Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[skyrunner1]

Do you think they could have social anxiety? I have social anxiety and that causes me to have bad communication skills.

I dont know what they diagnose themselves with, its a new one I have to look up every year it seems, its sooo many different names I just put it under the umbrella of anti social behavior when it reveals itself and see how bad it is to see if I can even want to deal with it.. Could be social anxiety, nuerodivergent, depression, bpd, introvert, autistic, aspergers, ______________ fill in blank.. I really couldnt tell you

 

[Ahadi]

Yup. Met a joint on hinge. Gave her my number around 2pm, she texted me around 11pm, talking about “how am I doing? How’s new years?” No introduction or hey ____”

Got a low tolerance now, especially with text. Im bushing if the energy is trash.

 

[The ADD]

Yup. Met a joint on hinge. Gave her my number around 2pm, she texted me around 11pm, talking about “how am I doing? How’s new years?” No introduction or hey ____”

Got a low tolerance now, especially with text. Im bushing if the energy is trash.

Doesn’t read like much to get worked up about. Gave her the number, she follows up same day and starts a conversation asking questions about you. Sounds like what you would want, unless I’m missing something.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Yup. Met a joint on hinge. Gave her my number around 2pm, she texted me around 11pm, talking about “how am I doing? How’s new years?” No introduction or hey ____”

Got a low tolerance now, especially with text. Im bushing if the energy is trash.

Delay the gratification and keep that abundance mentality.

Keeping it straightforward and direct always gets rid of the time wasters.

 

[RealCrownHeights]

Women are so annoying when your watching sports man. Well at least women I know, like they get physically annoyed at me sitting down and enjoying sports. We could have talked the whole day, put on 2 chick flicks and she still wants attention.

Also had a girl try to berate my for “listening to r Kelly and Andrew Tate” I don’t listen to either, but I said if I go out and Kelly comes on outside I’m not about to fight the di and I stopped listening to Tate after the rape shyt. Meanwhile this mf is a nicki Minaj super fan and her husband is a sicko.

Lastly, this mf is convinced because her friends are in dental and med school they will all be making 500k by 40. I don’t say it’s not attainable I just ask her to show me 5 black people that make that with proof and she gets defensive and says “idc about stats and numbers” and all I said was so you and your 6 friends will be in the 1 percent of the world huh.

 

[360dagod]

Women are so annoying when your watching sports man. Well at least women I know, like they get physically annoyed at me sitting down and enjoying sports. We could have talked the whole day, put on 2 chick flicks and she still wants attention.

Also had a girl try to berate my for “listening to r Kelly and Andrew Tate” I don’t listen to either, but I said if I go out and Kelly comes on outside I’m not about to fight the di and I stopped listening to Tate after the rape shyt. Meanwhile this mf is a nicki Minaj super fan and her husband is a sicko.

Lastly, this mf is convinced because her friends are in dental and med school they will all be making 500k by 40. I don’t say it’s not attainable I just ask her to show me 5 black people that make that with proof and she gets defensive and says “idc about stats and numbers” and all I said was so you and your 6 friends will be in the 1 percent of the world huh.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Also had a girl try to berate my for “listening to r Kelly and Andrew Tate” I don’t listen to either, but I said if I go out and Kelly comes on outside I’m not about to fight the di and I stopped listening to Tate after the rape shyt. Meanwhile this mf is a nicki Minaj super fan and her husband is a sicko.

Lastly, this mf is convinced because her friends are in dental and med school they will all be making 500k by 40. I don’t say it’s not attainable I just ask her to show me 5 black people that make that with proof and she gets defensive and says “idc about stats and numbers” and all I said was so you and your 6 friends will be in the 1 percent of the world huh.

acting aloof or semi-informed about controversial topics is the best method: “I’ve seen that Tate guy on my Twitter feed a few times but never looked into him” “R.Kelly was a sick dude smh” plain and simple.

I speak for myself on this, and many brehs could agree — but I used to lead with intelligence/emotional side from the jump w/o her giving me a reason to.

What conversations have we had or topics that we’ve covered for you to receive my genuine opinions and in-depth concerns on issues?

If the conversation is organic and engaging I won’t gatekeep my opinions, but unsolicitely putting in my two cents on every topic is for the birds. If she doesn’t directly ask for it, why give it to her?

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Yup. Met a joint on hinge. Gave her my number around 2pm, she texted me around 11pm, talking about “how am I doing? How’s new years?” No introduction or hey ____”

Got a low tolerance now, especially with text. Im bushing if the energy is trash.

low interest hoes can get fukked too the lack of greeting w/ your name is weird though.. lmk it’s you w/ the random #

I retired the mindset that every woman I speak to should be drooling over me. I’ve already done/continuing to do the work on myself, so it’s on the woman to decide how infatuated she is with. Whatever option she chose will be met with equal energy.

Also, that 11PM reply back is meh for the time alone. past 11PM conversations are a waste because both parties got shyt to do in the morning and the conversation will be cut short.

 

[DJSmooth]

Women are so annoying when your watching sports man. Well at least women I know, like they get physically annoyed at me sitting down and enjoying sports. We could have talked the whole day, put on 2 chick flicks and she still wants attention.

Also had a girl try to berate my for “listening to r Kelly and Andrew Tate” I don’t listen to either, but I said if I go out and Kelly comes on outside I’m not about to fight the di and I stopped listening to Tate after the rape shyt. Meanwhile this mf is a nicki Minaj super fan and her husband is a sicko.

Lastly, this mf is convinced because her friends are in dental and med school they will all be making 500k by 40. I don’t say it’s not attainable I just ask her to show me 5 black people that make that with proof and she gets defensive and says “idc about stats and numbers” and all I said was so you and your 6 friends will be in the 1 percent of the world huh.

Yall be trying to have deep conversations with women like you're on The Coli.

If that's not your gf or she's not in the top percent intellectually you shouldn't be having deep conversation with women, keep it fun and light. The same way you wouldn't be having deep debates with coworkers on the job.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yall be trying to have deep conversations with women like you're on The Coli.

If that's not your gf or she's not in the top percent intellectually you shouldn't be having deep conversation with women, keep it fun and light. The same way you wouldn't be having deep debates with coworkers on the job.

Yup let them ramble about work or how their girl did this and that and just throw in a true, yeah, wow for real, uhuh

 

[rabbid]

Delay the gratification and keep that abundance mentality.

Keeping it straightforward and direct always gets rid of the time wasters.

I truly wish every man knew how many girls are out there that are either similar to or better than what they're dealing with. if its not working in your favor and she's not pushing to make it as successful as possible, you're literally spending opportunity costs on a less cooperative woman. you not getting anything special by putting up with nonsense, in fact you're wasting your time.

 

[BigBlackSea]

delete and sign up again your algorithm is messed up

I had to do the same thing. Usually am able to get around 100 matches or so before thing slow down. I got maybe 30 since November 2022

How long you usually wait before remaking your account?

 

[MikelArteta]

I had to do the same thing. Usually am able to get around 100 matches or so before thing slow down. I got maybe 30 since November 2022

How long you usually wait before remaking your account?

Asap
It's only if you do it to much hinge may shadowban you

If you're only seeing ugly girls have to delete or if you send a rose to one of those fly chicks and the person matches then it resets

 

[Ohene]

Yall be trying to have deep conversations with women like you're on The Coli.

If that's not your gf or she's not in the top percent intellectually you shouldn't be having deep conversation with women, keep it fun and light. The same way you wouldn't be having deep debates with coworkers on the job.

Underrated advice
Especially the bold

 

[BigBlackSea]

Asap
It's only if you do it to much hinge may shadowban you

If you're only seeing ugly girls have to delete or if you send a rose to one of those fly chicks and the person matches then it resets

No shadowban yet. I thought you had to wait a month or so after deleting but I'll see what I happens. You usually change anything in your profile?