Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Brandsdale]

I think something’s wrong with me. I love my girl and want to get married but I still really want to fukk other women too. And the women are opposite her body type.

She is slim, Pettit and has ample t and a,

but man walking down the street or in the gym and I see a body like https://instagram.com/valerialcala?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Or https://instagram.com/reneeadjoa?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

A nikka just be wanting to hit once every while and not talk to them and keep my shorty. The messed up thing about it is I know once I smash them I wouldn’t want to talk to them again I just want to hit. I’ve had big booty and big tit women in the past and besides physical, the other shyt was lacking. I’ve introduced the idea of threesomes with a girl so it’s not cheating and she was iffy about it but then said I should be the one to ask women. (I think she would be jealous in a threesome) she’s not into girls but women have hit on her

break up with her.

fin.

 

[MikelArteta]

I really, really wanna go to Naija but

I had the most fun ever when I went to Nigeria

In two weeks I met like 30 chicks. Literally had a different chick sleeping over every day

The good ol' days Aah

 

[bigde09]

Sometimes I advise to double text just to kill that last hope you may have. That one last read but no reply will make you know for sure

But like I always said every woman is on their phone like 7-8 hrs a day if she can't reply back to you in a proper manner then that's all you need to know.

No response or a lack of a response is a response.

Women should make you sick early on , always wanting to call, face time , text etc

I've dated teachers who aren't supposed to be on their phones during the school day text me back right away.

They'll always make time for who they like.

 

[WIA20XX]

gon save my thoughts because this thread went from quick gems and success stories to what it is now.

Like growth rings in a tree, this thread shows the real time changes in the sexual climate.

The direct things like - Social Media and Tinder and "Me Too#", but low key the indirect things like the change in the overall culture, economy (more and more women-centric as time goes on, because of education and skills needed), and loss of the ability to socialize.

Although socialization and "acceptable" behavior has changed, the essential human nature has not. If you have a good in-person rap in 2023, you really do stand out amongst all these Otakus, Call of Duty experts, and pornophiles.

Less talked about, imo, is the money component on the guy side. In some ways, it's easier to make money. Figuring out the new economy is the key. In a lot of ways, it's harder to make money in the old economy. Having a non-tech job working for the man? They're finding tech people to automate what you do.

It's much easier for a woman to make money in either ways. Aside from Onlyfans - the educational system has basically unlocked her ability to follow rules, appease teachers, and get good grades. She's getting the academic education and the social education she already has is greatly enhanced.

And if we're talking social media, who's really on there like that other than women? If a chick is making good money, like a man, she's gonna date/sleep with what excites her.

Everything about the game, imo, has gotten weirder and more obscure.

 

[360dagod]

Naw, set the boundary that you aren’t into that.

Lol...

It goes back to what I said...

The rigidity in here comes from the ego...

When a woman dosent do enough to soothe the ego or puts one in the position to possibly put it to the side, it's automatically game over...

A bytch takes a nap at 2pm and texts at 7, she's fukking someone and I'm gonna bush her

A bytch accepts my call, meanwhile the nikka she fukking is laying right next to her..

But as long as she answers and calms the ego, the day can continue...

Mental mindfukk

 

[Hawala Man]

I can't be only one noticing this, but more and more women are overweight.

And I don't even mean slightly chubby.

I mean like borderline fat and can balloon up to obese.

I agree and here are 3 points I've noticed why this is happening.

1. America is setup where the cheap food is unhealthy and the healthy food requires time, preparation and money. These women claim to be independent but can't cook a healthy meal. Imagine what happens to a guy who wifes up a woman like this and she has kids for him.

2. Exercise. If a woman doesn't go to the gym and invest in her health don't even think about wifing because nothing will change with kids and marriage. No one is so busy in life they can't take 1.5 hours 3-4 times a day for exercise.

3. Consumption of alcohol and depression all it takes is one bad break up, loss of a job, family drama and another situation in life which equals a coping mechanism involving alcohol. A good 2-3 months of drinking and then eating bad is easily 10-15 pounds they are gaining.

 

[bigde09]

I agree and here are 3 points I've noticed why this is happening.

1. America is setup where the cheap food is unhealthy and the healthy food requires time, preparation and money. These women claim to be independent but can't cook a healthy meal. Imagine what happens to a guy who wifes up a woman like this and she has kids for him.

2. Exercise. If a woman doesn't go to the gym and invest in her health don't even think about wifing because nothing will change with kids and marriage. No one is so busy in life they can't take 1.5 hours 3-4 times a day for exercise.

3. Consumption of alcohol and depression all it takes is one bad break up, loss of a job, family drama and another situation in life which equals a coping mechanism involving alcohol. A good 2-3 months of drinking and then eating bad is easily 10-15 pounds they are gaining.

A lot of women are lowkey alcoholics and don't even know it.

 

[360dagod]

I agree and here are 3 points I've noticed why this is happening.

1. America is setup where the cheap food is unhealthy and the healthy food requires time, preparation and money. These women claim to be independent but can't cook a healthy meal. Imagine what happens to a guy who wifes up a woman like this and she has kids for him.

2. Exercise. If a woman doesn't go to the gym and invest in her health don't even think about wifing because nothing will change with kids and marriage. No one is so busy in life they can't take 1.5 hours 3-4 times a day for exercise.

3. Consumption of alcohol and depression all it takes is one bad break up, loss of a job, family drama and another situation in life which equals a coping mechanism involving alcohol. A good 2-3 months of drinking and then eating bad is easily 10-15 pounds they are gaining.

If we say the average female burns 1500 calories...

A glass of juice might run 250-300 calories
A bag of doritos might be 150

They got 1050-1100 calories left to split between 3 meals

Add that to an office job/car/lifestyle and its pretty easy for anyone to gain..

 

[africngiant]

What are the "safest" cities to visit? But tbh, I'm not trying to be around of bleachers. I hate the fact it hasn't been banned yet. Wife?

ive only been to lagos and enugu i guess they’re relatively safe compared to the rest even though kidnappings can still happen here if you give off the impression of being too well-off. most of the north is where the extremist groups and conflicts arise from what ive heard. most of the issues for you would come from the language barrier


the women there usually act more submissive because they’re brought up to be and the housekeepers (male and female) are basically indentured servants that don’t complain and work all around the house so it’s imbedded in the culture

 

[Ahadi]

A lot of women are lowkey alcoholics and don't even know it.

Yup. Wine / happy hour every single day.

 

[Ahadi]

still feel this joint should be more advice/positive centric rather than journal entries on how fukked up the game is

I’d say hit the gym, get a coach for speaking if you need it, work on your mental, keep yourself in top shape in all aspects & get ready for summer.

Dont drink, keep it to wine, once a week.

Q2-Q3 is when all the action happens.

 

[MikelArteta]

ive only been to lagos and enugu i guess they’re relatively safe compared to the rest even though kidnappings can still happen here if you give off the impression of being too well-off. most of the north is where the extremist groups and conflicts arise from what ive heard. most of the issues for you would come from the language barrier


the women there usually act more submissive because they’re brought up to be and the housekeepers (male and female) are basically indentured servants that don’t complain and work all around the house so it’s imbedded in the culture

When I went I stayed in victoria island, also went to lekki and chevron, also the mainland some parts are cool like surulele, ikeja etc.

I used uber to get around with ease. I knew no one before I went but had my tinder set up before and was meeting women left right and center

 

[MikelArteta]

still feel this joint should be more advice/positive centric rather than journal entries on how fukked up the game is

meh we post wins and losses brehs

 

[MikelArteta]

@africngiant

Just touched down in Lagos Nigeria

:noah: The food The women The traffic these drivers could drive anywhere The little kids begging on the street :to:

www.thecoli.com

 

[africngiant]

When I went I stayed in victoria island, also went to lekki and chevron, also the mainland some parts are cool like surulele, ikeja etc.

I used uber to get around with ease. I knew no one before I went but had my tinder set up before and was meeting women left right and center

lekki looks crazy nice. i forgot ive been to anambra state too that place is fire

places that actually have real infrastructure are the safest bet