Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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My ex-wife, who I hadn't spoken to since our divorce in 2019, is now hitting me up on some "my nephew would like some advice about the military blah blah blah"

At first I thought there was no harm in giving the young buck some advice, won't cost me anything and it's not like I'ma go over and kick it with her
Then I thought wait, this broad didn't even cooperate or sign our divorce papers (she was on some evangelical christian shyt about divorce is ungodly and she didn't want that "curse" in her life) so what should have been a simple uncontested divorce turned into a year and a half ordeal where I had to come out of pocket for a lawyer and the judge in the end signed the divorce decree for her.

I forgive but I don't forget. Her nephew is innocent and all but I want nothing to do with her. Her pettiness did it to herself. I told my sister about it and she said she wants that old thing back now that she's alone out in these streets and she's using her nephew as a hook to reel me back in. I'm good.
 

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My ex-wife, who I hadn't spoken to since our divorce in 2019, is now hitting me up on some "my nephew would like some advice about the military blah blah blah"

At first I thought there was no harm in giving the young buck some advice, won't cost me anything and it's not like I'ma go over and kick it with her
Then I thought wait, this broad didn't even cooperate or sign our divorce papers (she was on some evangelical christian shyt about divorce is ungodly and she didn't want that "curse" in her life) so what should have been a simple uncontested divorce turned into a year and a half ordeal where I had to come out of pocket for a lawyer and the judge in the end signed the divorce decree for her.

I forgive but I don't forget. Her nephew is innocent and all but I want nothing to do with her. Her pettiness did it to herself. I told my sister about it and she said she wants that old thing back now that she's alone out in these streets and she's using her nephew as a hook to reel me back in. I'm good.

Yup your sister is right these are called "ins" people who don't talk to you for awhile but use a in like a merry Christmas, happy birthday, oh my nephew, niece, just saw something that reminded me of you etc.
 

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Damn I gotta find my lane again brehs

I'm handsome to the weed lip, "Love and Hip hop" ratchet types but I'm too ugly gang for the black Zazie Beetz type who goes for Brad and Chad 👨

I might sound like a c00n but i will never find a chick who smokes massive amounts if weed or raps any of those recent ratchet girl lyrics attractive

Dating sucks or am I getting :flabbynsick:?
:mjcry:
-grow your hair out
-work out
-exfoliate
-listen to a Mac Demarco song
-start bullshytting to women about how you like Flight of the Concords

for them typa bytches, you'll be good :manny:
 

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Yeah, I didn't know folks knew me outside of my usual circles.

But the game on this thread is pretty solid - folks coming at stuff from all different angles.

Got me taking notes, cause folks have seen things I haven't seen.
That's what's up. Eagerly waiting for that book to come out. :salute:

@Pdiddy step aside, the pros are here:lolbron:
 

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Joints get triggered when you put that do not disturb on.

:lolbron:

Was with this bad Violet Myers joint last night. Just put her in an uber home. This joint had 193 likes on hinge

:skip:

“I only had it for 2 days”

In my mind I’m like.. lol I only got 50 and it’s been 2-3 weeks. Just started gettin roses.
 

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ngl the hot girls/IG hoes becoming gamers kinda ruined online gaming for me a bit

Lot of these hoes on Twitch are trash and all they play is Fortnite or Animal Crossing :beli:
That's just the relatively new hustle.

Ever since the late'00s/early '10s, the advent of social media started turning the internet from a male dominated space to a woman dominated one. Women stand to benefit more from social media than men, since they can get their fix of attention from simps or the pick of the litter of pimps to smash. Monetization started to make things evolve to the next level, where a cat who doesn't want to touch grass would rather pay some cash to have a celebrity girl acknowledge him.

Nowadays, it's not enough to jack off to your favorite pornstar, now you gotta be part of the following where she gives the remote girlfriend experience. Gen Z's lower social skills outside of a discord chat and two years of isolation further exasperated this issue.

If you're some nerdy 18 year old kid with no game/mouthpiece, watching Violet Myers play Warzone in a Sailor Moon cosplay seems like a good way to fulfill your sexual and social needs. These girls nowadays probably like the anime and gaming shyt, but they figure it's a good idea to cash in on parasocial relationships.
 
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That's just the relatively new hustle.

Ever since the late'00s/early '10s, the advent of social media started turning the internet from a male dominated space to a woman dominated one. Women stand to benefit more from social media than men, since they can get their fix of attention from simps or the pick of the litter of pimps to smash. Monetization started to make things evolve to the next level, where a cat who doesn't want to touch grass would rather pay some cash to have a celebrity girl acknowledge him.

Nowadays, it's not enough to jack off to your favorite pornstar, now you gotta be part of the following where she gives the remote girlfriend experience. Gen Z's lower social skills outside of a discord chat and two years of isolation further exasperated this issue.

If you're some nerdy 18 year old kid with no game/mouthpiece, watching Violet Myers play Warzone in a Sailor Moon seems like a good way to fulfill the your sexual and social needs. These girls nowadays probably like the anime and gaming shyt, but they figure it's a good idea to cash in on parasocial relationships.
Think thats also part of a larger problem socially tho. Staying in complete isolation and following a lot of these pornstars or social media chics i feel like can cause men to have a false sense courtship or dating and expecting to do less socially in order to have sex. Especially when you can tip girls in chats, send wire or etransfers, DM them on their socials etc. Also does spending THAT much time indoors and online also allow someone to have ample social skills outside?

Its also a bit of sensory overload. You dont NEED to sexualize every platform, certain things have a specified intention. Lotta people come on twitch to genuenily play games with folks, share tips, compete etc. You aint gotta play warzone with ya dikk hard dawg.
 

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How is hinge in y’all areas?

I’m in the dmv and man this shyt is too much.
I highly advise folk to pay for unlimited likes :blessed:More than worth it.

This shyt addictive tho. To the point if you are trying to settle down it takes a LOT of discipline. Got me like a legit addict, fully engaged with a solid chick who checks all the boxes but ahh ahh what’s this new match got a phat ass :noah:
 

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Joints get triggered when you put that do not disturb on.

:lolbron:

Was with this bad Violet Myers joint last night. Just put her in an uber home. This joint had 193 likes on hinge

:skip:

“I only had it for 2 days”

In my mind I’m like.. lol I only got 50 and it’s been 2-3 weeks. Just started gettin roses.
50 for a man is worth a lot more than 193 for a woman :salute:A lot less shyt we gotta worry about and from what I’ve been told they deal with a crazy amount of weirdos, creeps, dikk pic senders:dame:, etc
 

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How is hinge in y’all areas?

I’m in the dmv and man this shyt is too much.
I highly advise folk to pay for unlimited likes :blessed:More than worth it.

This shyt addictive tho. To the point if you are trying to settle down it takes a LOT of discipline. Got me like a legit addict, fully engaged with a solid chick who checks all the boxes but ahh ahh what’s this new match got a phat ass :noah:
Pretty much the only option in LA in terms of OLD. I've been using it as a backup for IRL, since there's a boatload to do around the city, but it's good. Tinder's heyday is far behind it, and bumble is a graveyard.
 

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How is hinge in y’all areas?

I’m in the dmv and man this shyt is too much.
I highly advise folk to pay for unlimited likes :blessed:More than worth it.

This shyt addictive tho. To the point if you are trying to settle down it takes a LOT of discipline. Got me like a legit addict, fully engaged with a solid chick who checks all the boxes but ahh ahh what’s this new match got a phat ass :noah:

Yeah I used it a lot when traveling. When I was in the DMV ton of East African joints

:whew:

I’m on the free version, but paying for it is worth it. They used to give out trials / free memberships, idk what happened.
 
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