Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Do people actually have problems talking to women. Or are they just not talking to women?

Every guy I know we're all different heights, races, skin tones, and personalities but still get some sort of box or had relationships.

Are guys on the coli really 0/100 with women? Or is this a joke ting

There are guys on here who are real menaces and won't be getting any type of woman.

But I take it most guys on here joke about the ugly gang thing.

But it's probably more that they give off the wrong vibes to any potential romantic interest.

And turn them off by being too eager and coming off as desperate.
 

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talked to this girl off and on on hinge for like two weeks cause of holidays. Finally got her number and then after two texts she ghosts me. I mean if someone doesn't text you back in 24 hours especially during the holidays when shes off from work they prob not that interested? I double texted her after two days said im moving on lol. shes bad I might of just fukked it up being thirsty. Everyone constantly on there phones if she doesn't text me back in 24 hours IMO it's a wrap.
 

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talked to this girl off and on on hinge for like two weeks cause of holidays. Finally got her number and then after two texts she ghosts me. I mean if someone doesn't text you back in 24 hours especially during the holidays when shes off from work they prob not that interested? I double texted her after two days said im moving on lol. shes bad I might of just fukked it up being thirsty. Everyone constantly on there phones if she doesn't text me back in 24 hours IMO it's a wrap.
She wasn’t that interested. No more, no less
 

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I'm lucky to be very likable and easygoing to talk to, but what I feel has been my best experience is moving/traveling. I could go into deep detail about everything, but instead, I'll just say quit putting women on a pedestal.

Stop that lack of confidence bullshyt, don't hate on another breh out here winning because that could be you if you wanted it to be. After the 1000th time of being like that fine ass dime with this mf? :mjtf: I realized we (guys) believe what women will find attractive in a man is not what they find attractive. How could we ever know what will attract a female to a guy?

The first thing we go off is looks and then we MIGHT take into consideration of everything else. And you know what that is a sign of? A breh with no experience, a breh with no options. Like a breh talking to a girl with multiple children lol.

Let it be known though, there's nothing wrong with doing that. The thing is if you're only doing this because you believe you want to be in this situation, but the reality is you want to smash someone, then you're doing everybody a disservice. Especially, those innocent kids. Don't do that.

When you have options there will be things you will no longer deal with
-drama
-she might have mental issues
-shyt she might not even pay her own bills

Like breh you going to get into a relationship with a girl who won't help contribute to anything just because you find her attractive at the time?


And living in different areas, there's one more thing. These women will simp hardcore over dudes you would never expect to. Just this weekend I went on vacation, and every time I went to the hotel bar this fine-ass bartender had her boyfriend sitting right there. According to the people who live around here, he's here every time she's working. Women will simp over a dude who's broke, fat, weird af, etc. It don't matter, what's safe to assume is that dude is comfortable in his own skin.


You should be too tho. Be yourself and attract what you attract.

And talk to women from different cultures/backgrounds! not growing up on the same interests, social circle doesn't mean shyt! learn from them
 

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Plus her friend already put in a good word for him. This should be a easy slam dunk.

No pressure tho @MikelArteta :mjgrin:

I'm lucky to be very likable and easygoing to talk to, but what I feel has been my best experience is moving/traveling. I could go into deep detail about everything, but instead, I'll just say quit putting women on a pedestal.

Stop that lack of confidence bullshyt, don't hate on another breh out here winning because that could be you if you wanted it to be. After the 1000th time of being like that fine ass dime with this mf? :mjtf: I realized we (guys) believe what women will find attractive in a man is not what they find attractive. How could we ever know what will attract a female to a guy?

The first thing we go off is looks and then we MIGHT take into consideration of everything else. And you know what that is a sign of? A breh with no experience, a breh with no options. Like a breh talking to a girl with multiple children lol.

Let it be known though, there's nothing wrong with doing that. The thing is if you're only doing this because you believe you want to be in this situation, but the reality is you want to smash someone, then you're doing everybody a disservice. Especially, those innocent kids. Don't do that.

When you have options there will be things you will no longer deal with
-drama
-she might have mental issues
-shyt she might not even pay her own bills

Like breh you going to get into a relationship with a girl who won't help contribute to anything just because you find her attractive at the time?


And living in different areas, there's one more thing. These women will simp hardcore over dudes you would never expect to. Just this weekend I went on vacation, and every time I went to the hotel bar this fine-ass bartender had her boyfriend sitting right there. According to the people who live around here, he's here every time she's working. Women will simp over a dude who's broke, fat, weird af, etc. It don't matter, what's safe to assume is that dude is comfortable in his own skin.


You should be too tho. Be yourself and attract what you attract.

And talk to women from different cultures/backgrounds! not growing up on the same interests, social circle doesn't mean shyt! learn from them

Yup its like when you apply for a job and get it. There might have been like 100 people who applied for that job, some with better qualifications than you, more experience , even had a better interview than you but yet you were chosen.
 

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talked to this girl off and on on hinge for like two weeks cause of holidays. Finally got her number and then after two texts she ghosts me. I mean if someone doesn't text you back in 24 hours especially during the holidays when shes off from work they prob not that interested? I double texted her after two days said im moving on lol. shes bad I might of just fukked it up being thirsty. Everyone constantly on there phones if she doesn't text me back in 24 hours IMO it's a wrap.

I'm going to say if a chick is not up for giving you her number within a day or two. She's not serious. Strictly a passing time thing for her.

How many times did you ask for her number? And we're you making most of the contact?

And telling a chick you moving on and you haven't met her?! Come on breh, You probably solidified to her she was 'right' to ghost and she definitely, screen-shot that and showed her friends.
 
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talked to this girl off and on on hinge for like two weeks cause of holidays. Finally got her number and then after two texts she ghosts me. I mean if someone doesn't text you back in 24 hours especially during the holidays when shes off from work they prob not that interested? I double texted her after two days said im moving on lol. shes bad I might of just fukked it up being thirsty. Everyone constantly on there phones if she doesn't text me back in 24 hours IMO it's a wrap.
Cmon breh …
 

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I'm going to say if a chick is not up for giving you her number within a day or two. She's not serious. Strictly a passing time thing for her.
How many times did you ask for her number? And we're you making most of the contact?

And telling a chick you moving on and you haven't met her?! Come on breh, You probably solidified to her she was 'right' to ghost and she definitely, screen-shot that and showed her friends.

Cmon breh …

Text “I’m moving on” to a girl that ghosted you after stringing you along for two weeks brehs :mjlol:

Ol I’ll show her ass nikka :mjlol:
 

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I'm going to say if a chick is not up for giving you her number within a day or two. She's not serious. Strictly a passing time thing for her.

How many times did you ask for her number? And we're you making most of the contact?

And telling a chick you moving on and you haven't met her?! Come on breh, You probably solidified to her she was 'right' to ghost and she definitely, screen-shot that and showed her friends.
I agree with you about the two days. Normally I try to meet up within the first few days of matching. I gave her benefit of the doubt last few weeks cause of holidays and new years. I made a joke to her she might be a cat fish so she said we could facetime. I said ok what's your number? I fukked up by texting instead of setting up a time to face time. I didn't have time to facetime for a few days after she gave me her number. should of set something up instead of answering her questions about what I do for work and shyt.
 
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