DaRealness
I think very deeply
Heads up for the fellas who need to hear this.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Heads up for the fellas who need to hear this.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
heads up? Shordi said nothing revolutionary
This generation acts like it invented fire
Dance_Like_A_Fiend
All Star
I just matched with this Filipina girl. I don't have tinder-passport, so how did I get someone from the Philippines? Fake/escort?
Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
Aye brehs I thought women like honesty?
And apparently I can’t be uglygang no more
And apparently I can’t be uglygang no more
The same women that lie from the time they open their eyes until the time they close them?
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Breh, sometimes reading your posts I cant shake the feeling you're slightly trolling or you’re very naive and young.
An annoying thing that happens on Tinder is people who live far away from you pop up in your swipe stack so people from the Philippines, or Thailand. I’ve recently seen a lot of women who live in Africa pop up on my one as well. A lot of the times it won’t say that they're nowhere near you until you match.
I think they do it so it looks like there are more women on the app in your area. But a lot of the times those profiles feel fake almost like AI bots.
Aye brehs I thought women like honesty?
And apparently I can’t be uglygang no more
All times I’ve been honest, it back fired.
They appreciate a “truth” that suits their narrative, story and their emotions.
Take your time, pastor
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Did some impromptu PAWGing last night with this red head chick, I mutually know whose been trying to hang with me for a while since she moved back from NY. But I’ve always had other things on. Promised her I’d definitely see her before end of summer.
It was her birthday weekend and she was having a small gathering at the park so invited me. I had time this weekend so I said I’d come through. She even invited this guy she matched with on Tinder the day before. He was cool, but him and her obviously didn't hit it off chemistry wise.
I’ve always felt a certain frisson between me and her, but I never acted on it as we shared a friend group and she was seeing someone previously.
When it got dark a few of us went back to her house share and hung in the garden, one by one everyone got tired and left, even her tinder date who saw he wasn’t going to advance and left, till it was just me and her. Decided to go for a walk at like 1 in the morning, found a late night bar for a drink then wandered the city.
Ended up on a dark astroturf football pitch laying on a blanket in the centre circle looking up at the stars, she pulled closer to me and one thing led to another and I ended up kissing and playing with her, gave her an orgasm then got home at like 5.00am
This chicks body means we’ll have to do a proper ting soon. We both know this is just some fun and nothing serious.
It was her birthday weekend and she was having a small gathering at the park so invited me. I had time this weekend so I said I’d come through. She even invited this guy she matched with on Tinder the day before. He was cool, but him and her obviously didn't hit it off chemistry wise.
I’ve always felt a certain frisson between me and her, but I never acted on it as we shared a friend group and she was seeing someone previously.
When it got dark a few of us went back to her house share and hung in the garden, one by one everyone got tired and left, even her tinder date who saw he wasn’t going to advance and left, till it was just me and her. Decided to go for a walk at like 1 in the morning, found a late night bar for a drink then wandered the city.
Ended up on a dark astroturf football pitch laying on a blanket in the centre circle looking up at the stars, she pulled closer to me and one thing led to another and I ended up kissing and playing with her, gave her an orgasm then got home at like 5.00am
This chicks body means we’ll have to do a proper ting soon. We both know this is just some fun and nothing serious.
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Wargames
One Of The Last Real Ones To Do It
So a little game for the thread.
Always push for women to make a decision on going out with you sooner than later. I found that unless I force a decision on meeting up with a woman, I will really learn nothing about her. Is she open-minded, a risk-taker, or closed off and conservative in a relationship? You can't learn that from idle chit-chat. I simply believe that in the chaos of dating, you’ll only get to see a woman’s true colors when she has to decide if she wants to meet up with you in person. The rest is platitudes, pleasantries, and small talk bullshyt designed to waste your time. No one ever reveals themselves by being polite, in my experience.
Once you get that answer you got to escalate to the point she has to make a decision on if she will sleep with you or not. No woman owes a man sex or any form of physical affection. However, you should basically know the amount of effort you should have to put in that a woman would normally reciprocate her feelings for you physically. That's where both escalating and de-escalating kick in. You can't be too affectionate, it comes off as simple and plain and desperate if you do too much to show her your intentions. That's why you have to deescalate to give her opportunities to show you she is down.
All those interactions between you before you have sex should show you where it is going or if she is even down for that type of relationship with you. For example, if you sit at a table across from her at a venue and she tells you to come and sit next to her so the two of you are closer as the night goes. Another is if she gives you compliments that imply she thinks highly of you physically or mentally and makes plans to spend time with you in the future. It's not about her buying you gifts its about her showing affection as you take steps to deescalate your own attempts to be with you. Hell is she doing most the talking to qualify herself to be someone you should want to get with, that while talking a lot is annoying but also a great sign on a date.
All that builds the mutual affection that leads to sex.
The idea of giving gifts back and forth isn't anything new to the game. There are some scurvy dogs out there looking to hustle a man. Just wear a condom and make sure you never spend on her thinking that will make her like you.
Always push for women to make a decision on going out with you sooner than later. I found that unless I force a decision on meeting up with a woman, I will really learn nothing about her. Is she open-minded, a risk-taker, or closed off and conservative in a relationship? You can't learn that from idle chit-chat. I simply believe that in the chaos of dating, you’ll only get to see a woman’s true colors when she has to decide if she wants to meet up with you in person. The rest is platitudes, pleasantries, and small talk bullshyt designed to waste your time. No one ever reveals themselves by being polite, in my experience.
Once you get that answer you got to escalate to the point she has to make a decision on if she will sleep with you or not. No woman owes a man sex or any form of physical affection. However, you should basically know the amount of effort you should have to put in that a woman would normally reciprocate her feelings for you physically. That's where both escalating and de-escalating kick in. You can't be too affectionate, it comes off as simple and plain and desperate if you do too much to show her your intentions. That's why you have to deescalate to give her opportunities to show you she is down.
All those interactions between you before you have sex should show you where it is going or if she is even down for that type of relationship with you. For example, if you sit at a table across from her at a venue and she tells you to come and sit next to her so the two of you are closer as the night goes. Another is if she gives you compliments that imply she thinks highly of you physically or mentally and makes plans to spend time with you in the future. It's not about her buying you gifts its about her showing affection as you take steps to deescalate your own attempts to be with you. Hell is she doing most the talking to qualify herself to be someone you should want to get with, that while talking a lot is annoying but also a great sign on a date.
All that builds the mutual affection that leads to sex.
The idea of giving gifts back and forth isn't anything new to the game. There are some scurvy dogs out there looking to hustle a man. Just wear a condom and make sure you never spend on her thinking that will make her like you.
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BigBlackSea
All Star
I think I might dump my current girl. I I don't look forward to spending time with her, and frankly I don't see myself marrying her. Certain things I've seen in the past few months have annoyed me or just made me looks at her sideways. My just give her a ring on Friday afternoon. Doing it in the middle of the week would fukk up my mental state at work.
I know you not suppose to shyt where you eat buttheirs this girl I been working with for a year now and we always arguing and playing around with each other… she’s like the baddest in the entire department but unlike the other nikkas I ignore her and call her out on shyt
Should I shoot my shot
I recently did this (Initiated by the women) I thought why not as I was on a short term contact.
Well the week I was did the deed my contract got extended and I'm still here.
She started acting strange out of nowhere, dodging and avoiding me at work and now we barely speak
When I mean out of nowhere, I mean Friday things were normal, Following week barely spoke.
Like the wind...
I actually spoke to her about it yesterday and she just said she wasn't feeling it anymore.
Just told her she should have just been straight up instead of just acting weird around me.
I wouldn't recommend it.
TBF if I had expected to stay I wouldn't have went through with it cause I have been through a similar situation years ago.
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How did you end up in a relationship with her if you don’t like spending time with her?
Nkrumah Was Right
Superstar
You’re clearly an unfunny troll or not ready/mentally secure enough to date
It sounds like you need therapy to fix your self esteem