Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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did u read my original post? see, the way it works is this, u approach a chick, and based on the hints u get from her, u decide whether or not to proceed further with ur "macking". maybe its cool for u to talk to a chick and have her not even ask u questions about u. thats fine. but i take that as a disrespect. so i keep it moving. the more u talk to a chick that's one-wording u, the more your value decreases. keep in mind, this is the library/computer lab of a college. so yes, chances are pretty good u will see some of the same girls in the lab again.

some girls give one word answers for different reasons. in the case of this girl, her hints and clues indicated she wasn't deeply feeling me. it was after i got up to leave without saying anything to her that i saw, maybe she just wanted to be chased harder. but chased harder for what? for that ego boost? or cause she wants some d1ck? either way its whatever. if i see her again, i'll talk to her again. and if she acts stupid again like she did the last time, she'll get the same treatment.

and by the way, u can chat up a chick "mack it to her" get her number, and even talk to her fordays....and still not fucck. so again, when ur "macking", u need to be able to assess the type of girl ur dealing with. if ur talking to the girl because u wanna be "friends" then yeah "mack" all you want despite whatever negative signals she emits. if ur seasoned in ur game, u'll be able to spot the type of chicks that are time wasters, learn to stop wasting efforts on them...and spend ur time on the chicks who give off the proper acceptable hints.

I wasn't talking about your original post. You were talking about being in a public place and getting shut down in front of other females and looking bad in front of them. I'm saying that's not a legit reason to not pursue someone as the chance of those circumstances happening is pretty low. I do agree that if you're not feeling a connection then there's no reason to pursue further. If a female is interested at that time she will make herself available.

I did read your OG post though and all I'm wondering is why you were so bothered by this chick. It was just a single conversation in a library that went nowhere. Honestly its not worth thinking about.
 

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Another thing to remember guys. The whole "opposites attract" thing is nonsense and you should not abide by it too much. If you are a man who is hardworking, reliable, and loyal to people you are close to and you carry yourselves well, then it would only make sense to do the same for a female.

Some dudes out there when they finally achieve success after years and years of difficulties through high school and college, as soon as they make it big they DOWNGRADE big time. Dudes out there go as far as wifing up hoodrat strippers who have no realistic ambitions in their life besides tricking on Backpage looking for guys to simp them.

This is exactly what Kev is talking about. You have to carry yourselves as the prize and I would even say to look at a potential companion as a "protege" who is in your "office" to be interviewed and is able to show they have the same qualities that the Business(You are the business) is looking for

. You are the teacher/sensei/prize(whatever you want to call it) and they are the person going to you to learn from you how to improve their qualities even more
 

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painful to read that sh1t. as hard as it is to accept, in such situations, if u love ur wife and dont wanna divorce her, just cheat. may not make sense to yall right now. u aint goto physically cheat with other women but get the attention u want from them. that'll help keep u emotionally distant enough for ur wife to begin to wonder why isn't he bothering me for sex anymore.
 

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I know some of y'all don't like V-day but...Happy Valentines Day. E-Christian hugs and Kisses for everyone #nohoeshyt
 
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