Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Be the change you want to see.. Create a new series and pull this bytch in another direction.. :salute:
oh nah — my romantic/dating life is abysmal right now lmao.

I just appreciate hearing different approaches and great date experiences. Pouring good energy into each other… pause.
 

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nigerian-american raised on books lol
Ethnic group? I know this is random but when I was in Ghana, most people including Nigerians thought I was Igbo. To the point where the ashawoos wouldn't fuxx with me. The scar on my left cheek :dame: didn't make it any easier.
 
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Ethnic group? I know this is random but when I was in Ghana, most people including Nigerians thought I was Igbo. To the point where the ashawoos wouldn't fuxx with me. The scar on my lift cheek :dame: didn't make it any easier.
im igbo too. what do the women have against us over in ghana😭

one of my cousins just moved to ct and is about to get married to one
 

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im igbo too. what do the women have against us over in ghana😭

one of my cousins just moved to ct and is about to get married to one
I was told that Igbo men are grimy against ashawoos. I would have the most money in my pocket but as soon as I walk in, it's like Pepper and Water Science Trick. I was always super fresh with my Afrikan wear and super clean with my edge but was told that's a trademark of Naija men. A couple of heauxs actually spoke to me in Igbo until I told them I didn't understand.
 
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I was told that Igbo men are grimy against ashawoos. I would have the most money in my pocket but as soon as I walk in, it's like putting soap on a shallow with black pepper in water. I was always super fresh with my Afrikan wear and super clean with my edge but was told that's a trademark of Naija men. A couple of beaux actually spoke to me in Igbo until I told them I didn't understand.
:russ:that explains a lot.

yeah igbos are particularly flashy. we typically compete the most financially and academically out of the main nigerian tribes.

the scarification comes as an initiation into manhood my dad told me i wonder if different placements have different meanings which helped them make further assumptions about you being igbo
 

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:russ:that explains a lot.

yeah igbos are particularly flashy. we typically compete the most financially and academically out of the main nigerian tribes.

the scarification comes as an initiation into manhood my dad told me i wonder if different placements have different meanings which helped them make further assumptions about you being igbo
I really, really wanna go to Naija but :francis:
 

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shyt is mad expensive i planned to go this year but it didn’t work out yet again smh. i haven’t been there since 2016 smdh my wife is waiting for me
What are the "safest" cities to visit?:lupe: But tbh, I'm not trying to be around of bleachers.:whoa: I hate the fact it hasn't been banned yet. Wife? :wtf:
 

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risk tolerance comes in any situation in life but reading people isnt the easiest when you dealing with women and geting to know them initally

just recently i had a job take weeks to give a 2nd interview (they were the ones that recruited me btw)

when they finally came back, they were unorganized, gave little options to times to interview and mind you IM THE ONE that continually messaged them to followup.

point is if you dont catch her attention, no sense in overthinking, double texting, and coming here for advice just charge that shyt to the game. Chances are shorty is pre-occupied with:

-the nikka she fukkin (like you said, she gotta answer him first)
-the nikka she likes
-the nikka she can take advantage of (its usually only for food tho)
-a possible ex-bf she hasnt 100% gotten over

You have to approach each situation with a level of fluidity that gives each situation its own "space" and understanding...

Speaking for myself...

I've lost situations due to

Rigidity in communication
Logistics
Lack of detailed intent....

I now know where I was going wrong and maneuver accordingly depending on what spears get thrown my way...

It would be unfair to me and the female if I approached a current situation using the same mindframe based on what happened when I was less knowledgeable about my errors...

Can I still miss out on a broad after this?

Absolutely..

But I approach it with what I know now and lose, it's a different kind of L than me hitting the eject button because I hit an Immediate road bump...
 

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You have to approach each situation with a level of fluidity that gives each situation its own "space" and understanding...

Speaking for myself...

I've lost situations due to

Rigidity in communication
Logistics
Lack of detailed intent....

I now know where I was going wrong and maneuver accordingly depending on what spears get thrown my way...

It would be unfair to me and the female if I approached a current situation using the same mindframe based on what happened when I was less knowledgeable about my errors...

Can I still miss out on a broad after this?

Absolutely..

But I approach it with what I know now and lose, it's a different kind of L than me hitting the eject button because I hit an Immediate road bump...
Adaptability and fluidity are things I have to work on myself.
 
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