Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

I noticed that too i think it gives them broke/weak male vibes

I also think u shouldn't go to deep in that topic if you just met her. It's sad to say but it is a topic that will dry her p

I’m not necessarily sure what it is, because on one hand, I agree with your point about they the broke revolutionary. But it’s like they seem interested, but confused as to why you care so much. Then there’s also a level of appreciating the dysfunction of the community and the women being more about themselves, then the whole community.

But yes, I spoke to two BW about it. They seemed highly interested with it. Things escalated sexually, but then I wouldn’t hear back from them again, last night I met with one & didn’t speak about it and it was all good. Easy close & we’re still talking right now.

But I also notice if you speak more to improving black men, they may seem uninterested as opposed to you speaking on black women and uplifting them.

 

[Ahadi]

Keep your head on a swivel brehs, we left her place & there was white tissue in front of her door step.

 

[CW_1991]

Do any of y'all ever have that "I'm tired of fukkin this bytch" moment? And then cut her off?

Like a fwb. Nothing else. Very routine business like sex.

Been messing with this chick for a couple years and I'm just over it.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Do any of y'all ever have that "I'm tired of fukkin this bytch" moment? And then cut her off?

Like a fwb. Nothing else. Very routine business like sex.

Been messing with this chick for a couple years and I'm just over it.

You said for years. Before you run a red light, you ran past the yellow.

why did you allow yourself to continue a sexual relationship with a woman you couldn’t stand? Was the lust that strong for your distaste and undesirable to even be around her to take a backseat?

 

[CW_1991]

You said for years. Before you run a red light, you ran past the yellow.

why did you allow yourself to continue a sexual relationship with a woman you couldn’t stand? Was the lust that strong for your distaste and undesirable to even be around her to take a backseat?

I didn't say I couldn't stand her. I don't really deal with her enough to even know what she's like. I just come through and slide in and then bounce but I'm tired of it

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I didn't say I couldn't stand her. I don't really deal with her enough to even know what she's like. I just come through and slide in and then bounce but I'm tired of it

then stop? I’m confused on why you posted this.

 

[CW_1991]

then stop? I’m confused on why you posted this.

I posted it because I'm wondering if any other guys ever have that moment where they just get bored with the same chick and just don't want to anymore.

Why you pressing me about it?

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I posted it because I'm wondering if any other guys ever have that moment where they just get bored with the same chick and just don't want to anymore.

Why you pressing me about it?

It ain’t pressin’ shyt just seems what normal men with regular dating lives go through

 

[CW_1991]

It ain’t pressin’ shyt just seems what normal men with regular dating lives go through

It's not a dating thing in this case, but sure. Maybe just sit back and let the cats who can relate speak on it

 

[RaspberryFitted]

It's not a dating thing in this case, but sure. Maybe just sit back and let the cats who can relate speak on it

Ain’t shyt to relate on I’m bored fukking you, adios

you want a dissertation on the topic or somethin?

 

[CW_1991]

Ain’t shyt to relate on I’m bored fukking you, adios

you want a dissertation on the topic or somethin?

So you in here responding for trolling and entertainment rather than discussion?

Later

 

[RaspberryFitted]

So you in here responding for trolling and entertainment rather than discussion?

Later

Trolling? Breh I tried to engage with you on the topic until you stated she was a fukk buddy.. and I stated it to ditch her and keep pushin’.

It’s one thing if it’s your girlfriend or wife for years.. then there’s history.. but a regular chick you smashing? I’m lost if you want us to agree, tell stories, advice like?

 

[CW_1991]

Trolling? Breh I tried to engage with you on the topic until you stated she was a fukk buddy.. and I stated it to ditch her and keep pushin’.

It’s one thing if it’s your girlfriend or wife for years.. then there’s history.. but a regular chick you smashing? I’m lost if you want us to agree, tell stories, advice like?

Your engagement was basically being a dismissive smartass trying to police what's posted.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Your engagement was basically being a dismissive smartass trying to police what's posted.

Wasn’t tryna be, as this entire thread is full of simplistic questions.. some I’ve even asked.

I was just confused on the purpose of it. If she was a long time girlfriend, then I’d do some introspection on why I stayed so long and if the decline was due to you or ya woman.

FWB? I’ve thought of past ones and even (sadly) tried to “I see you at the park with ya nephew aha-ha” in their messages a few times.. but knew they served their purpose and I wanted either a badder chick or an actual girlfriend.

 

[Bossyyyyy]

Man I’m down.

Officially done w my lady. Where to from here