Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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dudes is just looking out to be honest. dont take it personally. just remember, women who have children know how to run game to get a man to let their guard down. if they were really that cool, submissive, great in bed, great at cooking, easy going, charismatic etc...then why didnt their baby daddy hold them down? Situation by situation of course but ask yourself that question.

you said you have had women try to trap you before because you are doing well for yourself, so understand your current girl may be doing the same.

good luck

Aye Krakye don't miss quote me , I never said women have tried to trap , I said they'd be happy to have my child.

I hear though , I know that was wreckless but shiit happens sometimes bruh . I'm not a yout though so my eyes are open and any signs of shadyness I'm just cutting it off .
 

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Did I strike a nerve fam ?:pachaha:why you so mad

Like I said "some"
nah, fukk that.. explain the “some”. If it’s based in women hatred, call it out so it can be fixed. If it’s based in homosexuality — it can’t be because this thread is about women :mjlol:

you one of the many examples of Men today actin’ like bytches anytime somebody either asks for clarification or tells them the truth

I’m tired of hearing that shyt and I’m tired of younger men adopting that from you weak nikkas
 

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nah, fukk that.. explain the “some”. If it’s based in women hatred, call it out so it can be fixed. If it’s based in homosexuality — it can’t be because this thread is about women :mjlol:

you one of the many examples of Men today actin’ like bytches anytime somebody either asks for clarification or tells them the truth

I’m tired of hearing that shyt and I’m tired of younger men adopting that from you weak nikkas

Maaaaaan have a good day bro :unimpressed:i'm not doing this with you. It's not that deep
 

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30 years old talkin’ bout some “why do at women asks if you’re tested after sex? :lupe:“ as a man you ASK FOR THAT UP FRONT… how the fukk you 30 years old asking a question teenagers know the answer to

nikkas in here be green asl, get shown they’re green, then rather than just show humility they want to say slick shyt.. then hide behind “it’s just my opinion” when nikkas check you
 

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Yeah, you've got to take the advice and suggestions in here in good humour and said in genuine concern, not mockery.

IMO if a woman already has a child, then I'd be extra careful speaking from experience they like unprotected sex.

The one I was seeing was honourable, but still, it is not a risk I would take these days. It just takes one slip-up...

I got talking to one of my OGs back in the UK on new years eve, I'd reached out and he rang me back. That man slipped up when he was 24 and got a woman he didn't even really like pregnant. Due to where she thought he was going at the time she kept it.

He loves his child but those two do not get on. But his stuck with her as they share a link forever.

This guy now has 2 ex-baby mothers and his on the rocks with his current chick.

I could only count my blessings.
 
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Yeah, you've got to take the advice and suggestions in here in good humour and said in genuine concern, not mockery.

IMO if a woman already has a child, then I'd be extra careful speaking from experience they like unprotected sex.

The one I was seeing was honourable, but still, it is not a risk I would take these days. It just takes one slip-up...

I got talking to my of my OGs back in the UK on new years eve I'd reached out and he rang me back. That man slipped up when he was 24 and got a woman he didn't even like pregnant. Due to where she thought he was going at the time she kept it.

He loves his child but those two do not get on. But his stuck with her as they share a link forever.

This guy now has 2 ex-baby mothers and his on the rocks with his current chick.

I could only count my blessings.

if she has a kid you know what happens if she gets knocked up
if shes over 30 shes itching to get a kid you know whats going to happen if you mess up
 

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Yeah, you've got to take the advice and suggestions in here in good humour and said in genuine concern, not mockery.

IMO if a woman already has a child, then I'd be extra careful speaking from experience they like unprotected sex.

The one I was seeing was honourable, but still, it is not a risk I would take these days. It just takes one slip-up...

I got talking to my of my OGs back in the UK on new years eve I'd reached out and he rang me back. That man slipped up when he was 24 and got a woman he didn't even like pregnant. Due to where she thought he was going at the time she kept it.

He loves his child but those two do not get on. But his stuck with her as they share a link forever.

This guy now has 2 ex-baby mothers and his on the rocks with his current chick.

I could only count my blessings.

Fam , I read and even dapped most the post saying I was trippin , but some dudes be too extra with it .
 

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dudes really out here expecting women to be perfect lol.

Ive been with or talked to enough, and listen to enough stories from friends in long term relationships to the point where i firmly believe that the vast majority of women are delusional or unrealistic when it comes to relationships. society gasses and coddles them too much

some level of teaching and and a reality check is always going to be required dealing with attractive modern women in the US/Canada. And for the ones who it isnt (women in developing countries for instance), they prolly gonna try to treat you like a wallet. If they refuse to listen then I'll keep it moving, but if they are willing to adjust and learn then thats enough to give em a chance and see if it can go anywhere in my opinion. As long as you dont give them too much leverage and keep your options open

"Look at the women in America , young and old. Hardly any moral values are left in them. You can measure this by their dress and attire. Their spiritual values are almost destroyed, because of their emphasis on material things---" - Malcolm X
 
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