Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Tommy Lee Jones]

just wait on her end.

You gave a definite time and it’s her choice if she wants to follow up

yea im not double texting about meeting up. was trying to see if I should follow up if I don't hear from her though.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Talk to More women

always. the less I chase the more I get.

 

[Apollo Creed]

For me, it's just the intellectual curiously and attempts to understand the world, and those around me. I'm not ideological about these kinds of things. I'm far from some kind of traditionally moral person. I'm not defending or advocating for any of this. BUT, like I said, I think the concept is potentially fascinating. I think you may be right, or at least have a strong foundational theory, I just want to see it fleshed out more, but it's not me arguing.

So for me, I move in scenes, including my close friends, that very very very closely start to resemble escorting, but none of the people would label themselves that way. They would call it partying? dating? Friday night? but, what I see is that men of means, provide their homes, provide the drugs and alcohol, book dinner reservations, pay for the table they don't even want, basically to get women to their place. 4 women and 6 men, or 2 and, 2 whatever. A lot of the times these women are only vaguely interested in these men. And the sex part is all unspoken, mostly. But both parties know.

so, similar to how an escort may provide a fee to just show up, and then negotiate sex later right? By the end of the night, what happens, mostly, is the women finish the coke, finish the drinks and leave at 4:47 AM or whatever. That is for sure not always the case, but it often is. If these men decline to provide all the above, those women are NOT showing up. That is getting really close to escorting.

you have to remember, in most cultures people got married YOUNG, thus you RARELY saw a Woman out with an adult male that was not her father, brother, uncle, or husband. Keep in mind even in the work force women either did not work or they were in women only fields thus their "coworkers" would be the women. As a Man you NEVER saw a man just hanging out with a woman that was not his wife, daughter, sibling, mother. Hence the 'date' concept, as it implied casual interactions. In Modern America Whore culture has become intertwined with former "family" culture thus we are where we are now. You have married women saying they want to feel like they did when they were single with their husband, which is just a PC way of saying I want to be slutted out. You have married people advertising themselves on social media. You have people in so called relationships who never post their man/woman.

We've b*stardized past concepts vs creating new terms thus we continue to exist in a ball of confusion. Even talking to a woman about what she wants in a man its all resource base in the context of consumerism which is literally whorelike.

 

[re'up]

Went out with this girl whose a federal prosecutor last Thursday. Kissed at the end. Friday I said round 2 next week she said def. I hit her up yesterday about meeting up on Wednesday. Haven't heard back yet. Do I hit her again or wait and if she don't hit me back follow up one more time? I am passed chasing these bytches hard but this feels like worth a follow up if I don't hear back?

haha would love to go out with a federal prosecutor! But it's probably better if I go out with someone in law school. They are going to have great stories and lots to talk about. Likely highly educated. What city are you in?

That's always a tough one, had something like this last month, I assume if I text a valid option, with a question, and get no answer, they are just "politely declining". but since you have some connection, actually went out, and kissed, I would say follow up one more time, that's reasonable. Remember, showing interest, isn't some grotesquely vulnerable thing, people are so loathe to express feelings.

Assuming this was APP based, and she is just flooded with messages and dates, and think of it as separating yourself.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

haha would love to go out with a federal prosecutor! But it's probably better if I go out with someone in law school. They are going to have great stories and lots to talk about. Likely highly educated. What city are you in?

That's always a tough one, had something like this last month, I assume if I text a valid option, with a question, and get no answer, they are just "politely declining". but since you have some connection, actually went out, and kissed, I would say follow up one more time, that's reasonable. Remember, showing interest, isn't some grotesquely vulnerable thing, people are so loathe to express feelings.

Assuming this was APP based, and she is just flooded with messages and dates, and think of it as separating yourself.

I’m in Philly and she prosecutes violent crimes so you know she got her hands full. I said we should link on Wednesday. If I don’t hear from her probably hit her up one more time Thursday.

 

[Serious]

Bro everything these nikkas do be based around hoes.

Where da hoez at ENT

I’m MOB

Money attracts B…..

But a lot times dealing with b to when the benefit is the p….

Is draining in a nut shell.


That’s why I’m MOB


*drops *

 

[Serious]

I was trying to get some positive interaction stories going but it seems to loop back so I figured that’s what the thread generally is now

Let’s keep it a Buck as well here,90% of dudes in here ain’t really looking for a chick to settle wit right.

They complaining and/ or trading wars but they not looking for a thorough chick to marry.

And I get it’s a lot of mentally unstable women out here that are playing games as well but most of these cats know they not seriously putting effort for a true companion/ wife.

 

[re'up]

I’m in Philly and she prosecutes violent crimes so you know she got her hands full. I said we should link on Wednesday. If I don’t hear from her probably hit her up one more time Thursday.

I would keep that contact just for the stories. She probably knows the AR AB case lol

and yeah prosecutors tends to buried in work

always funny to hear about them dating, I know everyone is human, I was seated next to an AUSA the other night, I saw his American flag lapel thing and I just knew, he was blabbering on about The White Lotus and The Last of Us to his date lol

but catch him at work and he's "The United States will not tolerate dangerous criminals trafficking ton quantities of narcotics to our citizens, we will use evry resource to prosecute these individuals"

 

[The ADD]

Let’s keep it a Buck as well here,90% of dudes in here ain’t really looking for a chick to settle wit right.

They complaining and/ or trading wars but they not looking for a thorough chick to marry.

And I get it’s a lot of mentally unstable women out here that are playing games as well but most of these cats know they not seriously putting effort for a true companion/ wife.

 

[MikelArteta]

Let’s keep it a Buck as well here,90% of dudes in here ain’t really looking for a chick to settle wit right.

They complaining and/ or trading wars but they not looking for a thorough chick to marry.

And I get it’s a lot of mentally unstable women out here that are playing games as well but most of these cats know they not seriously putting effort for a true companion/ wife.

I am
I only meet up with chicks who are Christiaan, go to church and don't have kids

 

[Action Mike]

Let’s keep it a Buck as well here,90% of dudes in here ain’t really looking for a chick to settle wit right.

They complaining and/ or trading wars but they not looking for a thorough chick to marry.

And I get it’s a lot of mentally unstable women out here that are playing games as well but most of these cats know they not seriously putting effort for a true companion/ wife.

If the right one comes and ticks the majority of things off I'm cuffing

 

[Digital Omen]

. You have people in so called relationships who never post their man/woman.

Putting the shot aside, my girl and I have agreed to keep our relationship off social media and we're good with it

We both have had the same experience in the past:

Post your s/o and make it "social media official"
heart emojis, congrats comments, everyone is happy
a few months down the line
"how's it going?" "omg so happy for you" "goals" aka all up in your business keeping tabs and a scoreboard
If there's any kind of issue (normal relationship shyt) and you're not posting as frequently
"ya'll ok?" "call me if you need anything" "where's [insert s/o]?" just mad nosy and indiscreet

Then of course when you start going through it or break up, all hell breaks loose
FOH

So having learned our lesson, we keep our shyt to ourselves and away from the peanut gallery
Stress levels way down when you don't do it for the gram
Those that need to know, know (family and close friends)
Everyone else can keep scrolling, FOH

 

[International Playa]

Let’s keep it a Buck as well here,90% of dudes in here ain’t really looking for a chick to settle wit right.

They complaining and/ or trading wars but they not looking for a thorough chick to marry.

And I get it’s a lot of mentally unstable women out here that are playing games as well but most of these cats know they not seriously putting effort for a true companion/ wife.

Some of us are looking for solid women to settle down with, but run in to incompatible women.

I recently started dating a woman, from outside she looks like the ideal woman, good career, own house, own car, church goer, no kids etc. Now I'm getting to know her she is very anxious, insecure about her weight, very sensitive & got emotional baggage from her last relationship.

She opened up, dude she used to date verbally abuse her & always put her down. She starting to project some of these things on to me. I have discussed this with her & will give her time to fix up or I might have to cut her off.

 

[MikelArteta]

Some of us are looking for solid women to settle down with, but run in to incompatible women.

I recently started dating a woman, from outside she looks like the ideal woman, good career, own house, own car, church goer, no kids etc. Now I'm getting to know her she is very anxious, insecure about her weight, very sensitive & got emotional baggage from her last relationship.

She opened up, dude she used to date verbally abuse her & always put her down. She starting to project some of these things on to me. I have discussed this with her & will give her time to fix up or I might have to cut her off.

gotta let her k now you got a passport

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Was talking to my home girl who used to dance she’s a 9/10. She showed me her bumble she had 6,000 plus likes. Imagine what a 7/10 is prob getting 2,000 likes. This is why shyt is all fukked up women got so many options.

She also told me how she went out with this dude but could tell from first date he prob not good in bed. She said he wasn’t aggressive enough. These women really know right away if they gonna fukk you or not. I guess sometimes you change their minds bit more often than not you probably can’t.