I don’t even know what prime is suppose to be anymore breh and I’m 21..
the ceiling out here is 96-98 MJ … NO JUMP FROM THE FREETHROW MJ
At 21 Im going to tell you as clear as possible and hopefully it gives you clarity like I tried to do with my young bulls I try to put on right path.. I dont know your situation (unless you want to share) I have no choice but to generalize. You are basically starting at bottom on totem pole. You left high school which was a silo'd environment (most girls are available to you and your peers only and not available to general market because of proximity and age, older guys cant use their advantages like money, logistics/cars/home, experience because thats a no go so for you and your boys yall get that advantage) after high school graduation Girls are going to college and they are obviously based on looks they can climb up heirarchy very fast,since women look to date up they can date guys a lil older while gaining access to things and status, for just a young regular dude you starting at bottom.
You have to look at your paths to victory so to say, your pool gets limited in general because you cant date soo much younger and the immediately older women will not be checking for the younger guys in large numbers (a 24/25+ YO women wont date a 21 YO guy in normal circumstances) Now you have to climb up and better yourself while also figuring way to hack the system up, everything is gonna be based on what value u bring, like an earlier post said are you photographer, access to parties, DJ, play on football team, part of a frat, Promoter, do you know anyone in a 6 degrees kind of way who can get you plugged in? If not what about your fundamentals? Do you have car/own place, how is your wardrobe, what are we doing to upgrade our life overall, going to school, what is main focus to bring in money, what is job status? Are you working out right now? Break these things down like a video game and you can really see where you are lacking quickly..
You need those fundamentals in place FOR YOU. You need money FOR YOU, never lead with your wallet but money will allow you to invest in yourself first and foremost, if you are doing that people will see and take notice. Will allow you to pay for gym, eat better food, dress better, have hobbies and try new things, enter new social groups and take care of yourself overall.. After that you can look at how you moving socially, what do you do for fun, having active social life will allow you to have multiple social circles with people doing things you enjoy, they will see you in positive light and should help you meet new people, expand your circle and possibly open to opportunities..
Your age you should be in basically a couple years in some type of apprentice stage of developing your money making skills, if not get on that first, second and third! Nothing will affect your confidence at a young age then to just be listless and watch time pass you by. Post getting kinda long but that should just be the fundamentals to put you on track to have the world as your oyster, it might not see like it at your age now but if you put these things in affect at a young age, things turn around fast and open up for you quickly. Every year you get older your pool will get wider and having accomplished more you will have confidence in your self and it should show. If you want me to continue as I might just be rambling without actually knowing your situation just let me know and I can touch on in more directly, good luck.
