Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

dont know how brehs have the patience for this shyt
worst part about being single lol

gotta get 10 numbers just to find 2 that are worth sumn

To be fair...

He turned down an opportunity....

I understand why he did cuz I be tired as well..

But he turned down the opportunity, so he gotta just ride it out

 

[Ohene]

To be fair...

He turned down an opportunity....

I understand why he did cuz I be tired as well..

But he turned down the opportunity, so he gotta just ride it out

Opportunity to help a chick out with her mirror

Lol i am not getting at you cause i know the game . Just a shame that men have let the pendulum swing this far

 

[John Reena]

Yeah this situation you don't double text/call and simply see if she run it back...

Mane, I broke a MAJOR Pimp rule and texted that bird.

Smh.

So disgusted with myself.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Opportunity to help a chick out with her mirror

Lol i am not getting at you cause i know the game . Just a shame that men have let the pendulum swing this far

Its crazy still no guarantee ol boy gets any.

 

[re'up]

There is more recently, last 10 years or so, what academics would call a "pathologizing" of mostly normal behaviors, which would include simple misunderstandings, the sometimes awkward human interactions of meeting someone new, things like that, are now: "oh that's gaslighting", "They left me on read", "they didn't text me back right away", "soft ghosting", people have classified behavior down to this extremely narrow level

and you tie that to the idea that you "cut" people off, "ghost" people", "block" people whatever term, (you see the link between those three terms?) people are often very, very quick to look for ways to cut off a connection

in their mind, they are trying to be productive, protecting themselves, efficient, whatever, but it leads to a lot of posturing, hyper vigilance, extremely conditional, about minor things.

Like the mirror story, or the "hey shorty" texts.

 

[The ADD]

There is more recently, last 10 years or so, what academics would call a "pathologizing" of mostly normal behaviors, which would include simple misunderstandings, the sometimes awkward human interactions of meeting someone new, things like that, are now: "oh that's gaslighting", "he's leaving me on read", "they didn't text me back right away", "soft ghosting", people have classified behavior down to this extremely narrow level

and you tie that to the idea that you "cut" people off, "ghost" people", "block" people whatever term, (you see the link between those three terms?) people are often very, very quick to look for ways to cut off a connection

in their mind, they are trying to be productive, efficient, whatever, but it leads to a lot of posturing, hyper vigilance, extremely conditional, about minor things.

Like the mirror story, or the "hey shorty" texts.

 

[360dagod]

Opportunity to help a chick out with her mirror

Lol i am not getting at you cause i know the game . Just a shame that men have let the pendulum swing this far

There isn't a pendulum for this particular issue...

Opportunity in its purest form is a set of circumstances aligning...which it did...

The bytch got perked up and in her eyes, it was probably a miniscule reason as to why he didn't show up..

Women are not gonna see things out the same mirror we do...

 

[The ADD]

There isn't a pendulum for this particular issue...

Opportunity in its purest form is a set of circumstances aligning...which it did...

The bytch got perked up and in her eyes, it was probably a miniscule reason as to why he didn't show up..

Women are not gonna see things out the same mirror we do...

I see the what you did there.

 

[360dagod]

Mane, I broke a MAJOR Pimp rule and texted that bird.

Smh.

So disgusted with myself.

shyt happens....

 

[The ADD]

Its crazy still no guarantee ol boy gets any.

I mean if that’s the approach it’s bound to fail. Just tell them what you really want instead of doing disingenuous acts and save yourself the trouble

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I mean if that’s the approach it’s bound to fail. Just tell them what you really want instead of doing disingenuous acts and save yourself the trouble

Exactly

 

[360dagod]

I mean if that’s the approach it’s bound to fail. Just tell them what you really want instead of doing disingenuous acts and save yourself the trouble

The OVERALL entitled behavior is at least 80% of the issues in this thread....

 

[Ahadi]

Mane, I broke a MAJOR Pimp rule and texted that bird.

Smh.

So disgusted with myself.

shyt happens. Learn from it and move on.

 

[Ohene]

I mean if that’s the approach it’s bound to fail. Just tell them what you really want instead of doing disingenuous acts and save yourself the trouble

Exactly

I personally know I am never going to beat a woman at her games. If I notice something is up, call them out or approach the matter directly .

If she fronts , I just move on to the next chick rather than waste my time and resources

 

[John Reena]

There is more recently, last 10 years or so, what academics would call a "pathologizing" of mostly normal behaviors, which would include simple misunderstandings, the sometimes awkward human interactions of meeting someone new, things like that, are now: "oh that's gaslighting", "They left me on read", "they didn't text me back right away", "soft ghosting", people have classified behavior down to this extremely narrow level

and you tie that to the idea that you "cut" people off, "ghost" people", "block" people whatever term, (you see the link between those three terms?) people are often very, very quick to look for ways to cut off a connection

in their mind, they are trying to be productive, protecting themselves, efficient, whatever, but it leads to a lot of posturing, hyper vigilance, extremely conditional, about minor things.

Like the mirror story, or the "hey shorty" texts.

Word! Ppl are OVER the top petty nowadays.