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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Lol you must got bread...
Once in a while sure, but if thats the standard, then that's a different kind of math..
I'm not even gonna get started on ubereats lol...
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I actually don't have bread, we limited going out to two weekends out the month and the other 2 we'll be inside but damn even those few weekends kill me and yea she doesn't cook as often as she used to, and from work and her commute she be wanting to wear heels and dance and drink etc. Compared to when I was single and on hinge, I would take girls to happy hour or Mexican spot/ethnic spot with cheap drinks smash and keep it pushing idk. And she makes a lot of money and was complaining she was still broke, I'm like you have no money management
but to her point, we both paying our credit card bill off and she has a lot of student laons.
And its about to be xmas and valentines soon afterDating in big cities is expensive af man, If it were up to me I would chill all weekend but girls want to dress up etc. My girl and I went out, she bought tickets to Alvin Ailey, and I bought dinner and drinks, not even at a 5-star joint -$160. I brought 4 nips too to pregame, and a joint (estimate ($30) bought her a Alvin Ailey souvenir cup that broke while walking because I was holding too much stuff ($25)Then after the show, she wanted to go out, against my wishes, she paid for drinks fine. Then she had on heels and was tired of walking, so uber home -(She paid $28) Ikea the next day, uber back because she bought a lot of furniture -$35 Uber then I bought lunch and dinner because she had no groceries- Uber Eats -$48-In retrospect I should've cooked but damn. Was thinking of buying a car, they just put a damn bike rack around the corner from my crib and it was already hard to find parking and there's a school across the street.
nikkas be sitting in a car literally driving off a bridge i swearI actually don't have bread, we limited going out to two weekends out the month and the other 2 we'll be inside but damn even those few weekends kill me and yea she doesn't cook as often as she used to, and from work and her commute she be wanting to wear heels and dance and drink etc. Compared to when I was single and on hinge, I would take girls to happy hour or Mexican spot/ethnic spot with cheap drinks smash and keep it pushing idk. And she makes a lot of money and was complaining she was still broke, I'm like you have no money management
Why you do this?I actually don't have bread, we limited going out to two weekends out the month and the other 2 we'll be inside but damn even those few weekends kill me and yea she doesn't cook as often as she used to, and from work and her commute she be wanting to wear heels and dance and drink etc. Compared to when I was single and on hinge, I would take girls to happy hour or Mexican spot/ethnic spot with cheap drinks smash and keep it pushing idk. And she makes a lot of money and was complaining she was still broke, I'm like you have no money management
I actually don't have bread, we limited going out to two weekends out the month and the other 2 we'll be inside but damn even those few weekends kill me and yea she doesn't cook as often as she used to, and from work and her commute she be wanting to wear heels and dance and drink etc. Compared to when I was single and on hinge, I would take girls to happy hour or Mexican spot/ethnic spot with cheap drinks smash and keep it pushing idk. And she makes a lot of money and was complaining she was still broke, I'm like you have no money management
You have a problem on your hands sir....
As someone who played ATM, you gonna have to put a stop to this immediately..
Because it's gonna get SUBTLY worse and you won't notice it until you look at your bank account and ask where did my money go...
The past is the past, so you gotta live with what you allowed..
But yeah, you gonna have to curb this asap
How you start is how you finish. Getting with joints during the holiday season will do this.
& where is her money going? Lol
Her money is going to herself..
She sees his money as a supplement to her lifestyle..
So he gonna spend the bread he spending, plus get taxed for xmas/new years/and valentines day...and if her birthday is around these times, add that 2..
It's something subtle, but those extra days getting tacked on can easily run him an extra 2 or 300 MINIMUM for that day..
He needs to exit now. Aint no fixing someone that simply is who she is
Dating in big cities is expensive af man, If it were up to me I would chill all weekend but girls want to dress up etc. My girl and I went out, she bought tickets to Alvin Ailey, and I bought dinner and drinks, not even at a 5-star joint -$160. I brought 4 nips too to pregame, and a joint (estimate ($30) bought her a Alvin Ailey souvenir cup that broke while walking because I was holding too much stuff ($25)
If y’all really don’t wanna go out, why don’t y’all just tell them that?
Work for what? You mean making a new profile?
If you mean for chicks looking you up, can’t you just give them a google number?
And how often you gotta change sims when you get mint mobile or prepaid?
I literally want just about to say some shyt like this as I read your post.
How you get em is how you keep em.
He don't want to replace her with a chick that's more with his sedentary lifestyle. Cause he can always tell her he doesn't want to go - that doesn't change her nature (especially if she's cute). Before he knows it, she's always going out and he's at home. And that's a recipe for disaster.
He's stuck with these "lesser of two evil" type choices. Either go out with his broad/spend money doing so, or wait for her to leave with someone that does like to go out.
Asking for him to change is not a realistic option.
I feel you on that, but brehs need to have a compromise or something with they girl if they really don’t wanna go out like that.
Idk I just like to be straight up or find a way to have them do something for me if I feel it’s too much to do something I really don’t wanna do.