Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[skyrunner1]

Indications of selfish behavior such as the bolded: nip it in the bud now (have a convo and come to an agreement) or bush.
If you don't deal with it now, don't be surprised when she bushes you because you didn't meet her selfish standards

She's basically telling you "don't disturb my peace with your bullshyt"
Cold world

This is actually being packaged n sold on social media in mass, dudes might be behind the curve a lil but in all their iterations of "soft life", "black girls in luxury", "Level up".. But even if someone doesnt subscribe to it en mass, them just swiping and seeing this on daily seeps into their subconscious. Stuff like that perks my ears and I believe people the first time they show me who they are. Also understand approaching a person and pulling their card, usually makes them realize they told on themselves and hide their cards better..

I wouldnt say much, just have your thrid eye open and watch actions. Its the same thing when women tell you about their past, dont judge them, just laugh and say hey I remember the time I did the same, what else you got And make mental notes..

 

[360dagod]

Me and my girl disagree on this: She feels like if something affects me negatively/causes me to have a bad day, it shouldn't affect her. I feel like if something affects me negatively, im not projecting that to the people close to me, but i cant flip a switch and be happy go lucky in an instant when something is bothering me

We at a stalemate herei dont feel like its reasonable for me to ask someone to flip a switch and be happy if they're stressed out or something fukked up their day

Because she is speaking from a biological perspective..

She sees it as a "this nikka cant handle life" moment for even discussing it..

For some men, it works for them
For some men, it works against them...

 

[Ahadi]

Because she is speaking from a biological perspective..

She sees it as a "this nikka cant handle life" moment for even discussing it..

For some men, it works for them
For some men, it works against them...

Exactly.

Some women like the vulnerability. Majority don’t. Just tread cautiously for the next woman and see how she responds.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Because she is speaking from a biological perspective..

She sees it as a "this nikka cant handle life" moment for even discussing it..

For some men, it works for them
For some men, it works against them...

Im responding to everyone but im quoting this reply

I would say she is an amazing person, etc. Its just this one thing, bc right now i got lot of moving parts. I had to pivot in my career last year, and now im in school and its pretty aggressive. So rn my time is limited and on top of that $$ is kind of tight till i finish this program in about 3 months

Not sure how to deal with this particular issue bc to me its easy, just give a nikka some space. But she feels differently and thats where we butt heads

 

[The ADD]

Im responding to everyone but im quoting this reply

I would say she is an amazing person, etc. Its just this one thing, bc right now i got lot of moving parts. I had to pivot in my career last year, and now im in school and its pretty aggressive. So rn my time is limited and on top of that $$ is kind of tight till i finish this program in about 3 months

Not sure how to deal with this particular issue bc to me its easy, just give a nikka some space. But she feels differently and thats where we butt heads

Have y’all had a deep discussion on it?

 

[NeilCartwright]

Have y’all had a deep discussion on it?

Yea we have. At her core, she feels like its not right to let something affect a person to the point that they dont want to be bothered for a predetermined amount of time (to me thats regular human emotion). And thats about the extent of the conversation.

I have my own thoughts. Bc of her past with her family, and some trauma etc, and i personally feel like thats why she feels the way she does in this situation. My background is different. My pops was in the army and i did 5 years in the military myself. If someone was going through something and they told me it didnt have nothing to do with me, ima leave it alone. But she hears that and takes offense to it. Then it turns into an argument

It is what it is at this point. Like i mentioned she is an amazing person but some of this is just draining

 

[The ADD]

Yea we have. At her core, she feels like its not right to let something affect a person to the point that they dont want to be bothered for a predetermined amount of time (to me thats regular human emotion). And thats about the extent of the conversation.

I have my own thoughts. Bc of her past with her family, and some trauma etc, and i personally feel like thats why she feels the way she does in this situation. My background is different. My pops was in the army and i did 5 years in the military myself. If someone was going through something and they told me it didnt have nothing to do with me, ima leave it alone. But she hears that and takes offense to it. Then it turns into an argument

It is what it is at this point. Like i mentioned she is an amazing person but some of this is just draining

I hear you breh. Seems like a middle ground can be found. I “get” both sides of it.

 

[DJSmooth]

Started a new job downtown Atlanta. The building cafeteria is used by a large hospital in Atlanta.

I was looking at ass in scrubs my whole lunch break. I'm ready.

 

[360dagod]

Im responding to everyone but im quoting this reply

I would say she is an amazing person, etc. Its just this one thing, bc right now i got lot of moving parts. I had to pivot in my career last year, and now im in school and its pretty aggressive. So rn my time is limited and on top of that $$ is kind of tight till i finish this program in about 3 months

Not sure how to deal with this particular issue bc to me its easy, just give a nikka some space. But she feels differently and thats where we butt heads

If it's a time issue, then yeah you got some trouble on your hands..
Cuz she wants her "share" as well..And if her "share" dosent get the energy she "desires" then I can see the issue

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Started a new job downtown Atlanta. The building cafeteria is used by a large hospital in Atlanta.

I was looking at ass in scrubs my whole lunch break. I'm ready.

Grady or Hughes Spalding?

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

Started a new job downtown Atlanta. The building cafeteria is used by a large hospital in Atlanta.

I was looking at ass in scrubs my whole lunch break. I'm ready.

More crackheads than nurses around those parts if it's Grady.

 

[Mr Olympia]

B-b-but coli said I needa be dripped up and gwopped up in order to bag bytches. Meanwhile I been while wearing only gym shyt looking like Vin Diesel in ‘97.

 

[Ahadi]

“What are you doing for Valentine’s Day”

 

[DJSmooth]

Grady or Hughes Spalding?

More crackheads than nurses around those parts if it's Grady.

I won't say. Lol however we ain't gonna be up in here like Grady don't have attractive Travel Nurses on rotation.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Started a new job downtown Atlanta. The building cafeteria is used by a large hospital in Atlanta.

I was looking at ass in scrubs my whole lunch break. I'm ready.

That brother bout to be eating

Im out the game now but when i was running the streets, nikkas was eating in atlanta