Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Duke Wy Lin]

"Look at the women in America , young and old. Hardly any moral values are left in them. You can measure this by their dress and attire. Their spiritual values are almost destroyed, because of their emphasis on material things---" - Malcolm X

And this was in the 50s/60s. Imagine what he would've said now

 

[Ahadi]

“I’m down and out with a cold, hopefully it will be better when we meet on Thursday I’ll keep you posted”

Yeah feel better



Bush

 

[Ohene]

facts

 

[Killigraphy]

if a girl on dating apps, 9/10 times there is a reason

theres the argument that dating apps opens a person up to meet ppl they otherwise wouldnt come across on a day to day
- cool ...but what is wrong with the people where you live? especially if its in a big city. everyone else is the problem and not you right? sure

theres the argument that it makes it easier to meet people
- cool... but if you're approach to dating is lazy. so will your approach to relationships

theres the argument that it allows you to vet somebody
- cool...but then i got a goat to sell you. if you think what you see on apps and social media is all true...then youre an idiot

point blank. The creme de la creme of women do not need dating apps. Its nothing more than a tool most use to get attention from men and exploit them.

I'm always surprised at how many naive men there out there considering the topic. Especially if the broad is relatively pretty. I break it down to men even when they meet a trashbag in a club...look at where you met her, what about that seems like they're good people? While yes, most men aren't me, so they don't hang out with pretty women and pornstars, some things are self evident.

To your point, a hot chick is going to have her choices of men, if shes on dating apps, there's a monster creeping around.

 

[Ahadi]

What’s your opinion when a joint says you’re too opinionated? & does it have to do her not use to a vocal black man?

 

[RaspberryFitted]

What’s your opinion when a joint says you’re too opinionated? & does it have to do her not use to a vocal black man?

That could be an angle, but in general: less is more.

not every topic requires a deep dive. A simple “I see where you’re coming from” can do wonders

 

[Killigraphy]

What’s your opinion when a joint says you’re too opinionated? & does it have to do her not use to a vocal black man?

I don't really care, honestly, they all love it. "Oh you just say whatever you want" "You can't say that"...Has never stopped me, in fact its just fuel to keep going. Obviously shes just not used to a guy who isn't going to jump through hoops for her. Used to quiet nerds or dorky yt dudes who let them walk all over them. She will eventually want my type more so than the Dorky Dennis

 

[International Playa]

“I’m down and out with a cold, hopefully it will be better when we meet on Thursday I’ll keep you posted”

Yeah feel better



Bush

Had a woman pull this exact same line on me mid-December,the night before our date. I haven't reached out to her & she hasn't reached out to me since lol

 

[The ADD]

That could be an angle, but in general: less is more.

not every topic requires a deep dive. A simple “I see where you’re coming from” can do wonders

^^^
I usually stayed away from giving a lot of opinions with chicks I wasn’t attached to.

 

[Ohene]

What’s your opinion when a joint says you’re too opinionated? & does it have to do her not use to a vocal black man?

Means you’re opinionating yourself out the puss
Let her do most of the talking til you fck

 

[Ohene]

Sometimes with a girl you just have to listen , observe and nod. Especially when they are telling their own stories. Let them be the one to tell on theyself and only reveal what they ask early on

Oh word?
I see
Damn for real?
True
No way!
That’s what’s up
What happened next?
What you think about that?

 

[Ahadi]

Means you’re opinionating yourself out the puss
Let her do most of the talking til you fck

I smashed a few times already, she just mentioned how it makes them feel “judged” and “it can make women walk on egg shells around you”



But I’ve had some women who love it and it keeps the fuel going - @Killigraphy

Balance might be the key - @RaspberryFitted

 

[Ohene]

I smashed a few times already, she just mentioned how it makes them feel “judged” and “it can make women walk on egg shells around you”



But I’ve had some women who love it and it keeps the fuel going - @Killigraphy

Balance might be the key - @RaspberryFitted

ahh in that case you good.

keep challenging her as you see fit and necessary. she probably used to dudes coddling her

but still sometimes youre better off just listening (or acting like you are) and letting them get their shyt off without judging or offering solutions.

 

[WIA20XX]

“it can make women walk on egg shells around you”

IMO, her not being able to relax - she gotta keep everything tight to keep your attention and keep in your good favor -

1) Is a GREAT thing
2) Is FAR better than the alternative. (which is what most guys experience)

My attitude - No, you can't be your regular lazy/unreliable/unambitious self around me, you GOTTA CHANGE.

 

[Ohene]

IMO, her not being able to relax - she gotta keep everything tight to keep your attention and keep in your good favor -

1) Is a GREAT thing
2) Is FAR better than the alternative. (which is what most guys experience)

My attitude - No, you can't be your regular lazy/unreliable/unambitious self around me, you GOTTA CHANGE.

quoted for emphasis

nikkas have to stay on point all the time. fukk i look like letting a shorty get comfortable around me

hell nah