Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Serious]

sheesh lol. You pretty much described my girl. Maybe its in the DNA.

My girl left yesterday and got her own spot for a month. The week leading up to her leaving she was very humble and contrite so we will see how things go. If she's ready to come back with a better perspective on life/relationships I will give it a shot; otherwise we will both have to cut our losses.

And yea man, I been doing a lot. Doesn't necessarily amount to the fact she quit a good job and left everything behind to come to Canada but she needs to play her position and recognize what she has. As corny as it sounds...I know my worth.

That’s what I was thinking as well, when you described your girl.

But I think it’s just their culture.

Like the best way to put it, is that they want / expect to be checked.

Otherwise they’ll be a habitual line stepper in regards to conflict.

And I feel you. What with me, is that petty conflicts started happening so much and the clingyness was so obsessive to the point where I couldn’t get shyt done if she was around. I just felt stressed and on edge all the time.

I knew it was a wrap when I was like, I feel way more productive and at peace when she’s away then when she’s here.

 

[re'up]

Depending on your goals, bottle service is one of the most inefficient ways to meet women you can imagine. In a night club, nothing is real, everything is transactional, the alcohol/drugs, the music, other tables, you are competing with so many distractions. I know guys who are not dumb, not ugly, have money, their success rate with women and clubs is low. Most people hooking up in clubs are already connected somehow. The club sells a fantasy to people who want to pay for it. it's like a really long game you have to play until early morning hours. A lot of people exchange numbers, very few lead to anything. It's like a pageant. The goal of a nightclub is to get you to part with your money.

I have spend A LOT of time in this scene, and my friends still do, like I know it intimately. My friends are GM's at clubs, my boys are all or were ballers who dropped 20k a month in the club, or whatever, I go out with bottle service girls, I know all the people in those scenes.

 

[Silkk]

Its wild when you stop caring & see some of your old chicks out here doing bad without you…..



Ahh well, Wish em the best.

 

[Brandsdale]

I don't feel "on" anymore. I think my social battery is depleted

just need to find that spark again breh

seen 2 chics together shaped like violet myers at the gym today and I think it was the motivation i needed

 

[Apollo Creed]

just need to find that spark again breh

seen 2 chics together shaped like violet myers at the gym today and I think it was the motivation i needed

Yall boys need to find some damn inner purpose

 

[The ADD]

Yall boys need to find some damn inner purpose

 

[Apollo Creed]

Bro everything these nikkas do be based around hoes.

Where da hoez at ENT

 

[The ADD]

Bro everything these nikkas do be based around hoes.

Where da hoez at ENT

I was trying to get some positive interaction stories going but it seems to loop back so I figured that’s what the thread generally is now

 

[Brandsdale]

Yall boys need to find some damn inner purpose

lol im good dawg. sex never was a priority and still isnt

jus good to be out socializing and interacting with people instead of being anti-social





also, theres way more dudes in here batting a thousand with these stories about hoes(hollering at gyms, shorty workplace, on road, in traffic, in line somewhere etc.). Im actually being reserved as shyt lol

 

[Brandsdale]

I was trying to get some positive interaction stories going but it seems to loop back so I figured that’s what the thread generally is now

edit

 

[Brandsdale]

any time i try to uplift a brotha in here it backfires



done trying lol

 

[Ahadi]

any time i try to uplift a brotha in here it backfires



done trying lol

Can’t save everyone

 

[Brandsdale]

Can’t save everyone

tryna help a nikka and now im labeled as a sex fiend



















i dont even be fukkin that much to even identify as such

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

whatever

 

[skyrunner1]

I’m not sure how I landed on this post lol.

But this is interesting. So.. do you think bottle service covers up flaws? I’m having a brain science moment



Or will you’re image still be tainted? Because of your “suss” friend group

Dont think it covers up flaws, but its a honeypot in that environment for sure with a certain type..

Also I dont think it makes your friend group "suss" if they not on that, you just need to link with people who are on that type of time..