If it feels like he's compromising, that starts the mental calculus.
He's thinking, "I did X,Y,and Z for you. And I'm expecting A,B, and C from you. "
Dudes keep score, and expect females to hold up their end of the bargain.
Hoes don't do math that doesn't work for them.
She's not only expecting him to come out - but to take charge of whatever bs she wants to go to. Even if she isn't expecting that intellectually/consciously - that's what she's going to respond to.
The ultimate problem, sounds like they have a quasi 50/50. Not a leader/follower, captain/first mate, boss/capo type situation.
And that goes back to whether he was giving her guidance and direction (and expecting her to follow) from the very beginning of the relationship.
Moreover, it don't sound like she's worried about him stepping out and meeting someone better. Cause if she did, she'd self moderate/self-censor.
I'm betting, she feels free to do and say whatever. That's fine when your lifestyles match up, not when it doesn't.
I used to be ol boy, that's why I'm all up in this.
I thought the solution was to find a homebody type female - turns out, homebody is only at home, cause she ain't got no one to do anything with......
Then after the show, she wanted to go out, against my wishes, she paid for drinks fine. Then she had on heels and was tired of walking, so uber home -(She paid $28) Ikea the next day, uber back because she bought a lot of furniture -$35 Uber then I bought lunch and dinner because she had no groceries- Uber Eats -$48-In retrospect I should've cooked but damn. Was thinking of buying a car, they just put a damn bike rack around the corner from my crib and it was already hard to find parking and there's a school across the street.
. These chicks are funny. Aw and I’m sure she must have ended up getting them from a sucka.
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