Mannnn, 30 years ago dudes didnt have the internet to trade notes, while he was putting in work for 2 years she was getting that work from somewhere else, if you knew better, you do better. He is playing to the results but its a different game now even more so. This dude would be top candidate to be torn out the frame nowadays. There is like a 30 page thread right now in TLR on this very thing. You met the one guy who made it out relatively unscathed but we know there is maybe 10 who got torn out frame, divorce rape, or even ate a bullet. This info is just to help you move with eyes wide open breh. I would never NEVER tell a breh wait 2 years
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@Reality broke it down perfectly in that thread.
I’m in that thread and read the post and agree w these taking points. What I’m arguing for is to not being so impatient and quickly writing off a girl because she didn’t give up fast enough to your liking. Being salty about the girl you’re interested in and she’s interested in you at the very least on a platonic level is getting fukked shows a lack of seeing the bigger picture. Sure she very well may have been doing that but she’s not w those dudes now. I get it mens ego can be fragile, and this should only hurt you if you’re not doing your own thing as well. I’ve been on both sides so this is also from personal experience.
I’ve had a lot of women friends that we’ve had casual flings in between or during our respective relationships at the time and I can say on my end I had no intentions of that dynamic playing out we simply enjoyed our company. Being in a platonic relationship w the opposite sex will always have this pendulum swing of emotions at some point of time those feelings develop, it’s natural. A major con in modern dating is how no one knows how to stick it out anymore. Honkey driver was calling them seasons but I like to call them cycles where everything is going good to all the way bad and u want to end the shyt. Those cycles can last for years sometimes but if you have enough logic to problem solve and deescalate arguments in a healthy manner those hate cycles shouldn’t last that long. Again this is a recent thought as humans we are creatures of habit and it’s hard to break out and try new things in general. And having that genuine friendship goes a long way.
There’s a reason why us as men are very cautious of women who have male best friends we know the fukking deal soon as she gets vulnerable she’s gonna vent to him and maybe fukk him. shyt nowadays these Homo nikkas is fukking bytches to have kids because these women don’t want to die w/o a family and lonely. Been in a lot of relationships the ones where I pursued for based on surface level beauty or if I know she’s easy that shyt don’t really last and hit for me. But I’ve never been in a relationship w a woman that I did establish a solid friend foundation, I do what most of us do and move on the next one. So I’ll run you down on my game plan. I got the drop on her, so it’s not hard for me to pull up on her, now I’m not gonna go out the gate and plead my case you can never reason w women I’ll simply do the you know you miss a nikka stop playing tactic and that point I feel like I’m in a win-win situation I’m anticipating the horrible response but I’ll just flip it and be nonchalant on some Ite bet shyt.
That might not get the result I want that day but I’m confident that comment will plant a seed. From what I know and heard from people around is she’s burned her bridges so everybody that was cheerleading against me so her own peeps don’t even fukk w her no more. She’s petrified by the sheer mention of my name that alone shows I still have a hold on her emotions. She said she wasn’t the jealous type but she was getting mad when I started talking to the badder bytches when we fell out I felt it because she was trying to get back at me by flirting w damn there everybody in the store bro lmao. But she knows that I think too highly of myself to feel bothered by that because I have this aura about me that I think I’m better than everyone else and those inferior versions just won’t compare to me. Whether it’s true or not that’s how I carry myself, it’s been like that as long as I remember and some notice some dont. I’m open to other tactics/suggestions I really want to pull this off because if I don’t I think I’m destined to die by the p*ssy atp I’m fukking more than ever now I got about 10 bodies in this year already and even though it’s fun like all things but the drawbacks are scary. The risk of being set up, the risk of them being in a relationship/marriage and the dude barging in crashing out or I have to crash out. Unwanted pregnancies/children and of course STDs. I’m already in the 60s as body counts go and thankfully most of those haven’t happened to me but I’m rotating 3-4 girls a month some weeks I don’t feel like it but I’ll force myself to do this for the next 35 years give or take that’s well over four digit body count. I hate coordinating plays, constantly washing my bed sheets going through the motions of small talk because I don’t feel anything for the girls I’m fukking now. I don’t even want to revisit them knowing they want to do unless my plan doesn’t work out I guess I’ll be ok it can be worse I can be an incel, I’m just a regular celibate that gets laid whether I avoid it or not recently I’ve been avoiding and I’m still smashing it’s lost it’s luster long ago
TLDR: if this bytch don’t take me back I’m going full Charlie Sheen 4L unhappily.
