I'm spending too much money on dates, help brehs. Few women offer to pay something, some will sit back & I end up paying everything.
this is why if you do a date you either
1. we going for tea
2.we finna sit our asses at this free ass park and talk
3.I`m going to do something I already planned on doing, if you want to come cool.
If a woman turns down anything you present that is a blessing from God to move on lol
You gotta understand women will never suggest anything, if you do not initiate yall will be texting for ever and in the same instance because you suggested to do something they will assume you gonna pay. this how how dumb the concept of dating is. there is a minority who will offer to pay which is cool but then those often times tend to end up leaning to being masculine.
I'm of the thought that if you are gonna date, go after women who show you a large amount of positive energy and vibes that way you paying for shyt doesn't feel like a chore. Lotta dudes are chasing women and trying to prove themselves (hence the damn i fumbled the ball mindset).
In reality we all human and grown, a woman knows if she wants to fukk you, the dates is just so she doesn't feel like a hoe (if yall met while on vacation she would smash on a ONS and not feel bad because she is never gonna see you again more than likely).