Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Deathstroke said:
Y’all peep the text I got this girl I’ve been talking to for 3months. She lives in another city. 5 hours drive away. I think I played myself but she was so dope I entertained it. I knew she couldn’t do long distance but it felt so good.


With that being said, I feel like I'm really really getting carried away. My intention for you, for us - is to be friends. And that's what I've been really scared to say because I don't want to lose what we have. I feel like I've really pushed and ignored my own boundaries, willingly obviously, because I feel so much for you and I care about you and want you to feel all that coming from me. But this kind of display of affection is confusing I think, because it really doesn't reflect my intention. And it messes with me because I mean everything I say to you, but it's definitely not friend-like. In my head - you and I are married with our ball team full of kids... Just kidding, but we are in very much what feels like a long-distance relationship. Which you know is something I said I would not be able to entertain. But here I am feeling all these feelings and unable to control my emotions or my display of them to you. I'm also not trying to think for you, so I would love to know how this impacts you as well.

I know you can feel what I feel for you. It's stupidly undeniable, I don't want to lose you, but I'd also like to honour myself and my truth and be super transparent with you about what I want. I want to try to be friends with you as hard as that may be (for me at least). I think we can still add a lot of value to each other's lives in any capacity.

Told her I can’t do that and pretend to be just friends but she makes it so hard. She gives me everything. She’s interested in me, gets to know me, what I like, she initiates all the time. We’ve been romantically involved and she did tell me the distance was hard for her. I’m just confused af because even now she doesn’t wanna let me go. I ain’t a friendzone niccur though.
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See when I read this I read it soo clearly but its in womenese so I know some catch it but maybe not all.. Sounds like you got a good thing, she is saying she wants to be your fun girl, on the road cumbucket.. But she is too shy to say it so she puts the ball in your court to call your shot.. If you try for something serious, she will ghost you never to be heard from again. Dont be a shade tree rest haven.. let her play her role on your roster and everyone is happy..
 
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VertigoKnight said:
Damn, very similar to one of my friends. its in reverse though.

Guy she met in NY a few months back, they got together and hit it off. In her mind it's a holiday fling that got a little deeper. She gets back, they carry on chatting but he keeps trying to push this long distance thing, she's not up for that.

December arrives and he has some holiday to take and so he suggests he comes to Vancouver. First time he'd ever left the US.

I've met the guy twice, his cool. But things are intense with them, they obviously pick up where they left off. And after a few days he starts pushing hard for that long distance relationship again. As he feels their lovey dovey.

She shuts it all the way down and tells him she likes him deeply but a long distance anything is not what she is looking for. His obviously upset. His flown over here for 2 weeks, and was hoping to close the deal.

But she's right, she's in Vancouver and his in New Jersey. How is that good for either of them? She told me she loves him but is not in love with him.

That's not the first time I've heard that phrase this year from women talking about guys they're seeing. When you're in love with somebody that's when you make the wildest decisions.
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She’s doing him a favor
 
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VertigoKnight said:
Oh for sure. She setout what the rules of engagement were from the off. But his wanting more.

I've always said this about my friend. She will tell a guy what he often doesn't want to hear early so their can be no doubts.
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And that girl did the same thing tbh. So I can’t be mad at that. I didn’t even push for a relationship. I was happy with how things are and never mentioned it. But she knew the longer and more we did this, the more attached we’d be. Even if nothing was said from me. It sucks because she somewhat gives me more than a girlfriend would. Honestly, if I had a best friend, she could be it. But how can we be friends while we both know we want each other. I’m always gon be scheming lol. She says she still wants to talk to me everyday and get to know me better. But as friends. She called me saying she doesn’t wanna lose me and that we can make this work but man. I could for a couple weeks. But as things go on, I’mma really want her.
 
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She said I'm impatient and treat her like a prostitute.. it is what it is brehs. I hit her with the "love and respect 🙏" onto better things in 2023. These girls gonna see it how they wanna see it. If i gotta be the villian then I may as well be Heath Ledger in this bytch.

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I was gonna go out this New Years Eve…but something told me nah…just chill inside, play call of duty save ya bread.

There was a good 3 parties I could’ve hit and took a bytch home…but the cost for drinks, Ubering to the crib/telly…

…..Finna be off dating apps and partying for the next 5 months.

Need to center myself and get my bag up. IG, Tinder, all this shyt is a distraction.
 
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VertigoKnight said:
Never. Unless a chick whose disappeared messages me. I'll keep on keeping on.

I always get new chicks coming through. Wasting time on a chick whose not even bothered to reply in 11 months?

Could never be me.
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my shyt is dry. i just imagine the s3x. “she needs me,” as she’s texting some nfl rb off the practice team
 
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