Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I do think the 70-75% rule should be taken advantage of..

She gives you 70-75% of what your looking for and whatever else she is missing can be managed/and or worked on, it might be a good time to cash in and cash out...
More like get the25% from another girl

Women these days don’t like to be managed or changed. They take it as condescension or like you’re telling them theyre not good enough
 

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Why do women do little shyt to try to get your attention after you stop pursuing them? When they acted the opposite while you were pursuing

It's too late bytch I dont want you anymore
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Lots of reasons, circumstances change, relationships end or start to go badly, their other option got into a relationship, you happened to come into their mind,

my advice is don't hold grudges and don't lead with an ego. Be open. Not everyone is feeling you exactly when you are feeling them. Or the exact same way. Or they are feeling you, but someone is closer to them, or they have more history. Whatever. There are a dozen variables.

I know not everyone is the same, but I can switch attractions rapidly, all it takes is a few minutes, so I never let someone I like/I want pass by me, because of my ego.

also, give the same kind of grace you would want given. my approach to these things is a lot softer than a lot of advice men will give, but to me, so much of that is just based in like belligerence lol they want to outraged and angry, more than they want the person.
 
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Lol if you say so
im just fukkin around lol
lord knows my punk ass been putting ample work into guiding my shorty

smh. still its important not to put all your eggs in a basket.

i truly believe women cant handle the pressure that comes with a man putting all faith in them. Better off having other woman that you talk to and spend time with platonically to fill in certain gaps because a woman isnt going to develop certain interests or attributes without feeling resentful. Its just the way they are.

I for example love women who are intellectual. I realized after a while that my girl isnt really that smart though and is too emotionally driven to have a lot of the debates or discussions I like to have. Would rather have that sort of dialogue with another woman on a no-strings attached basis than constantly try to edify my woman - making her feel condescended in the process.
 

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and I know the feeling because at least 3-4 people hit me just last week

and of course, I remember and I am thinking, "yeah, you ghosted me in January", you want to ask what I am doing months later? another was calling me, and I was joking around, she said "what I can't call you to say hi", and I said of course you can, it's just never happened, all the years I've known you lol

another just texted me at like 8;00 AM, "Hi, how are doing?" werido shyt to me, but I replied normally, and never got an answer.
 

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I think we exaggerate just how much active these chicks. Many of them are mad lonely and just waiting for a nikka to approach. What kills myself and brehs is we think these chicks got someone when in reality they dont.
Fr Most of these social media broads don’t really get approached in real life

Never take what they say online seriously. It’s mostly cap

Deep inside, these broads are lonely af, horny af and bored af.
 

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im just fukkin around lol
lord knows my punk ass been putting ample work into guiding my shorty

smh. still its important not to put all your eggs in a basket.

i truly believe women cant handle the pressure that comes with a man putting all faith in them. Better off having other woman that you talk to and spend time with platonically to fill in certain gaps because a woman isnt going to develop certain interests or attributes without feeling resentful. Its just the way they are.

I for example love women who are intellectual. I realized after a while that my girl isnt really that smart though and is too emotionally driven to have a lot of the debates or discussions I like to have. Would rather have that sort of dialogue with another woman on a no-strings attached basis than constantly try to edify my woman - making her feel condescended in the process.

I understand your point..

But convo wise, most women wanna keep it light with a touch of seriousness..
If you trying to get in-depth about Russia and Ukraine then yeah you might need to outsource lol
 

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Fr Most of these social media broads don’t really get approached in real life

Never take what they say online seriously. It’s mostly cap

Deep inside, these broads are lonely af, horny af and bored af.
it depends too though

some of them are lonely because they are picky
some of them (in the younger generations) lack the social skills and dont even know how to react to being approached
 
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