Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

There is a minimum level of efficiency that imo must be taken into consideration

If a female dosent reach the "target zone" of what your looking for from the basic age/looks category,

It was a net loss as soon as you left the crib

 

[re'up]

There's no doubt that kind of dynamic gets messy and complicated. Not trying to see 4-5 people a week, maybe 4-5 a month. And that's a reach. All this categorizing and holding up marriage as the ultimate goal, makes it all complicated, much more so than anyone probably really wants.

but, that's it's own ordeal, because mostly everyone is going to go with who wants a serious relationship, so people are always dropping off/ghosting, in my experience.

 

[Dave24]

Now I can't say that I'm a religious man at all. It's just not me but let me get into Jesus freak mode for a bit...

Have you ever noticed that it's always the flabby and sick (former hoes/single moms/spinsters) ones who go hard in the paint for Jesus when they've ruined their life?

Jesus is perfect, alright...He's the perfect nice guy that every woman wants after she's over the hill. The ultimate beta. Think about that for a second.

After she's used up and her p*ssy is no longer a draw, she has nothing to offer but she wants a man who:

Will love her for her...
Provide in times of need and want...
Who won't fukk her and chuck her...
Who won't judge her past...
Who will tell her she is beautiful/amazing despite reality showing otherwise...

Jesus provides all that and then some. Plus she doesn't have to see him at all and technically, she gets her "provider/backup guy". It's the perfect setup.

Despite his perfection, Jesus is not someone who you should learn "manhood" from, fellas. Everything he did, although noble and for a higher purpose, was beta/simping/textbook nice guy moves. Also, that martyrdom complex didn't help. Aside from the time he went ham and screamed on those dudes in the temple, he wasn't alpha at all. But this is what the church pumps up as the path to follow.

And sadly, many boys are indoctrinated in "nice guy" Jesus who caught far too many L's instead of God (who never simped and constantly laid down the law on these females). Notice how big Easter and Christmas are in America? Two days celebrating the birth and re-birth of the "perfect nice guy". These are the major Christian holidays that we celebrate. We don't celebrate God's creation of the world or the time that he unleashed that flood that wiped the Earth's population but showed enough mercy to let us start over again.

If you trying to deal with these women out here, you have to retrain yourself from being like Jesus to being like God himself. Whatever God did, do it. The Bible laid the groundwork on how men are supposed to act in an dominant alpha way.

When God said something and it wasn't followed...he came down on them hard. That person was either cut off, cursed, killed or whatever but God made sure he was his word was followed.
When God gave a person something and it wasn't appreciated...he took it from them and let them suffer. They usually ended up coming back and begging for mercy.
God was so consistent that it ensured loyalty. He removed himself from Job and Job still stood by him because he knew God wouldn't forsake him (like he did before his trials and tribulations).

The playbook has been there all along yet your pastors and your female relatives never focus on that part. It's always about humility, mercy, forgiveness and all the nice guy stuff that Jesus was perfect at. That's fine for getting through life but it's not manly at all. Women love it because it absolves them from their own personal failures. My last post about the farmer and the snake pretty much boils down to a man who shows mercy and forgiveness is bound to get fukked over. This is what they drill in men constantly.

And preachers wonder why men don't deal with church. The shyt they put out now goes against a man's interest in every way. In the end, God never compromised who he was in any given situation. No exceptions, no mercy. And neither should you.

TL;DR: The church is a breeding ground for simps and suckers because of what they teach and focus on. However, you can remedy this by approaching situations as God would approach them...not Jesus.

@MMS

@Soldier

@Ghost Utmost

 

[RealAssanova]

in business, and in life, to me, one key aspect is building connections, and maintaining them long term. if someone is truly awful, for sure, cut them off.

I think the idea that everyone is going to do what you want them to do exactly when you want it, is not realistic. Why burn the contact?

There is just something that wouldn’t sit right with me speaking to a woman who decided to come back to me later on down the line. I can be cordial and friendzone her…but that’s it.

There are women out there that will be with you from the start. I’d much rather entertain those ones.

 

[Ohene]

Correct.

This is not the generation to put your eggs in one basket. Cause best believe, these women are not.

You need at-least 3-4. I’d even have one for each day (cept Fri-Sunday), assign each woman a dedicated day. Meet them once a week.

If they apply pressure, give them Friday or Saturday.

Lol i find most women too annoying for all that

Plus man’s got to work, go to the gym , enjoy some alone time etc

2 shorties a week max. i would alternate on weekends during the time i was single

 

[The ADD]

Lol i find most women too annoying for all that

Plus man’s got to work, go to the gym , enjoy some alone time etc

2 shorties a week max. i would alternate on weekends during the time i was single

Your girl righted the ship?

 

[Ohene]

in business, and in life, to me, one key aspect is building connections, and maintaining them long term. if someone is truly awful, for sure, cut them off.

I think the idea that everyone is going to do what you want them to do exactly when you want it, is not realistic. Why burn the contact?

Some ppl simply too egotistical bro. Don’t waste your time

 

[Ohene]

Your girl righted the ship?

Not fully yet but her being alone has really forced her to think and reflect on her bullshyt. So i am definitely seeing a lot progress in her mentality and even contrition .

Regardless, when/if she returns its going to continue to take some work for us to get on the same page. I’m also finding it within myself to not be resentful

 

[Astroslik]

Spoiler: Outdoor dates for summer

Outdoor dates for Spring / Summer:

Coffee
Ice Cream / Frozen Yogurt / Vegan Ice Cream / Protein Shake
Happy Hour
Bottle of Wine in the park / pier
Outdoor concert
Go for a Walk

If she says no to this, BUSHES!

 

[MikelArteta]

Lol i find most women too annoying for all that

Plus man’s got to work, go to the gym , enjoy some alone time etc

2 shorties a week max. i would alternate on weekends during the time i was single

i have 3 this week and may set up a few more

 

[The ADD]

Spoiler: Outdoor dates for summer

Outdoor dates for Spring / Summer:

Coffee
Ice Cream / Frozen Yogurt / Vegan Ice Cream / Protein Shake
Happy Hour
Bottle of Wine in the park / pier
Outdoor concert
Go for a Walk

“Dates” in the summer

 

[Ahadi]

From women having periods to life getting in the way for both parties, there is no margin for error...

And if they play their cards right, they can whine and finesse their way into a weekend?lol

The ones that don't get their weekend now you in the "hole"...

Mind you, it's highly unlikely you choose even halfway correct cuz it's highly unlikely all of them got a fair shot lol

You can always base things off energy. Even if you give each of them a weekday, you can see which ones will fight for you harder.

 

[Ahadi]

“Dates” in the summer

Not dates, let’s say activities lol low effort activities.

 

[Ahadi]

Lol i find most women too annoying for all that

Plus man’s got to work, go to the gym , enjoy some alone time etc

2 shorties a week max. i would alternate on weekends during the time i was single

I hit the gym in the AM, work my primary job around 9-3ish / side hustles 3-7. Link with the joints around 8-10, in prox to me.

I’ll hit hot yoga & boxing once a week. So gives me space for 4 quick link up sessions.

I keep my weekends free for new talent & alone time.

 

[360dagod]

You can always base things off energy. Even if you give each of them a weekday, you can see which ones will fight for you harder.

Lol