Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[winb83]

man u aint goto tell me all that. i know. and i'm sure u too would do the same in the same position. yes, u too. glad i got away from that without catching anything. but the discipline is in being able to end that sh1t...which i did. last time she hit me up on some lets hang out tip i ignored her.

and oh by the way, fyi, the pullout does work. will i advise a teenager with no experience with women to do it? no. but i fuccked my ex for years using the pullout, and she wasn't on birth control. and she never got pregnant. the pullout will work for u if u are dead serious about not getting the girl ur fuccking pregnant. dead serious means being alert enough to pull out at the first sign u bout to bust. your not honestly gonna argue the pull out method with me are u?

the pullout is not a reliable form of birth control. you got lucky i know because i got lucky. was in a 4 year relationship and a 2 year one and pretty much never used condoms throughout and got lucky. at this point i know i was lucky and i'd never do that again. i'm not gonna risk 18 years of child support for some raw p*ssy just cause it feels better. that's the ultimate form of short term thinking.

 

[Two Stacks]

If you can remember back to 2010 when NBA player Lorenzen Wright was killed by a gunshot to the head, you will remember how tragic the entire story was for this young athlete and his family.

Wright earned over $55 million during his career and was divorced only a couple of months before his death from Sherra Robinson-Wright. After Robinson-Wright was cleared of being a suspect in the shooting, she received a check for $1 million dollars. After only 10 months that million is almost gone.

Here’s what she spent it on…

• $32,000 for a Cadillac Escalade
• $26,000 for a Lexus
• $69,000 on furniture
• $11,750 for a New York trip
• $339,000 for purchase and improvement to a new home
• $7,100 for a pool deposit
• $5,000 for lawn equipment
• $34,000 on legal fees
The money was left and supposed to go towards taking care of Wright’s six children. The mismanagement of money was brought to the attention of the Memphis courts and after an investigation a judge took the remaining money away from Robinson-Wright and gave the remainder for Lorenzen Wright’s father. The other money that the family received as death benefits from the NBA was also frozen.

When Wright died, he was paying $16,650 per month in child another $10,000 in alimony, giving his ex-wife a total of $319,000 per year.

This story is so sad for the children. Not only do they not have a father anymore, their mother is throwing away what money they do have to keep up with the Jones’.

Your Jersey Girlfriend,

Marcelle English

it never ceases to amaze me how these hoes really have no love for their kids.

 

[karim]

she was cheating with you and let you hit it raw, which means she was irresponsible. in addition, she had a husband who was sleeping around, which means he was irresponsible too. and then there was you, a guy who had unprotected sex with an irresponsible woman he knew was sleeping with at least one other man, who you knew had multiple affairs, which means

have you taken an std test recently?

 

[CASHAPP]

My dude said "The pullout method does work"

Looks like another Black Man lost

Grown ass man, thinking the pullout method actually does work........ in the year 2013........not 1320...........the year 2013

is all that can be said any further folks

 

[FastEddie215]

If you manage to see her again, that coulda been a proper move because if she was a fine woman, a lot of dudes would have sat right there posted up on her basically making her wish he would leave. One thing that really intrigues fine women is the ability of a man to leave abruptly... she's probably sitting there wondering, why didn't he say bye? What's up with that guy? Next time you see her, she might be more receptive to taking to you.

A lot of times women don't really open up to you until they start knowing you more and getting comfortable with them. What you did with your move of up and leaving is give her the impression that you aren't a bugaboo who will keep trying to force a conversation. Next time you come around, she should be more comfortable talking to you.
You did the right thing. NEVER sit around forcing conversation... also, leaving abruptly gives her the impression you are unpredictable, and plants in her mind that if she wants to keep you around, she better be on ball-- that is if she is digging you. You did the right thing, especially with not asking for the number when the conversation ended on a cold note. The best time to get a number is when the conversation is warm and both ya'll are vibing.

i disagree with that. if your game is tight you should be able to make her comfortable right then and there. Waiting until you see her next time is how you set yourself up for the L because from the time you left her there could have been a guy with tight game putting in that work, so next time she see you she def wont want you because someone already got her before you did

 

[TRUEST]

she was cheating with you and let you hit it raw, which means she was irresponsible. in addition, she had a husband who was sleeping around, which means he was irresponsible too. and then there was you, a guy who had unprotected sex with an irresponsible woman he knew was sleeping with at least one other man, who you knew had multiple affairs, which means

have you taken an std test recently?

yup and i'm clean. good job though

 

[Shameonyou]

demand a woman to say please and thank you...if they cant ask for favors with respect, kick the shyt out of her

 

[TRUEST]

i disagree with that. if your game is tight you should be able to make her comfortable right then and there. Waiting until you see her next time is how you set yourself up for the L because from the time you left her there could have been a guy with tight game putting in that work, so next time she see you she def wont want you because someone already got her before you did

i'm pretty sure she already got a long list of guys in her phone...guys who think they have "tight game" but are just coming off as trying too hard.

 

[FastEddie215]

i'm pretty sure she already got a long list of guys in her phone...guys who think they have "tight game" but are just coming off as trying too hard.

so gaming her and going for her number because the chance of seeing her again is very low is your definiton of trying too hard? if she is feeling your game, you have nothing to worry about. why wait and hope to see her again? it makes no sense unless you two are in the same circle of people.

 

[TRUEST]

so gaming her and going for her number because the chance of seeing her again is very low is your definiton of trying too hard? if she is feeling your game, you have nothing to worry about. why wait and hope to see her again? it makes no sense unless you two are in the same circle of people.

if u know anything about game u'll know when in a public area, u are not to advance in situations that seem iffy. if u neglect the rules of the game, and u get shut down in front of a sea of other girls, can u guess what happens? your value goes down significantly. the only way u can redeem urself after such a disaster is to make sure ur seen in that same area by the same people with a hotter girl.

i never said i was "hoping" to see her again. but if i did, the way the game was played that night, given the circumstances, has laid a foundation that can end up gloriously. and if it doesn't, oh well.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yes, I would have done that. She could have been busy and you caught her at a bad time. Not asking questions may be the type of female that wants you to take the lead. I don't know if you ever dated a Chinese/Korean chick. They want you to do it all breh. It may be one of the two. If she was not into you at least, she would have given a vague answer or not looking at you at all

 

[FastEddie215]

if u know anything about game u'll know when in a public area, u are not to advance in situations that seem iffy. if u neglect the rules of the game, and u get shut down in front of a sea of other girls, can u guess what happens? your value goes down significantly. the only way u can redeem urself after such a disaster is to make sure ur seen in that same area by the same people with a hotter girl.

i never said i was "hoping" to see her again. but if i did, the way the game was played that night, given the circumstances, has laid a foundation that can end up gloriously. and if it doesn't, oh well.

no offense but you sound insecure, you seem too worried about what the people around you think when you should just focus on YOU and the GIRL you are talking to. there is no such thing as a perfect situation, a guy with game knows how to work with the cards he is dealt and makes the best of the situation he is in... the way you think about other girls watching you put in work i assume you dont get at the girl you like in a club/bar/lounge because too many other women are watching you huh? stop thinking so much

 

[DaRealness]

That's the understanding I try to convey to these women. A lot of them have been brainwashed by neo-feminist trash and constantly get into power struggles with their men... and unknowingly, their subconsciously learned behavior contributes towards driving away the real ones or creating the type of man they detest. It's not offensive to treat your friends well, but why do so many women look at it as detestable to accord their man the proper respect?

If a woman gets into a power struggle with a real man, he'll send her on her way because he doesn't play that and he refuses to give up his authority as a man. On the other hand, if she deals with a man that isn't real, her power struggle will ultimately result in her creating a weak man that is submissive to her and allows himself to be disrespected by her. The end result is that she will look at her own creation with utter disgust and peel off to another man. So many of these women continually go through this cycle over and over and over, creating men they detest or driving away men that would be suitable for them in the long-term... and then they wonder they they are 30 year old, fairly affluent, pretty women who end up as cat ladies that can't hold onto a man.

Women in this day and age have to learn to move out of the way and let a man be a man. The Bible says for a woman to submit to her man. A lot of women find that offensive, but there's nothing offensive about it. The key is finding a man worthy of submitting to. Unfortunately, women have a lot of negative connotations with that word. They seem to think of it as being a sort of slave to a man who is their dictator... What submission really means is humbling yourself and trusting in the guidance and authority of another. When we go to work, we 'submit' to our bosses because we trust they know more than us and have the requisite knowledge to produce wealth, which in turn results in us getting paid. People who utilize the services of a fitness trainer submits to the superior knowledge and instruction of that fitness trainer, which in turn produces superior results for that person's body. Submission isn't looked upon as offensive in these instances, but in the course of a relationship, so many women look at it as offensive to submit to their man. That's because they chose the wrong man in the first place. They were too worried about what he was swinging from his hips than the quality of what was coming out of his lips. A woman needs to be concerned with a man's spirit (morals) and mentality (quality of his thinking) MORE than his 'swag' or the size of his johnson. That's the only way for a woman to find a man that's worthy of submitting to, which will guarantee mutual satisfaction over the long term.

I'll have to delve into this topic of leadership and submission soon.

Very powerful and interesting stuff in this video below. Listen from 1:35:05 onwards because Phil Valentine elaborates on the exact same thing you're saying.....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=dFtBaADI9zQ#t=5705s

 

[TRUEST]

no offense but you sound insecure, you seem too worried about what the people around you think when you should just focus on YOU and the GIRL you are talking to. there is no such thing as a perfect situation, a guy with game knows how to work with the cards he is dealt and makes the best of the situation he is in... the way you think about other girls watching you put in work i assume you dont get at the girl you like in a club/bar/lounge because too many other women are watching you huh? stop thinking so much

how old are you?

 

[FastEddie215]

how old are you?

25. speaking on getting at a girl in front of other girls, dont you agree that if the girl you are talking to gives you play and the other girls around you see it wont that make your value higher in their eyes? the answer is yes. you were thinking about the negative instead of the positive outcome.