Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ViShawn]

Yup. It’s social currency at the end of the day. Just post something. Even if you’re alone. Women are goofy lol.

At a nice restaurant, snap your wine glass. Act like you’re with another woman or group of friends.

Spoiler: Tips

Look up expensive hotel bars, take a photo in the building, the atmosphere, food, etc.

Fragrances, spas, luxury shipping centers, concert, landmarks, etc. sell a dream (“this is what my life will look like with him”

Girls who fall for social media currency are birds, so just smash and keep it moving.

The thing is I do like nice shyt haha. When I generally do it, it's authentic, but I get the whole 'sell the dream' thing a bit.

Sometimes I'm posting memes or interesting stuff also.

I get what you're saying @Brandsdale to your point too.

 

[WIA20XX]

There are a lot of ways to do the IG game.

I think the default is "luxury lifestyle" - and basically copying the typical Dubai chick's page

• Beaches
• Exotic Animals
• Fancy food at sit down restaurants
• Icons of the locale (Eiffel Tower, Leaning Tower of Pisa, Christ the Redeemer)
• Famous people in the background

You can chat AI generate a lot of this these days

But there are other ways to craft a better message imo.

Cause it's a visual medium, you can tell an entirely different story than Luxury Travel Guy (which can easily slide into "sleazy" passport bro)

 

[ViShawn]

@WIA20XX funny how much people LOVE beaches. I like national parks, waterfalls, forests, etc. This may be a tangent but I don't like most beaches but I will go with a girlfriend. The women here like going to Mexico or a tropical location I've noticed.

 

[WIA20XX]

@WIA20XX funny how much people LOVE beaches. I like national parks, waterfalls, forests, etc. This may be a tangent but I don't like most beaches but I will go with a girlfriend. The women here like going to Mexico or a tropical location I've noticed.

Yup. I see profiles like this




And most of the time - 99% of pictures are them, by themselves.

• No friends.
• No girlfriends.
• No family.

I think that they think this looks good.

To me they look lonely, almost like a product on a shelf.

 

[ViShawn]

Yup. I see profiles like this




And most of the time - 99% of pictures are them, by themselves.

• No friends.
• No girlfriends.
• No family.

I think that they think this looks good.

To me they look lonely, almost like a product on a shelf.

Looks sad and vapid. Last few posts of mine are food, family, friends, hobbies. I think there's a level of showing your lifestyle is good and being authentic because it helps you avoid women like this. I'm thinking long term stuff right now.

 

[Brandsdale]

The thing is I do like nice shyt haha. When I generally do it, it's authentic, but I get the whole 'sell the dream' thing a bit.

Sometimes I'm posting memes or interesting stuff also.

I get what you're saying @Brandsdale to your point too.

yeah. Its not that im a boring ass person its just hard to "sell the dream" when you're not doing it genuinely.



I got mad pics and videos from Jamaica from a couple months back but but I aint in any of em

 

[skyrunner1]

Silly question, but what do y'all think of stunting a bit on social media? Highlighting your lifestyle? I'm personally not into a lot of travel like some of these people. I travel for work for one and two I'm not enamored by a bunch of excessive travel, but I do have cool hobbies and interests. I post and highlight some stuff but I think social media/IG is a way to highlight your lifestyle resume if that makes sense and may help with attracting partners. Thoughts?

I hate IG//Socials but to my own detriment. I know I probably miss out on a lot of plays not being on all that shyt.
If your able to use it to your advantage then do it for sure.

We had this discussion a few weeks back, if you are already on social media then its a resounding YES, use it to your advantage and put on your marketing/branding hat when you do it. Especially with the way social media like IG is used nowadays, its a direct line to marketing yourself and lifestyle endlessly to your target market who engages in this medium more than anything else. There are numerous benefits I am sure most in here understand and have mentioned some being:

-Keeping loose ties on hook or in sphere.
-Lukewarm leads turn warm, warm leads reach out to you.
-someone who might be tied to someone else, lets you know when they are back in market for that slim window.
-Easy for friends of friends to make it known they have interest.

This honestly seems like something most guys arent aware of or seem to lack understanding in general, vibes matter, aesthetics matter. Something as simple as where you sit in basketball game has affect on response you will receive. Havent had season tix since the Lebron era , but still go to games and sit in range from nosebleeds to wood seats with access to the club, the response you get when you sitting wood is much different.. Even being at a game with a chick will get you a response lol..

I dont even like to post my business like that on SM but I see the value in it and if dudes use social media they would be foolish not to curate it in a way that helps them achieve maximum wanted response.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Yep trust me women notice and note what you're doing even if you and her arent back and forth.

The sort of women I attract are usually doing well for themselves, but lack the kind of company to really stimulate them.

I like to eat at nice places with good company. Or go to cool art or cultural events.

I rarely show the women I'm with. Its mostly food shots with their hands or lower chest in shots. Very occasionally I'll post a pic and get lots of who is that comments.

A few months back the hapa chick I'm seeing took me out to a classical music event. So we took a selfie and posted it.

She has a very unique look. The sort to get other women curious. So many DMs from chicks I know asking who she was.

Just told them a friend. Now when I posted my recent short break with me and her in a hot tub, they were all over my stories.

I also do another thing which is good and gets the message across in fewer stories. Create a collage of pictures. Now instead of having 4-5 stories you can have 2 and leave it at that.

 

[Ahadi]

Confirming a date for tomorrow.

Tell her the time tomorrow & that you’ll be behind?

Or dub the date? (Haven’t spoken since Sunday)

P.S. phone is on DND

 

[International Playa]

Confirming a date for tomorrow.

Tell her the time tomorrow & that you’ll be behind?

Or dub the date? (Haven’t spoken since Sunday)

P.S. phone is on DND

Confirm the details with her the day before the date. Women have friends or other dudes trying to get their time, she might have changed her mind. Always confirm the day before

 

[WIA20XX]

Confirming a date for tomorrow.

Tell her the time tomorrow & that you’ll be behind?

Or dub the date? (Haven’t spoken since Sunday)

P.S. phone is on DND

I like to confirm morning of, but I try to design dates to account for universal lack of punctuality.

Typical date is dinner, so I pick spots that are centrally located to other broads, I mean activities. I'll get there before time and try to warm up with staff and random strangers.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Should I re download tinder and fukk a couple women before I delete it and start dating again or should I just chill and let opportunities come in person? Need to scratch this itch

 

[360dagod]

I hate IG//Socials but to my own detriment. I know I probably miss out on a lot of plays not being on all that shyt.
If your able to use it to your advantage then do it for sure.

Yeah I'm good on that as well..

Just gotta be good wit the wordplay and meet women lol

 

[Ohene]

I hate IG//Socials but to my own detriment. I know I probably miss out on a lot of plays not being on all that shyt.
If your able to use it to your advantage then do it for sure.

Same as you
I’ll never be on that wave

 

[360dagod]

Same as you
I’ll never be on that wave

You never hear about the ones who get "holding the bag"

more men would have an easier time meeting women normally than to try to play the social media game where they lack the maneuvering to compete..