Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I agree and here are 3 points I've noticed why this is happening.

1. America is setup where the cheap food is unhealthy and the healthy food requires time, preparation and money. These women claim to be independent but can't cook a healthy meal. Imagine what happens to a guy who wifes up a woman like this and she has kids for him.

2. Exercise. If a woman doesn't go to the gym and invest in her health don't even think about wifing because nothing will change with kids and marriage. No one is so busy in life they can't take 1.5 hours 3-4 times a day for exercise.

3. Consumption of alcohol and depression all it takes is one bad break up, loss of a job, family drama and another situation in life which equals a coping mechanism involving alcohol. A good 2-3 months of drinking and then eating bad is easily 10-15 pounds they are gaining.
When I go to the gym, I ALWAYS see more brothers than sisters. I do go late night so that obviously has to be taken into consideration but still. Also, I despise the weave and hat look. :unimpressed:
 
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When I go to the gym, I ALWAYS see more brothers than sister. I do go late night go that obviously has to be taken into consideration but still. Also, I despise the weave and hat look. :unimpressed:
I can go to a gym in predominantly black area and see more white/latina women than black women.. But what I will say is a plus because of social media is amount of women doing legit resistant training leg workouts.. 10+ years ago you couldnt drag em to squat rack, nowwwww :blessed:
 

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if a woman wants to be with you it doesn't matter what you do she will be there, and if she doesn't want to be with you it doesn't matter what you do she won't.

A chick doing anything else is just wasting her time and yours.

I make it explicit with chicks I see these days, I don't play games, and I don't entertain games.

They wanna do that don't expect me to play along. And when you meet women who are not playing games but value honesty and openness. It's like a whole different energy.

The chick's who are constantly not dating seriously or on and off on the apps make themselves very clear and easily avoidable.
 

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I can't be only one noticing this, but more and more women are overweight.

And I don't even mean slightly chubby.

I mean like borderline fat and can balloon up to obese.

A lot of them don't care as they know some men have no respect for themselves and love them a chick who is overweight and is only going to get bigger.

Covid laid waste to a lot of peoples want and need to stay in decent shape. And many haven't recovered.
 

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Lol...

It goes back to what I said...

The rigidity in here comes from the ego...

When a woman dosent do enough to soothe the ego or puts one in the position to possibly put it to the side, it's automatically game over...

A bytch takes a nap at 2pm and texts at 7, she's fukking someone and I'm gonna bush her🤣🤣

A bytch accepts my call, meanwhile the nikka she fukking is laying right next to her..

But as long as she answers and calms the ego, the day can continue...

Mental mindfukk
the overall idea that people make time for what they want still rings true, but I’m not quick to jump to conclusions bc like your post said — it’s an ego thing for me to want this bytch wrapped around my finger 24/7.

Similarly spoken on here, I make my intentions known from the jump and if they want to play then they can find someone else.

Delete the # and go about my business.
Brehs, what are your thoughts on dating a woman whose had multiple abortions?
multiple?
 

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A chick doing anything else is just wasting her time and yours.

I make it explicit with chicks I see these days, I don't play games, and I don't entertain games.

They wanna do that don't expect me to play along. And when you meet women who are not playing games but value honesty and openness. It's like a whole different energy.

The chick's who are constantly not dating seriously or on and off on the apps make themselves very clear and easily avoidable.
Questions how you go about telling them your not wit the game playing.


And how do they act or react when. You tell them this is it a look of shock like how dare he tell me.
The fake ok same for me .
Just curious i noyice woman love thr gray area and when you straight or matter of fact they cant take or not use to it?
 

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Brehs, what are your thoughts on dating a woman whose had multiple abortions?
I think most men are on dont ask, dont tell because if they are dealing with women there is high chance its happened, ESPECIALLY if they messin with grown women who not single moms (Pros and cons to everything right).. Alot of women running around with cemetery stomachs..

I was gonna make a thread about it awhile back, but had one of my nurse peeps run into me, get the usual "Oh when you gonna get married/have kids" usual.. Anyway she say "oh dont even worry about asking the women who have kids nowadays, worry about the ones who dont?!" I said huh? She was like she work for state now and does inspections, they have to go into clinics and she sees this stuff, says she done seen girls 25 on the 5th abortion. Even though they are warned not to use in that way alot of women do. She explained to me how it is an invasive procedure and can mess up the lining and can cause the girl not to have kids in future but a high percentage have multiple..

I might not leave this up, Im goin to sleep :snoop:
 

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Questions how you go about telling them your not wit the game playing.


And how do they act or react when. You tell them this is it a look of shock like how dare he tell me.
be frank with whatever you want with her (feel the vibe of the conversation before you blurt out anything) then follow up with scheduling a date or in-person meet-up if you met her online. That shows intention
If she shes no, then at least you can move on knowing you did your part in moving the relations along… just wasn’t meant to be.
The fake ok same for me .
Just curious i noyice woman love thr gray area and when you straight or matter of fact they cant take or not use to it?
If you value your time and energy, be upfront.

them loving the gray area creates confusion which leads to YOU giving them benefit of doubt. It also removes any type of action or accountability from them.
 

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Anyway she say "oh dont even worry about asking the women who have kids nowadays, worry about the ones who dont?!" I said huh? She was like she work for state now and does inspections, they have to go into clinics and she sees this stuff, says she done seen girls 25 on the 5th abortion. Even though they are warned not to use in that way alot of women do. She explained to me how it is an invasive procedure and can mess up the lining and can cause the girl not to have kids in future but a high percentage have multiple..

I might not leave this up, Im goin to sleep :snoop:
their nightmares lookin’ like Gigyas from Earthbound


Multiple abortions, functioning alcoholics, overweight (with no intention of losing it). .. generation full of a subgroup of woman who just don’t give a fukk about themselves
 
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