Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I been feeling "ON" lately. Every time I'm somewhere these last few days, if I see a beautiful woman, I walk up to her and spit game.

I don't know what's gotten into me. I haven't approached chics with this frequency and with such intent in years :skip:


I just be feeling it now.

With that said, nothing has come out of it. But im not gonna stop:obama:
I feel you on that bruh lmaoo. Closed mouth don’t get fed
 

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I'm wondering if any of the guys here have dealt with prolonged apathy toward dating/relationships. I sometimes think it might be nice to have a girlfriend but I go out and I'm never excited by the prospect of seriously dating any of the women I meet. :lupe:
But is that an apathy to dating or just you haven’t connected with anyone…….

It’s a small but important distinction IMO
 

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But is that an apathy to dating or just you haven’t connected with anyone…….

It’s a small but important distinction IMO
Both. I know there's good black women but one would have to look for them and that's not an easy task for one reason or another. I wish real life was like The Sims where everyone had a colored crystal over their heads (Plumbob).
 

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Both. I know there's good black women but one would have to look for them and that's not an easy task for one reason or another. I wish real life was like The Sims where everyone had a colored crystal over their heads (Plumbob).
I mean yeah but let’s be reality that’s life. Even if you find one the rest of the way won’t be easy.

Both sides have to be honest with themselves. If the prospect of going through the process isn’t appealing that’s fine but that’s literally what the process is and has been for a while.

I been through pretty much the same ups and downs as anyone posting in this thread. I probably lucked up and met one that fit especially considering my age and it’s still work. That’s just not going to be any different no matter the situation.
 

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Define date
Seriously date. Girlfriend, relationship pursuit for marriage one day etc.


Run and keep running.
My bro said the same thing. But this woman checks a lot of boxes damn smh. What is your reasoning if you don’t mind me asking? The more i date the more i’m starting to realize that it’s barren out here for 28+ year old women. So much baggage, traumas and heartbreak . As i’m in my early 30s this shyt is frustratinng smh.



multiple?
Two with the same guy


What scenario is this a good idea
Not sure. That’s why im asking in a thread that’s geared for advice.


Run as fast and as far as possible don't look back.
i feel you. But what is your reasoning? I’d like to hear different perspectives from brehs in here.


If she's dumb enough to divulge something that...
I sorta indirectly asked her after we had a convo semi-related to abortions.
 

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Seriously date. Girlfriend, relationship pursuit for marriage one day etc.



My bro said the same thing. But this woman checks a lot of boxes damn smh. What is your reasoning if you don’t mind me asking? The more i date the more i’m starting to realize that it’s barren out here for 28+ year old women. So much baggage, traumas and heartbreak . As i’m in my early 30s this shyt is frustratinng smh.




Two with the same guy


Not sure. That’s why im asking in a thread that’s geared for advice.


i feel you. But what is your reasoning? I’d like to hear different perspectives from brehs in here.



I sorta indirectly asked her after we had a convo semi-related to abortions.
Four abortions is just a level of recklessness that doesn’t speak well for a future with that person. I think it’s wild to knowingly keep making the same mistake with your health. I’m not even remotely anti-abortion but putting a cell, fetus, whatever that many times is also wild.
 

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If she's dumb enough to divulge something that...
I sorta indirectly asked her after we had a convo semi-related to abortions.
Four abortions is just a level of recklessness that doesn’t speak well for a future with that person. I think it’s wild to knowingly keep making the same mistake with your health. I’m not even remotely anti-abortion but putting a cell, fetus, whatever that many times is also wild.
She had two abortions.
 
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