Lack of foresight on my end. I liked spending time with her back when we first started hanging out almost a year ago, and I let the it ride out longer than it should have due to going into a dry spell before meeting her after moving to my current city. I've been moving towards seeking LTRs for a future wife after getting the player stage out of my system for the last two years, so I've been trying to get her do stuff with me to see if we vibe. Frankly, there's friction between our lifestyles that's stressing me, and it feels like I'm appeasing too much to her to not feel like an a$$hole.
I'm just gonna have to rip off the bandaid, cause this inaction is doing neither of us favors.