Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[franknitty711]

Congratulations... Question what did you see in her that made you say "imma marry her..."?

nothing out the ordinary tbh - she was regular girl but had good family, of course physical that was the entry point. Over time I really started to understand how good of a fit she was for me. It was the exact opposite energy I needed to function if that makes any sense.

 

[Mr Olympia]

Go on dates and different things to work on your social skills but I wouldn't stress not having the best looking women around right now. If you in school your main priority to should be school to get the bag. When you get near 30 with your shyt together you will be beating pretty women off you with a stick. Women will always be there in the future. Always.

Would u recommend joining a frat? It seems to be the move socially since I go to a heavy commuter school, shyt barely feels any different than JuCoAnd the bolded goes without saying because it really just be hella average looking girls at my school.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Is this a serious question?

I think he's tired of running through women at this point and needs more than just sex to maintain an interest. I get it

 

[Ohene]

HIt the 20 year mark with my wife just recently. Man, got a good life with her cant lie. She still got a nice body, good job, works hard and is a good mother. We both work out a lot so that definitely helps with staying flexible, active,etc...

I still get looks at the gym from these young thangs all the time. They will get close to where im working out at, little things to see what my temperature is. Im there with focus to get the task done, but it helps with some nice looking females around let me tell ya. If I was a dirtbag these girls would be easy to f$*k. I aint into that tho

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[Rich Spirit]

nothing out the ordinary tbh - she was regular girl but had good family, of course physical that was the entry point. Over time I really started to understand how good of a fit she was for me. It was the exact opposite energy I needed to function if that makes any sense.

This right here. Gotta have a chick that comes from a good family

 

[skyrunner1]

Brahs the women at my university are average at best, my standards aren’t hella high it’s just my taste in women are more refined these days and I never been the guy to smash anything just to smash but…..I really want a smash at this new school so should I just hella lower my standards and hope for the best lol?? First breezies I saw that actually moved me had a man of course

Not to knock any other advice I will just say from my perspective and what I have seen of guys wishing they was back in college and always reminiscing, you will never have higher proximity to young women in your age range with same interest, approx same schedule of lots of free time and all the other stuff and advantages that come with being in college.. I dont know if college changed much but I dont understand how usually dudes used to set their schedule they doing 3-4 days of school how you cant "bE oN yOuR pUrPoSe", handle school and have a social life. We used to go to class and be done by midday, gym, try to start businesses, go to other schools to promote parties, throw parties and club. I got faith you can handle school correctly and talk to girls

Be social, join clubs, try to get some responsibilities in those organizations, join the leadership, make contacts, etc. Also there are soo many breaks in college, spring break coming up, hope you made gains in winter..

 

[Mr Olympia]

Not to knock any other advice I will just say from my perspective and what I have seen of guys wishing they was back in college and always reminiscing, you will never have higher proximity to young women in your age range with same interest, approx same schedule of lots of free time and all the other stuff and advantages that come with being in college.. I dont know if college changed much but I dont understand how usually dudes used to set their schedule they doing 3-4 days of school how you cant "bE oN yOuR pUrPoSe", handle school and have a social life. We used to go to class and be done by midday, gym, try to start businesses, go to other schools to promote parties, throw parties and club. I got faith you can handle school correctly and talk to girls

Be social, join clubs, try to get some responsibilities in those organizations, join the leadership, make contacts, etc. Also there are soo many breaks in college, spring break coming up, hope you made gains in winter..

Yea I’m finishing up my bulk now . Also, I understand all that I’ll never get to be around yung womenz stuff but my biggest barrier is the quality of the girls, like at this point I’m cool if I smash 10 women here before I graduate lol, 19 year old me wanted 60 smashes in uni but Csun ain’t no USC, I club Thursday/Friday nights and see more baddies out than at my school. That’s just my long way to say I just don’t care for most these girls at my school. I’m sorry if I let u old heads down but I tried last year to smash a girl that is my definition of mid and couldn’t get hard so I know I can only knock down baddies

 

[DJSmooth]

Would u recommend joining a frat? It seems to be the move socially since I go to a heavy commuter school, shyt barely feels any different than JuCoAnd the bolded goes without saying because it really just be hella average looking girls at my school.

Joining a frat is a personal decision, it's enough research on the internet to see if it's something that aligns with who you are. Then talk to the chapter on campus if interested to see if yall even mesh together. Is it absolutely necessary for networking, no. Does it help with networking, job opportunities, more baddies etc... it's what you make of it the opportunities are there when you get your letters.

sorry for the Yoda answer.

 

[The ADD]

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Lettuce Hope

 

[360dagod]

HIt the 20 year mark with my wife just recently. Man, got a good life with her cant lie. She still got a nice body, good job, works hard and is a good mother. We both work out a lot so that definitely helps with staying flexible, active,etc...

I still get looks at the gym from these young thangs all the time. They will get close to where im working out at, little things to see what my temperature is. Im there with focus to get the task done, but it helps with some nice looking females around let me tell ya. If I was a dirtbag these girls would be easy to f$*k. I aint into that tho

Any human with that kind discipline gets my respect...

Congratulations on your milestone and wish you many more

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

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Yup. It's a perspective that's been missing from the thread for some time. We need more settled brehs to contribute.

 

[The ADD]

Yup. It's a perspective that's been missing from the thread for some time. We need more settled brehs to contribute.

Not married but headed towards getting engaged later this year. Met my girl on Hinge during the pandemic and been building since. Definitely ups and downs but no complaints.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Not married but headed towards getting engaged later this year. Met my girl on Hinge during the pandemic and been building since. Definitely ups and downs but no complaints.

Much love and respect to you breh. Wish y'all best

How did you decide you wanted to settle down with her in particular?

 

[The ADD]

Much love and respect to you breh. Wish y'all best

How did you decide you wanted to settle down with her in particular?

Biggest thing is that she recognizes her faults and actively works to improve them. She also doesn’t hold my issues over my head and helps me to improve. Basically she’s a great partner and wants to make it work as opposed to saying that’s just who I am and deal with it. That’s crucial in general but I’m older (45) so most people aren’t that flexible.

 

[ViShawn]

Biggest thing is that she recognizes her faults and actively works to improve them. She also doesn’t hold my issues over my head and helps me to improve. Basically she’s a great partner and wants to make it work as opposed to saying that’s just who I am and deal with it. That’s crucial in general but I’m older (45) so most people aren’t that flexible.

How old is she ?