Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[jilla82]

Pulled me a super baddie

I know we on borrowed time but I'm finna enjoy this. Bih use to ball players and entertainers but caught me out LV dripping

First date yesterday though. Brunch $50 (she doesn't drink) museum, then later in the evening we linked back up and I took her to my friend holiday party an hour outside the city.

I been laying it on thick but I need to hurry up and beat before whoever bought her that Balenciaga bag pops back up

had a friend in a similar situation.

dude caught a charlie horse during sex.
they had to stop and she worked out the cramp while his naked dad bod laid in the bed.

Was the last time he saw her

 

[jilla82]

Which lawyer is the most and least humble?

any type of lawyer that sees themselves as working for the greater good of society is going to be pretty normal.
(government, non profit work, etc...)

there are probably other types im missing.

One of my friends has had a FWB relationship with one thats been going on for years....
...she has a drinking problem though.
but comes over for sex and leaves after a little bit

 

[Rasille]

any type of lawyer that is sees themselves as working for the greater good of society is going to be pretty normal.
(government, non profit work, etc...)

there are probably other types im missing.

One of my friends has had a FWB relationship with one thats been going on for years....
...she has a drinking problem though.
but comes over for sex and leaves after a little bit

The ones I spoke to thought they were too good

 

[jilla82]

The ones I spoke to thought they were too good

I think figuring out what type of women you like as well as knowing what type of women are attracted to you makes things much easier.
I think a lot of men go for a shotgun approach and they end up frustrated.

for example...
...I do fairly well financially but im a minimalists.
That means I dont even waste my time worrying about women that look for men with big cars, gaudy clothes, etc...

the flip side of that is I do really well with earthy types (or whatever you want to call them)...
...which is where I focus my attention.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

I don’t get black women at times for example if some of them want a black guy he gotta have an edge to him but when it comes to a white dude he can be just as normal as possible. Do they not ses the issue with that logic?

Black men are to blame for this to but aint ready for that talk yet

 

[DaRealness]

This whole interview has a lot of unspoken truths

He's talking pure facts.

Chicks always come with that lowkey shaming tactic of "you're just scared to feel vulnerable and blocking yourself from something amazing" whenever you refuse to be controlled...yeah, been there, done that sweetheart. We just learn from harsh lessons after finally wising up and seeing how real life actually works so we move accordingly. Nice try though.

It's never a good thing to be "vulnerable" any more than it is to leave your house windows and doors unlocked. fukk all that fluffy fairytale bullshyt.

 

[DA_LURKA]

Black men are to blame for this to but aint ready for that talk yet

But of course...

 

[VertigoKnight]

Which lawyer is the most and least humble?

I've dated a lot of lawyers. Of different practices. I've found all of them have been humble.

For me, It comes down to a woman's personality that shows if she's a bytch.

I've dated a lot of very well-off women and they were all humble and nice. Maybe because many of them came from nothing and worked hard so they had that instilled in them.

The richest woman I ever dated her family grew up in poverty in Korea and used to have to eat beansprouts for dinner every day growing up.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I think figuring out what type of women you like as well as knowing what type of women are attracted to you makes things much easier.
I think a lot of men go for a shotgun approach and they end up frustrated.

for example...
...I do fairly well financially but im a minimalists.
That means I dont even waste my time worrying about women that look for men with big cars, gaudy clothes, etc...

the flip side of that is I do really well with earthy types (or whatever you want to call them)...
...which is where I focus my attention.

This is the key and why I always say to any man know what kind of woman you're dealing with.

I'm also a minimalist, I don't have to or want to be out here balling for no reason. it's tacky.

A woman who only wants status symbols to show how well she's doing = a no for me.

I do well with most types of women except for status whores and party girls, those are the ones who expect a man to pick up everything for them, no questions asked. I can smoke them out pretty easily from initial chats

I tend to find the women I date, have good jobs, usually own their homes, are not gaudy and value nice experiences over flaunting how well off they are.

Which makes them a good match for me.

 

[Digital Omen]

I think figuring out what type of women you like as well as knowing what type of women are attracted to you makes things much easier.
I think a lot of men go for a shotgun approach and they end up frustrated.

for example...
...I do fairly well financially but im a minimalists.
That means I dont even waste my time worrying about women that look for men with big cars, gaudy clothes, etc...

the flip side of that is I do really well with earthy types (or whatever you want to call them)...
...which is where I focus my attention.

Likewise. Got my artsy earthy joint right now and it's just effortless
I had to find my lane cuz for years I went for the party girls and when I wanted to get serious with a couple of them they skated
Then I got with this intellectual math wiz (and married her) and that was all the way fukked up
But like you I look back and upon reflection I had the best times and relationships with the photographer, the painter, the artsy types
Being with one now is almost a reward for the shyt I went through when I wasn't on my square, as a reminded to stay on it.

 

[VertigoKnight]

im reading those comments.

how common is it for a man to pay a womans rent and such?
it sounds like men are doing this and the chick doesnt even seem to like them?

nearly 1m subs and I never heard of her

You would be sickened to know how many men offer to pay a chick's rent, or phone bills, no questions asked and these women don't even like them like that.

Some guy offered to pay my friend's rent, she asked him why? He said he wanted to treat her. She told him erm you're just a friendly acquaintance to me we don't need to be doing all that. I can pay my own rent, thanks.

He was insistent and she told him it was making her uncomfortable and curved him.

It was a breh as well, my friend is a dancer and this guy got it twisted that she was for sale.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Damn Breh you really running through these Asians.

Breh took the crown from @Tommy Knocks

 

[VertigoKnight]

Breh took the crown from @Tommy Knocks

@Tommy Knocks is the OG.

But we both definitely cracked the code on these Asian women.

 

[Astroslik]

Yeah it is...

But the overall vibe changes naturally when you "outside" and people sense it

Expound

 

[Astroslik]

I never really noticed before, but there are a lot of lawyers on these apps.

Run far away

it depends what type of law they practice

It doesn’t matter - I’m a lawyer.