Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

hobbies are great (comics)

its when you forget about em in pursuit of vagina is the problem

i more so meant hobbies that get you out the house (i.e. if you like comics then go to meetups and conventions).

Ultimately taking things you like and finding related activities that involves other humans. Even if you aren't a social butterfly just being in proximity of humans with a similar interest keeps you from going crazy (and indirectly puts you in from of women who may share the same interest).

 

[Brandsdale]

i more so meant hobbies that get you out the house (i.e. if you like comics then go to meetups and conventions).

Ultimately taking things you like and finding related activities that involves other humans. Even if you aren't a social butterfly just being in proximity of humans with a similar interest keeps you from going crazy (and indirectly puts you in from of women who may share the same interest).

actually thats the reason i mentioned comics, but theres much more hobbies that can get you out the house as well.

its not about the act of reading but the community of people you get to meet and events that you can attend. I think hobbies are part of how people make meaningful connections and effectively make friends as you get older.

Outside of finding women, I think a lot of us men lose sight of how to make genuine friends.

 

[Ahadi]

“Let’s talk on here for a bit”

 

[Digital Omen]

A lot of “getting to know, who can care the least” games

This shyt has made me super petty. I've reached the point of not caring at all

She takes 3 days to text back? I read, delete her number and KIM. Don't care.
She leaves me on read? Don't care. Delete her number and KIM
She gives me ass on the first night out? Thanks, don't care.
She disses me on the first night out? Don't care.

That's where I'm at.

She's a dime, we had a great convo, we been vibing and flirting, etc it's all lining up right?
Then of course the games start, the "I'm busier than a Fortune 500 CEO, I just don't have 10 seconds to reply to your text so I'ma reply days later"
Before getting heated or simp out or double texting
I calm down and double down on the pettiness
I simply remind myself that I'm number 10 in her rotation and number 1 on her pay no mind list, then it's easy to not care

On this one I'm with the camel: "don't let me do it to you cuz I overdo it"

 

[Apollo Creed]

actually thats the reason i mentioned comics, but theres much more hobbies that can get you out the house as well.

its not about the act of reading but the community of people you get to meet and events that you can attend. I think hobbies are part of how people make meaningful connections and effectively make friends as you get older.

Outside of finding women, I think a lot of us men lose sight of how to make genuine friends.

For men friends come from the journey of life, and unfortunately alot of men dont live life.

 

[Apollo Creed]

This shyt has made me super petty. I've reached the point of not caring at all

She takes 3 days to text back? I read, delete her number and KIM. Don't care.
She leaves me on read? Don't care. Delete her number and KIM
She gives me ass on the first night out? Thanks, don't care.
She disses me on the first night out? Don't care.

That's where I'm at.

She's a dime, we had a great convo, we been vibing and flirting, etc it's all lining up right?
Then of course the games start, the "I'm busier than a Fortune 500 CEO, I just don't have 10 seconds to reply to your text so I'ma reply days later"
Before getting heated or simp out or double texting
I calm down and double down on the pettiness
I simply remind myself that I'm number 10 in her rotation and number 1 on her pay no mind list, then it's easy to not care

On this one I'm with the camel: "don't let me do it to you cuz I overdo it"

Always match energy. If they go dead then just cut em off. If you see the live of the avg woman they are on their phone 80% of the day, unless they work at the amazon factory or some shyt lmfao

 

[Digital Omen]

Always match energy. If they go dead then just cut em off. If you see the live of the avg woman they are on their phone 80% of the day, unless they work at the amazon factory or some shyt lmfao

Yeah I saw this quote somewhere and I live by it
"If she doesn't call/text back don't worry, women only have their phone in their hand 99.9% of the time"

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

lmfaoooo
did you at least block her everywhere?

brehs need to get on their restraining order game

Yup. But kept getting contacted from different accounts. Different numbers.

 

[Brandsdale]

“Let’s talk on here for a bit”

**unmatches**

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yup. But kept getting contacted from different accounts. Different numbers.

yeah thats where you get the law involved. Murder Suicides aint the business and often times we think "women aint capable" of doing monstrous acts.

 

[jay83]

Met a woman she was a solid 9. 26, in shape, nice smile nice body. All over me. 25 min in she says “ nikka please”. I said “don’t refer to me as that. Just call me by my name” in a light hearted playful way.

She was like “ you don’t say the n word? Why?” I said “to be honest I think it’s a trashy thing to say as a black person to each other.” She replied “but we flipped it”. I was like “ nah, I don’t think so”. I think she got turned off by the trashy reference.

That woman’s energy changed and 15 min later we both left. She gave me a hug and took off in her car. When she first greeted me she hugged and kissed me on the cheek. Think I may have fumbled a solid 9 over the n word. Lol

 

[Ahadi]

Met a woman she was a solid 9. 26, in shape, nice smile nice body. All over me. 25 min in she says “ nikka please”. I said “don’t refer to me as that. Just call me by my name” in a light hearted playful way.

She was like “ you don’t say the n word? Why?” I said “to be honest I think it’s a trashy thing to say as a black person to each other.” She replied “but we flipped it”. I was like “ nah, I don’t think so”. I think she got turned off by the trashy reference.

That woman’s energy changed and 15 min later we both left. She gave me a hug and took off in her car. When she first greeted me she hugged and kissed me on the cheek. Think I may have fumbled a solid 9 over the n word. Lol

No you did not. You won.

You kept your frame and your standards. Don’t lose yourself over p*ssy.

There’s a badder version & badder women everywhere. That’s one of many.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Met a woman she was a solid 9. 26, in shape, nice smile nice body. All over me. 25 min in she says “ nikka please”. I said “don’t refer to me as that. Just call me by my name” in a light hearted playful way.

She was like “ you don’t say the n word? Why?” I said “to be honest I think it’s a trashy thing to say as a black person to each other.” She replied “but we flipped it”. I was like “ nah, I don’t think so”. I think she got turned off by the trashy reference.

That woman’s energy changed and 15 min later we both left. She gave me a hug and took off in her car. When she first greeted me she hugged and kissed me on the cheek. Think I may have fumbled a solid 9 over the n word. Lol

Look at this shyt lmfao

You beinf a man and standing on your square = you fumbling.

No you got a bum bytch out the paint man. Stop glorfying these hoes

 

[DaRealness]

Met a woman she was a solid 9. 26, in shape, nice smile nice body. All over me. 25 min in she says “ nikka please”. I said “don’t refer to me as that. Just call me by my name” in a light hearted playful way.

She was like “ you don’t say the n word? Why?” I said “to be honest I think it’s a trashy thing to say as a black person to each other.” She replied “but we flipped it”. I was like “ nah, I don’t think so”. I think she got turned off by the trashy reference.

That woman’s energy changed and 15 min later we both left. She gave me a hug and took off in her car. When she first greeted me she hugged and kissed me on the cheek. Think I may have fumbled a solid 9 over the n word. Lol

Once upon a time I would have thought the same way because dudes always clown other men for having principles over p*ssy. As you get older you start to care less about that shyt. If you don't stand on your square with women the first time around all that does is give them a small opening to try you on other shyt later down the line which WILL happen.

 

[jay83]

Once upon a time I would have thought the same way because dudes always clown other men for having principles over p*ssy. As you get older you start to care less about that shyt. You don't stand on your square with women the first time around all that does is give them a small opening to try you on other shyt later down the line which WILL happen.

Yeah. Even though she’s my type and had everything I liked physically I definitely couldn’t stand for that. Some dudes like women that curse and drop n bombs but it’s just a turn off for me. It’s crazy because everything else was cool. But if she gets that worked up over that then she’s def not worth it.