Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ohene

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Usually if it:

- Decreases drastically
- Becomes a chore
- or you can’t bring that wild side out of her

it’s time to let her go

An alternative option is you can try to spark it.
i hear you fam but i dont know....my last 3 girlfriends have always been down to fukk when i initiate but they just have issues initiating sex.
a lot of the time it comes down to fear of rejection, you know how childish these girls are

you reject them once (even if it isnt sexually) and they just shut down.

example: my girl once laid her head on my shoulder, and pulled up my sleeve before doing so. i asked her why she pulled up my sleeve out of genuine confusion/curiosity, and apparently it was because she had make up on. i come to find out 3 months later she perceived that as rejection.

its something as small as that that can lead some girls to think you are standoffish and fear that youll reject them. i dont know man...women are irrational idiots
 

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worst part is that for men, a woman doesnt have to do much to initiate. shyt, her just grabbing/feeling my dikk could do the trick
for a lot of women though, you have to warm them up mentally, physically, emotionally and with foreplay. its a chore

there is honestly no wonder why so many men cheat, and just resort to porn.
 

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The modern woman in a nutshell

April
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August
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All those dudes were/are bodies to her…

She frontin for the gram…

We kno deep down she hurt. Alphonso better not take her back when she eventually tries to come back:camby:
 

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hearing a woman over talk & exposure herself is the funniest shyt on Earth lmaooooo

especially when she catches that she’s already said too much.. got me looking at across the table like
back 2 back like the Bulls

The greatest tool a man has is literally shutting the fukk up. Have you a few pre-approved prompts like:

“Wow, that’s crazy”
“I feel you on (repeat what she said)”

“Definitely/Exactly”
 

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Got a ting whose feeling me and I'm feeling her. Been to dinner, had coffee date and saw Wakanda Forever together. For the fourth date, what would you brehs (and brehettes) recommend? Co-worker told me something active like bowling or mini golf.
 

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:mjlol: Yep. What she really means is she has a main she fukking and the other guys are just for entertainment. I always assume they got a guy they currently fukking/dealing with. Especially if she attractive.

That’s why I spend as little as possible, until she shows a high level of investment.

I can usually tell because the box during the first few times is immensely wet, then in future sessions, it either doesn’t get as wet, or less rounds. Which tells me there’s someone else.
 

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That’s why I spend as little as possible, until she shows a high level of investment.

I can usually tell because the box during the first few times is immensely wet, then in future sessions, it either doesn’t get as wet, or less rounds. Which tells me there’s someone else.
Facts. Also why if a girl cancels a first meetup/date with me it’s a red flag that someone else has her attention. I know some brehs give the benefit of the doubt though and that’s cool too. But for me any time I’ve been cancelled on on a first meetup or date it never panned out in the long run with her.

Just had a girl I met irl cancel on me last Wednesday, we were supposed to get together that Thursday. Guess what. She never rescheduled and I haven’t heard from her since then :yeshrug:

I refuse to reach out and chase especially since SHE is the one who canceled. Women love being in the moment and end up agreeing with some shyt they know they’re not serious about. They enjoy that thrill of a dude asking them out even though they know they’re dealing with someone already.
 

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Got a ting whose feeling me and I'm feeling her. Been to dinner, had coffee date and saw Wakanda Forever together. For the fourth date, what would you brehs (and brehettes) recommend? Co-worker told me something active like bowling or mini golf.
get vibey at your spot. small bite to eat, wine, candles, music.

time to close the deal
 
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