Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Never. Unless a chick whose disappeared messages me. I'll keep on keeping on.

I always get new chicks coming through. Wasting time on a chick whose not even bothered to reply in 11 months?

Could never be me.
Do you double text in general?
 

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Sorry brehs was tired but let me write into more detail the truth and nothing but the truth.

So I arrive at church yesterday and since I was in the back I could only see her from the back, tall, lightskin and not fat slim. I was like :ehh: but still had little faith maybe her face is busted . Wasn't till after church when I'm packing up the lady at church comes and says happy new year and introduces me to her friend.

Chick was 9/10 face wise perfect teeth, I froze up like a idiot :snoop:, all all i could muster is hope you had a good time nice to meet you.

Didn't even ask for her name or number :snoop:, the married woman messaged me again how she will be there next week and wants to talk to me more though
 

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Sorry brehs was tired but let me write into more detail the truth and nothing but the truth.

So I arrive at church yesterday and since I was in the back I could only see her from the back, tall, lightskin and not fat slim. I was like :ehh: but still had little faith maybe her face is busted . Wasn't till after church when I'm packing up the lady at church comes and says happy new year and introduces me to her friend.

Chick was 9/10 face wise perfect teeth, I froze up like a idiot :snoop:, all all i could muster is hope you had a good time nice to meet you.

Didn't even ask for her name or number :snoop:, the married woman messaged me again how she will be there next week and wants to talk to me more though
SMH
 

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Do you double text in general?

Not usually. But I guess context matters. I guess for most of us 'double texting' is sending a chick a question. Not getting a reply and as a way to try and usually fail to force her to reply, we send another question. That for me is a no-no.

In the case of that breh, 11 months is a joke.

Texting in general can be a minefield. But for me it tells me what a woman's overall energy and interest is.

If my energy is not being reciprocated then double texting is like trying to keep a fire that's dying desperately going.

Every breh in this thread has suffered the dreaded. "Sorry, I only just saw your message" BS from a chick.

It took me a while but healthy-minded women where we've both set clear boundaries and expectations I never have to think about double texting.

I texted the Hapa chick 5 mins ago and she has already texted back. We tell each when we have time to message and when we don't.

For me, texting is no replacement for actual meeting in person, but it also serves as an early warning system when a chick is cooling on you.
 
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nope don't do it.

Even some girls I know that I'm close to they send me screenshots of when guys do that and they just laugh.
yoooo she just better end up with a nikka better than me and be happy cause the pressure is up now!

it’s only gonna get better from here

we in the jordan year of the 2nd millennium fukk these bytches. we balling and stunting like michael
 

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I know breh :picard:
:mjcry: Whole week I thought she was gonna be fat and ugly

Got one more chance next sunday

You should have been prepared breh.

:ufdup:

Least you know you need to get it together for next week. So you can begin to get to know this woman.

2022 showed me the right people will enter your life at the right time, thats for romance, work and friendship, but you have to open the door to those opportunities.
 

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Not usually. But I guess context matters. I guess for most of us 'double texting' is sending a chick a question. Not getting a reply and as a way to try and usually fail to force her to reply we send another question. That for me is a no no.

In the case of that breh, 11 months is a joke.

Texting in general can be a minefield. But for me it tells me what a woman's overall energy and interest is.

If my energy is not being reciprocated then double texting is like trying to keep a fire that's dying desperately going.

Every breh in this thread has suffered the dreaded. "Sorry, I only just saw your message" BS from a chick.

It took me a while but healthy minded women where we've both set clear boundaries and expectations I never have to think about double texting.

I texted the Hapa chick 5 mins ago and she has already texted back. We tell each when we have time to message and when we don't.

For me texting is no replacement for actual meeting in person but it also serves as an early warning system when a chick is cooling on you.

Yup everyone has their phone of them for the majority of the day. If I text someone and they don't reply I'm not doing it again.
 

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Do people actually have problems talking to women. Or are they just not talking to women?

Every guy I know we're all different heights, races, skin tones, and personalities but still get some sort of box or had relationships.

Are guys on the coli really 0/100 with women? Or is this a joke ting
 

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Do people actually have problems talking to women. Or are they just not talking to women?

Every guy I know we're all different heights, races, skin tones, and personalities but still get some sort of box or had relationships.

Are guys on the coli really 0/100 with women? Or is this a joke ting
the latter.

Combined with over exaggerating their failures, being to hard on themselves, and comparing their output to their “peers” — aka, dudes online
 

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the latter.

Combined with over exaggerating their failures, being to hard on themselves, and comparing their output to their “peers” — aka, dudes online
Got you, because it's crazy. I'm assuming most of us are 30+ and it's sad reading some of these post. Most things in the TLR are to be taken with a grain of salt but damn im hoping this isn't true.
 

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You should have been prepared breh.

:ufdup:

Least you know you need to get it together for next week. So you can begin to get to know this woman.

2022 showed me the right people will enter your life at the right time, thats for romance, work and friendship, but you have to open the door to those opportunities.

The funny thing I was talking to one of my friends last week how I'm done with the apps for a while I want to meet someone at like church or just when I'm out grocery shopping and poof.
 

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Sorry brehs was tired but let me write into more detail the truth and nothing but the truth.

So I arrive at church yesterday and since I was in the back I could only see her from the back, tall, lightskin and not fat slim. I was like :ehh: but still had little faith maybe her face is busted . Wasn't till after church when I'm packing up the lady at church comes and says happy new year and introduces me to her friend.

Chick was 9/10 face wise perfect teeth, I froze up like a idiot :snoop:, all all i could muster is hope you had a good time nice to meet you.

Didn't even ask for her name or number :snoop:, the married woman messaged me again how she will be there next week and wants to talk to me more though
At least you got another opportunity to close the deal & you know she is single & looking. Good luck, keep us updated
 
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