Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Been wild with the d lately and random ass women been overly thirsty, last night and today at the grocery store marks some twilight zone shyt. bytches stopping in their tracks just to peep and me being hella chill since I’m drained. When shyt like this goes down it’s like some reverse semen retention shyt
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these jbo brehs hustling backwards if u think about it
 

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Aight fellas, Cuffing season is almost over and we about 8-12 weeks away from Sun Dress season. Valentine's day is the beginning of the down hill and the spring. These broads finna get back to white toe-nail polish and strappy sandals.

Dads - Expect to get Malik and Keisha for the weekend far more often.

Young Guns
If you was bulking, now it's time to start the cut.
You can prolly still get your boat shoes/driving moccasins on sale.
If you let the Afro wolf out, gotta get reacquainted with the barber.

Travel my dudes! And I don't just mean to Miami or the A. They love you long time in 3rd World Philippines but also 1st World Japan (*and she ain't trying to see America or have you spend on her - Ask me how I know!). Don't let the d-watchers stop you from seeing the world. The Black Man brand is strong and timeless.

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Burning Man and Summer Festivals are gonna heat up.

HotepSet
Afropunk will be South Africa.

Pros and Vets - You already know.

Old heads
Now's the time to get the white linen's pressed up.
Blow the dust off one of them high dollar hats.
Switch out the Oyster Perpetual for the White Dial Daytona.
See if you can grab an AirBnB close to Essence Fest.

My phone holster is now Stingray no more pleather, and I done upgraded from the blue tooth earpiece to some airpods.
Might even do the paint correction the 'Lac.
Can you give some quick Japan game breh?

What if you never traveled before and plan on going dolo?

:ohhh: :ohhh:
 

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Can you give some quick Japan game breh?

What if you never traveled before and plan on going dolo?

:ohhh: :ohhh:

You have to plan and prepare for Japan, imo. Some places you don't need to change much, Japan requires effort.

1) Tokyo or Osaka. Preferably Tokyo. I met a lot of chicks in Roppongi and Shibuya. The clubs change, but the party districts don't.

Of note, there are a lot of places (bars, hotels, places of ill repute) you can't walk into as a foreigner, that is non Japanese. White, Black, Korean, etc. That happens in Korea as well. I didn't see that in Hong Kong, but HK is an international city by default. Southeast Asia is much more accommodating. There are probably some cultural lessons here, but I don't have the credentials.

2) Language. (Despite 9 years of English taught in schools, most don't speak English). A basic conversation is nice, but you can Google translate your way through a whole lot in Asia.

3) Go to the hip hop/reggae/salsa events. When I say the brand is strong, I really mean it. (C) Dipset. A lot of the time, Naija boys will pretend their from NYC, lol.

4) The Japanese chicks are SHY. Naruto n'nem will manhandle a broad to get her on the dance floor. So you gotta be observant.

As a piece of history, read Black Passengers, yellow cabs. A brother wrote this in the 00's The times change, but the basic man to woman interaction never changes.
 

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You have to plan and prepare for Japan, imo. Some places you don't need to change much, Japan requires effort.

1) Tokyo or Osaka. Preferably Tokyo. I met a lot of chicks in Roppongi and Shibuya. The clubs change, but the party districts don't.

Of note, there are a lot of places (bars, hotels, places of ill repute) you can't walk into as a foreigner, that is non Japanese. White, Black, Korean, etc. That happens in Korea as well. I didn't see that in Hong Kong, but HK is an international city by default. Southeast Asia is much more accommodating. There are probably some cultural lessons here, but I don't have the credentials.

2) Language. (Despite 9 years of English taught in schools, most don't speak English). A basic conversation is nice, but you can Google translate your way through a whole lot in Asia.

3) Go to the hip hop/reggae/salsa events. When I say the brand is strong, I really mean it. (C) Dipset. A lot of the time, Naija boys will pretend their from NYC, lol.

4) The Japanese chicks are SHY. Naruto n'nem will manhandle a broad to get her on the dance floor. So you gotta be observant.

As a piece of history, read Black Passengers, yellow cabs. A brother wrote this in the 00's The times change, but the basic man to woman interaction never changes.
How long do you recommend to stay out there to get a decent experience with the chicks and everything?
 

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How long do you recommend to stay out there to get a decent experience with the chicks and everything?

For females, I think you need at least a week or two. If you've got the budget for it, I'd stay for a month. Japan is so much more than food, video games, anime/manga, and women. For just checking stuff out, Tokyo is probably the most interesting and beginner friendly city in Asia.
 

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You have to plan and prepare for Japan, imo. Some places you don't need to change much, Japan requires effort.

1) Tokyo or Osaka. Preferably Tokyo. I met a lot of chicks in Roppongi and Shibuya. The clubs change, but the party districts don't.

Of note, there are a lot of places (bars, hotels, places of ill repute) you can't walk into as a foreigner, that is non Japanese. White, Black, Korean, etc. That happens in Korea as well. I didn't see that in Hong Kong, but HK is an international city by default. Southeast Asia is much more accommodating. There are probably some cultural lessons here, but I don't have the credentials.

2) Language. (Despite 9 years of English taught in schools, most don't speak English). A basic conversation is nice, but you can Google translate your way through a whole lot in Asia.

3) Go to the hip hop/reggae/salsa events. When I say the brand is strong, I really mean it. (C) Dipset. A lot of the time, Naija boys will pretend their from NYC, lol.

4) The Japanese chicks are SHY. Naruto n'nem will manhandle a broad to get her on the dance floor. So you gotta be observant.

As a piece of history, read Black Passengers, yellow cabs. A brother wrote this in the 00's The times change, but the basic man to woman interaction never changes.

For females, I think you need at least a week or two. If you've got the budget for it, I'd stay for a month. Japan is so much more than food, video games, anime/manga, and women. For just checking stuff out, Tokyo is probably the most interesting and beginner friendly city in Asia.

How long do you recommend to stay out there to get a decent experience with the chicks and everything?
Times have changed but the game with women hasn’t even tho I haven’t been there in a long time I know this cuz how I dealt with them still works now period here in any other country

I agree a month in Japan get full experience if you have the budget
So much to do and sightseeing
Women wise he is right they are shy but some are aggressive which will catch you off guard too. Your game on point by being yourself and being confident you can get back to your place same night. If you can learn simple phrases for compliments they will eat that up real quick and be really into you.
A lot of them do speak English but play dumb not speaking too see what u day and how you act keep that in mind.
Have your money right cuz it’s expensive there especially clubbing if u don’t pay attention.
Them ramen shops tho :noah:
Tokyo, shinjuku, shibuya and roppongi good places to go shopping and bar hopping
Yokohama also nice to go too
There is more but I’m driving
 

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For females, I think you need at least a week or two. If you've got the budget for it, I'd stay for a month. Japan is so much more than food, video games, anime/manga, and women. For just checking stuff out, Tokyo is probably the most interesting and beginner friendly city in Asia.

Times have changed but the game with women hasn’t even tho I haven’t been there in a long time I know this cuz how I dealt with them still works now period here in any other country

I agree a month in Japan get full experience if you have the budget
So much to do and sightseeing
Women wise he is right they are shy but some are aggressive which will catch you off guard too. Your game on point by being yourself and being confident you can get back to your place same night. If you can learn simple phrases for compliments they will eat that up real quick and be really into you.
A lot of them do speak English but play dumb not speaking too see what u day and how you act keep that in mind.
Have your money right cuz it’s expensive there especially clubbing if u don’t pay attention.
Them ramen shops tho :noah:
Tokyo, shinjuku, shibuya and roppongi good places to go shopping and bar hopping
Yokohama also nice to go too
There is more but I’m driving
Any apps y’all recommend getting on out there?

What about spitting game in the street or should I just stick to clubs and bars dolo?

I really can’t get my mind around going to a whole nother country dolo and not knowing anything or being around anyone that looks like me.

I still wanna try it though.

Good looks y’all.
 

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Should I flirt with this pretty eyed coworker on valentines day? We're friends but she's been giving me choosing signals ever since I said her eyes were pretty. She laughs at all my jokes. Even the unfunny ones. It's too easy. Might have to nut in her
:yeshrug:
 

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Should I flirt with this pretty eyed coworker on valentines day? We're friends but she's been giving me choosing signals ever since I said her eyes were pretty. She laughs at all my jokes. Even the unfunny ones. It's too easy. Might have to nut in her
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that’s a starter
“I see your eyes brighter today” not too much, not too little

but you said co-worker.. and unless you work at a call center or McDonalds…
 

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I mean… :mjlol: if you don’t plan on carving a career there or want to go far with it.. shoot ya shot
I plan on being a clinical social worker in at least 3 years. It's one of the best hospitals in the country
:lupe:

When I told her her eyes were pretty, after I said
"Just to be safe, I won't say anything else
:whoa:

She laughed and said thank you. I know I shouldn't fukk her but I might not be able to resist
:francis:

I'm probably gonna ask her on Tuesday if she has a valentine. If she says yea imma say some shyt like "I'm not surprised, the pretty girls always have at least one "

If she says no imma hit her with the

:ohhh: and say "if I wasn't your coworker I'd have some decisions to make" and go off her response

If all else fails, imma just ask my cool manager what her opinion is if I were to be romantically involved with a coworker
 
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Any apps y’all recommend getting on out there?

What about spitting game in the street or should I just stick to clubs and bars dolo?

I really can’t get my mind around going to a whole nother country dolo and not knowing anything or being around anyone that looks like me.

I still wanna try it though.

Good looks y’all.
When I was there social media was on point back in day 2001-2003
I used the MySpace, migente, yahoo chat room and met a few of that but I mostly met In streets, club, store. I’m bout the cold approach always has been and works best for me tho.
They are polite tho for most part.
Just shoot ur shot on whatever catches your eye that simple
U can try the normal dating apps and have location set to that country get u better results
If u do hit up one don’t be surprised u wake up she cleaned up and trying to cook or try to take u somewhere to eat that’s just how a lot of the females are there
 
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