Great perspective breh, appreciate you sharing this advice. I need to have better patience too. She annoys me too much and I just walk away from her or break up with her for a few days which is no good. It's getting so bad she doesn't feel no sense of security with me and feels bad about it.
shyt it's like you're me from a parallel universe or something breh. Same with me, me and my girl argued damn near every week last year mostly about foolishness. We even broke up a lot cause I would get fed up and end things but we always came back together cause she would reach out or I would give in and have the conversation needed to fix things.
Lol It's not that simple, as annoying as it is dealing with her I know there is trash out there even worse than her. She's a good woman who has her mom and dad in her life but she is an only child which is where I think she gets the independence from. She is intelligent, not a bum, takes care of herself, loyal, barley goes out, is feminine and has many good qualities.
Every woman is gonna have faults if you're seriously dating them you will see it overtime. None of them are logical whether independent or not.
That’s not my point. It seems that your relationship is already experiencing a lot of ups and downs in such a short period. My point is, these “independent boss babe” chicks are not worth the headache. But then again i work 70+ hours a week and have a consistent roster that I don’t have to put up with stuff like this. Having leverage is godly.
Going through weekly breakups and getting back together on some rinse and repeat type shyt sounds dreadful and annoying. You also mentioned ya’ll argued every week last year and she annoys you so much. That sounds miserable breh. Plenty of educated smart women who don’t put brehs through shyt like. I’m talking to one chick who is ivy educated and even she doesn’t come at me like this despite her making well over 6 figures.
Women are supposed to fall in line and be your peace, there may be something on your end that’s causing her to act unruly. I haven’t dealt with shyt like that since undergrad. I think more men need to start looking into the mirror to see why their s/o is acting combative and unruly. She clearly doesn’t trust your judgment or leadership (for whatever reason, even if its dumb af reasoning. Like
@WIA20XX eloquently stated, is it truly worth dealing with all of this?
Weekly arguments sounds annoying af. You have to get your women in line. She wouldn’t be doing that if she truly admired and felt like she needed you…imo. You have to make a woman afraid to lose you.. this is where being in shape, being in a good space financially and on your purpose is key.
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, but I still stand by that . By the stuff alot dudes post on this site .They don't actually 'like' women . If you can't see that then cool , go along with your day fam.
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