Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Lots of reasons, circumstances change, relationships end or start to go badly, their other option got into a relationship, you happened to come into their mind,

my advice is don't hold grudges and don't lead with an ego. Be open. Not everyone is feeling you exactly when you are feeling them.

I know not everyone is the same, but I can switch attractions rapidly, all it takes is a few minutes, so I never let someone I like/I want pass by me, because of my ego.

also, give the same kind of grace you would want given. my approach to these things is a lot softer than a lot of advice men will give, but to me, so much of that is just based in like belligerence lol they want to outraged and angry, more than they want the person.
good advice here.
 

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I think we exaggerate just how much active these chicks. Many of them are mad lonely and just waiting for a nikka to approach. What kills myself and brehs is we think these chicks got someone when in reality they dont.
Facts, the current lady I'm talking to from Hinge all she does is work, go out once every few months with her girls.

Last lady I slept with off hinge also,very cute she works nights at hospital, all she does is go to work, go home watch Netflix & drink wine. She had just broke up with her ex. She gave me the ass on the first date.

Many lonely single women out here looking for a dude to chill with & have some fun. Dating apps are goldmine, but vet properly, some of these chicks got issues.
 
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Had a date today with a white woman first time since 2014

Forgot how easy I get along with white women :mjpls:

Was nice can’t complain

Reminded myself to forget being loyal to my race, do what makes you happy brehs, going to continue going out with white women and other races
 

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Say someone sent a (corny pickup line) DM to a girl and it worked. What does he send next? Asking for a friend. Usually he just wings it but this girl in question is like a solid 9/10 and actually pretty close to where he lives.
I usually ask ,what does she love doing for fun.If she got pics, I ask about something in her pics, like if she got vacation pics, I ask which nice places has she been to or any upcoming vacation plans.
 

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Lots of reasons, circumstances change, relationships end or start to go badly, their other option got into a relationship, you happened to come into their mind,

my advice is don't hold grudges and don't lead with an ego. Be open. Not everyone is feeling you exactly when you are feeling them. Or the exact same way. Or they are feeling you, but someone is closer to them, or they have more history. Whatever. There are a dozen variables.

I know not everyone is the same, but I can switch attractions rapidly, all it takes is a few minutes, so I never let someone I like/I want pass by me, because of my ego.

also, give the same kind of grace you would want given. my approach to these things is a lot softer than a lot of advice men will give, but to me, so much of that is just based in like belligerence lol they want to outraged and angry, more than they want the person.

I don't want her anymore. She's not the type of girl I want. She's bad but that's it really. And when I asked her if she was interested after I peeped her giving me signs she tried to act like she wasn't giving me the signs

Now she's doing what she did again eyeing me up and down like I can't see her looking at me from my peripheral. Doing shyt like walking in front of me with her ass out then looking back to see if I'm staring

I don't have time for the games. I'm not smashing and dashing a coworker. I need a woman of God. I'm too young to be this mature. If I hear I'm wise beyond my years one more time
:unimpressed:
 

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Why? Genuinely curious.

Are you currently in a relationship or thinking of wifing someone down?

Yeah I'm pretty trying to lock something down

But I was more of a casual fling type than a serial dater...

So if someone meets the basic guidelines of what I want, I'm gonna give it a chance off rip...

Serial dating for men is an issue cuz no one is ever good enough and it's pretty much a hula-hoop that ends in unhappiness and wasted time...

I'm not saying to not "play the field", but continually disqualifying because you don't find 100% compatibility is gonna lead to bitterness..
 

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I don't want her anymore. She's not the type of girl I want. She's bad but that's it really. And when I asked her if she was interested after I peeped her giving me signs she tried to act like she wasn't giving me the signs

Now she's doing what she did again eyeing me up and down like I can't see her looking at me from my peripheral. Doing shyt like walking in front of me with her ass out then looking back to see if I'm staring

I don't have time for the games. I'm not smashing and dashing a coworker. I need a woman of God. I'm too young to be this mature. If I hear I'm wise beyond my years one more time
:unimpressed:

You might have jumped the gun in your approach..lol

Being that you guys are co-workers and have daily proximity, it should have been more of a I'm gonna chip at the wall instead of trying to bulldoze the bytch down..
 

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You might have jumped the gun in your approach..lol

Being that you guys are co-workers and have daily proximity, it should have been more of a I'm gonna chip at the wall instead of trying to bulldoze the bytch down..
Had to jump the gun. Didn't have time to be her friend for 5 months. Plus we don't see each other every day. Each shift is 12 hours and we rotate shifts and units. So we don't always work at the same place

I was chipping until she made it obvious she wanted me. After a couple weeks texting I asked her straight up in person because I didn't have time. Then she acted like she never even gave hints. I'm not even dating right now. When I say I'm working on myself I'm not fukking nothing. Strictly self improvement. So I don't have time for thick Jezebels tempting me at work

Now she's doing the hints again but it's too late. After getting to know her a little more she isn't a match for me. Lowkey think it's an attention validation seeking thing. But I never pursued her before she showed interest first. I want something serious. With what I'm about to do in my career I don't have time to waste entertaining multiple women and not having a solid one hold me down. If we weren't working together it would be different. Might smash once or whatever. But nah
 
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