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Playa with a Passport
Best time to be on dating apps for some easy lay upsYall be careful with the pre valentine desperation thats finna happen on these apps lol

Best time to be on dating apps for some easy lay upsYall be careful with the pre valentine desperation thats finna happen on these apps lol
@ the bolded is a rejection/curve brehWomen don’t really curve you or reject you unless you’re ugly to them
Cute- handsome gang is placed on confusion
You know this thread fulla “brehs i found me a good one” ass nikkasBest time to be on dating apps for some easy lay ups![]()
youre supposed to fukk herAlso lol there's this one woman I was feeling for years. Everything about her I liked but I knew that she was in a relationship and so was I during that time. She works at a sports bar from time to time and I got her number....
Why is she only 23what am I supposed to to do with her as a 40 year old man
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Been dating the past few months and I learned some things about myself
1. Im actually handsome gang
2. I have a lot of things these women want
- I never thought that i was ugly but I never thought that I was attractive either. Thought the word handsome was reserved for family members calling you that. I didnt realize its a word women use frequently in the dating world
3. Realizing the first two has me playing this game on offense
- The "strong" independent women that get their dating advice from tik tok been in shambles when we meet in person. The whole 6 figure, 6 certs, 6 ft that we joke about on the coli is some what legit out here lol. Its not the end all be all but it does help. But they expect me to be arrogant, but when they don't get that they are perplexed and don't know what to do with me
4. There are some great women out here though
- I feel like I'm playing 5 vs 1 out here but im the team with 5 Steph Currys going up against Rudy Gorbert. These women are actually chasing me after the first date. I've actually had women tell.me that they can't mess with me because they are intimidated or they think I have multiple women..which I do atm because im dating...
5. I've been out with all types of women...
- I've met some pretty good women, that really want to find a good man. There is a clear difference between the women that want to establish and grow a relationship vs those that just want a relationship because they are entitled to one
- Tall, short, thick, skinny, fat, black, spanish, asian, influencers, rich, etc....and the one I like the most has the worst body out of everyone but I rock with her heavy for some reason. I've always liked people that are down to earth and thats her
I cut my roster down a bit over the weekend but man the dating game has me burnt out
I pretty much had sex with a different woman every night and im tired. Mentally this is exhausting but nothing really looks promising besides the oncologist (the girl with the eh body) that I'm talking to but I have to be sure I would still be able to be turned on by her body as bad as that sounds...
Also lol there's this one woman I was feeling for years. Everything about her I liked but I knew that she was in a relationship and so was I during that time. She works at a sports bar from time to time and I got her number....
Why is she only 23what am I supposed to to do with her as a 40 year old man
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Been dating the past few months and I learned some things about myself
1. Im actually handsome gang
2. I have a lot of things these women want
- I never thought that i was ugly but I never thought that I was attractive either. Thought the word handsome was reserved for family members calling you that. I didnt realize its a word women use frequently in the dating world
3. Realizing the first two has me playing this game on offense
- The "strong" independent women that get their dating advice from tik tok been in shambles when we meet in person. The whole 6 figure, 6 certs, 6 ft that we joke about on the coli is some what legit out here lol. Its not the end all be all but it does help. But they expect me to be arrogant, but when they don't get that they are perplexed and don't know what to do with me
4. There are some great women out here though
- I feel like I'm playing 5 vs 1 out here but im the team with 5 Steph Currys going up against Rudy Gorbert. These women are actually chasing me after the first date. I've actually had women tell.me that they can't mess with me because they are intimidated or they think I have multiple women..which I do atm because im dating...
5. I've been out with all types of women...
- I've met some pretty good women, that really want to find a good man. There is a clear difference between the women that want to establish and grow a relationship vs those that just want a relationship because they are entitled to one
- Tall, short, thick, skinny, fat, black, spanish, asian, influencers, rich, etc....and the one I like the most has the worst body out of everyone but I rock with her heavy for some reason. I've always liked people that are down to earth and thats her
I cut my roster down a bit over the weekend but man the dating game has me burnt out
I pretty much had sex with a different woman every night and im tired. Mentally this is exhausting but nothing really looks promising besides the oncologist (the girl with the eh body) that I'm talking to but I have to be sure I would still be able to be turned on by her body as bad as that sounds...
Also lol there's this one woman I was feeling for years. Everything about her I liked but I knew that she was in a relationship and so was I during that time. She works at a sports bar from time to time and I got her number....
Why is she only 23what am I supposed to to do with her as a 40 year old man
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idk about all that. Usually once you smash enough 'baddies' you realize they are weirdos and tend to be insecure as shyt which deads that whole mystique imo. You move on to who can give the best sex vs who looks the best (because lotta 'baddies' can't fukk for shyt cause dudes be feeling 'blessed' to even be round em).That's the dilemma of hedonic adaptation. You get used to smashing baddies to the point where an average chick does nothing for you. So you might end up passing on a good woman because she doesn't physically stack up to the level of women you've been sleeping with.
Your palette may have become too refined![]()
Now that I’m older I realize some of these baddies be more insecure than ugly-average-mid bytchesidk about all that. Usually once you smash enough 'baddies' you realize they are weirdos and tend to be insecure as shyt which deads that whole mystique imo. You move on to who can give the best sex vs who looks the best (because lotta 'baddies' can't fukk for shyt cause dudes be feeling 'blessed' to even be round em).
yeah it gets pretty gross, where some of em seem mentally ill due to so much insecurityNow that I’m older I realize some of these baddies be more insecure than ugly-average-mid bytchesjust fw a club baddie that was legit THREATENED by her mid ass friend tryna shoot her shot at me, 1. It was an insult to think I’d entertain that. 2. It was wild to see a woman with her looks be so pressed over a girl I wouldn’t even glance at
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Congratulations... Question what did you see in her that made you say "imma marry her..."?HIt the 20 year mark with my wife just recently.
Brahs the women at my university are average at best, my standards aren’t hella high it’s just my taste in women are more refined these days and I never been the guy to smash anything just to smash but…..I really want a smash at this new school so should I just hella lower my standards and hope for the best lol?? First breezies I saw that actually moved me had a man of course![]()
Is this a serious question?Been dating the past few months and I learned some things about myself
1. Im actually handsome gang
2. I have a lot of things these women want
- I never thought that i was ugly but I never thought that I was attractive either. Thought the word handsome was reserved for family members calling you that. I didnt realize its a word women use frequently in the dating world
3. Realizing the first two has me playing this game on offense
- The "strong" independent women that get their dating advice from tik tok been in shambles when we meet in person. The whole 6 figure, 6 certs, 6 ft that we joke about on the coli is some what legit out here lol. Its not the end all be all but it does help. But they expect me to be arrogant, but when they don't get that they are perplexed and don't know what to do with me
4. There are some great women out here though
- I feel like I'm playing 5 vs 1 out here but im the team with 5 Steph Currys going up against Rudy Gorbert. These women are actually chasing me after the first date. I've actually had women tell.me that they can't mess with me because they are intimidated or they think I have multiple women..which I do atm because im dating...
5. I've been out with all types of women...
- I've met some pretty good women, that really want to find a good man. There is a clear difference between the women that want to establish and grow a relationship vs those that just want a relationship because they are entitled to one
- Tall, short, thick, skinny, fat, black, spanish, asian, influencers, rich, etc....and the one I like the most has the worst body out of everyone but I rock with her heavy for some reason. I've always liked people that are down to earth and thats her
I cut my roster down a bit over the weekend but man the dating game has me burnt out
I pretty much had sex with a different woman every night and im tired. Mentally this is exhausting but nothing really looks promising besides the oncologist (the girl with the eh body) that I'm talking to but I have to be sure I would still be able to be turned on by her body as bad as that sounds...
Also lol there's this one woman I was feeling for years. Everything about her I liked but I knew that she was in a relationship and so was I during that time. She works at a sports bar from time to time and I got her number....
Why is she only 23what am I supposed to to do with her as a 40 year old man
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