no offense but you sound insecure, you seem too worried about what the people around you think when you should just focus on YOU and the GIRL you are talking to. there is no such thing as a perfect situation, a guy with game knows how to work with the cards he is dealt and makes the best of the situation he is in... the way you think about other girls watching you put in work i assume you dont get at the girl you like in a club/bar/lounge because too many other women are watching you huh?stop thinking so much
The girl i'm dating now was due to me taking a huge chance.
Was at a club for an acquaintances b-day back in December. Didn't really know many of the people in the party group so i told myself, "Fukk it, i'ma make some new friends!"
Felt a little bold so I literally invaded a group of 3 beautiful women who were already having their own little conversation - basically just head-budden into their dynamic and the rest was history (i.e. initiated contact, broke them down and eventually one left, 2 remaining and one of them kept hyping up her single homegirl - that was my cue to engage and voila).
The point is; as a man, you have to take chances. WHen it comes to the opposite sex, any opportunity is a great opportunity.
Carpet diem - seize the moment breigh.
If you're too busy thinking of what others perceive you as, you're Truestly limited your odds at not just amping your experience points, but, in the greatest case scenario - finding the love of your life (i know how ironic that seems because the general societal consensus is that you don't fall in the love in the club, but normal people need a destressor as well and go out once in a blue moon. We're social creatures and just because she's in a pretentious environment doesn't necessarily equate to her being a ratchet human being).
But i'm not going to scrutinize the next man as every guys method is unique to their abilities; I just live by the adage...
"Close moufs don't get fedded."
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