Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

How old is she ?

38

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Biggest thing is that she recognizes her faults and actively works to improve them. She also doesn’t hold my issues over my head and helps me to improve. Basically she’s a great partner and wants to make it work as opposed to saying that’s just who I am and deal with it. That’s crucial in general but I’m older (45) so most people aren’t that flexible.

Yup humility is extremely crucial. It's one of those traits you really begin to value in women as you get older.

 

[The ADD]

Yup humility is extremely crucial. It's one of those traits you really begin to value in women as you get older.

I won’t get on a “all hope isn’t” lost soap box but relationships can happen at any point. There are some good chicks out that get to be older and aren’t taken and it’s not because they have some fatal flaw.

I wasn’t even seriously looking for anything and it just turned out that way

 

[Digital Omen]

Biggest thing is that she recognizes her faults and actively works to improve them. She also doesn’t hold my issues over my head and helps me to improve. Basically she’s a great partner and wants to make it work as opposed to saying that’s just who I am and deal with it. That’s crucial in general but I’m older (45) so most people aren’t that flexible.

Dap + Rep

Bolded is key and indication of a suitable mate.
We must also do the same in return
Keep that balance

My girl and I are on that tip. I'm 45, she's 43. We're both divorced and are actively applying the lessons learned from our past relationships.
We both have had instances where we didn't like how the other said something, and had a mature productive conversation about it.
Why we said it the way we said it, what did we really mean, what can we do to improve our communication, and what did we learn from this episode.
Both have to be willing to put in the work, otherwise what's the point?

 

[The ADD]

Dap + Rep

Bolded is key and indication of a suitable mate.
We must also do the same in return
Keep that balance

My girl and I are on that tip. I'm 45, she's 43. We're both divorced and are actively applying the lessons learned from our past relationships.
We both have had instances where we didn't like how the other said something, and had a mature productive conversation about it.
Why we said it the way we said it, what did we really mean, what can we do to improve our communication, and what did we learn from this episode.
Both have to be willing to put in the work, otherwise what's the point?

Couldn’t have said it better. We’ve had plenty of moments but the end result is hashing through how we got there and how to avoid getting back there in a productive way.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Now that I’m older I realize some of these baddies be more insecure than ugly-average-mid bytchesjust fw a club baddie that was legit THREATENED by her mid ass friend tryna shoot her shot at me, 1. It was an insult to think I’d entertain that. 2. It was wild to see a woman with her looks be so pressed over a girl I wouldn’t even glance at

Baddie was threatened because her mid ass friend will suck and fukk you better, cook for you, and will treat you better than the baddie can

 

[africngiant]

Have y’all ever thrown a Hail Mary text? Like Jr Smith?

 

[Ahadi]

Have y’all ever thrown a Hail Mary text? Like Jr Smith?

What kind of Hail Mary are we talking about?

 

[africngiant]

What kind of Hail Mary are we talking about?

i don’t have social skills so this might be my best route but i don’t want to sound creepy either

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Have y’all ever thrown a Hail Mary text? Like Jr Smith?

Oh you mean a risky text?

I do this all the time


You gotta be confident and not care about the outcome afterwards

Last girl I talked to social media requested that she wanted to see a video of my dikk. Guess what? I sent her a video of me shaking my dikk then I roasted her

We're still talking

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

i don’t have social skills so this might be my best route but i don’t want to sound creepy either

I've never done it because chicks will screenshot it and post it on their socials and talk about how rude you are. I see those posts all the time.

If she likes you then cool you get away with it. If not you getting put on blast

 

[Ahadi]

i don’t have social skills so this might be my best route but i don’t want to sound creepy either

Oh all the time



Just be straight up and confident. If you’re attractive to her, it’ll never be creepy.

 

[africngiant]

I've never done it because chicks will screenshot it and post it on their socials and talk about how rude you are. I see those posts all the time.

If she likes you then cool you get away with it. If not you getting put on blast

she used to walk with me after classes but i never made a move im trying to rekindle by offering to help with her new class i already took but i don’t want to be a sucker. i can’t tell if she’s prude or not she’s an ethiopian artsy photographer tomboy type chick

 

[africngiant]

Oh all the time



Just be straight up and confident. If you’re attractive to her, it’ll never be creepy.

i feel like i missed the meter of time to ask. i used to have a mysterious appeal to her but became a
ass nikka

 

[africngiant]

I've never done it because chicks will screenshot it and post it on their socials and talk about how rude you are. I see those posts all the time.

If she likes you then cool you get away with it. If not you getting put on blast

facts but im tired of being safe mr desert dikk. idgi