type thing, using short term strategies for long term goals.. Later on I poked around and saw their sidebar was better and overall it was better.. Guess it can help those looking for the ltr situation.
@skyrunner1 you mentioned that women and their brains light up with a chemical high when they communicate. What about extroverts in general, not just women? And also, women and people who are introverts don't get a chemical high when they communicate.