Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

I know prime women are great, but the level of conversation with a woman who’s 30 is superior.

20 year olds, just wana talk about NBA Youngboy

Women for the most part are women if you ask me. 30 years old, 20 years old…tthe difference is marginal

 

[MikelArteta]

Women for the most part are women if you ask me. 30 years old, 20 years old…tthe difference is marginal

Yup
The only difference really is an older woman might be jaded and/or want something serious / not wasting her time while a younger one hasn't had heartbreak dealt with waste men and is cool with something casual

 

[Astroslik]

How are y’all getting banned from dating apps?

 

[Ohene]

Smashed my ex twice this week. She has a boyfriend. He was blowing up her phone while I was blowing her back out

Be safe fam

 

[Ahadi]

How are y’all getting banned from dating apps?

If you keep deleting and making new accounts using the same phone number.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Yup
The only difference really is an older woman might be jaded and/or want something serious / not wasting her time while a younger one hasn't had heartbreak dealt with waste men and is cool with something casual

I don’t even think this has anything to do with age though. I’ve realized ladies say this shyt and are jaded after their 1000th failed relationship and after talking to 100000 people lol. I know girls on that shyt already in their late 20s

And on the other side

I’ve seen ladies get married early on in life, get divorced in their 30s/40s and wild the fukk out

Age is just a number needs to be applied to all them older women because at the end of the day there are plenty of them getting going out every weekend, getting tossed around by 20 year olds, and they do attention seeking shyt just like the 20 year old girls lol


I would say women with young kids are focused on being serious and not wanting to waste their time rather than a woman of age.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

It’s easy to smash out here if you don’t care about anyones feelings but yours. It sounds fukked up, but in the context I’m about to use it’s true.

You should always be up front with saying you don’t want a relationship and you’re only looking for hookups. But let’s be honest, nine times out of ten the chick who agrees to that will end up catching feelings and will low key expect something more down the line. You really expect a chick to stay true to the agreement after your hookups? You really expect most of them to not feel a way that you’re done hooking up with them and that you’ve moved on to hooking up with someone else?

Feelings will be hurt even if you’re honest and you have the conversation. Don’t be out here trying to respect their feelings while out here trying to be that dude. Either be all in on thinking long-term on how this will all end and will make her feel or be ready to accept you’re going to break hearts to get a few off and raise up them stats.



And I have an unpopular public opinion/advice. Any dude can score out here if they quit aiming for 8,9, and 10s every time he tries shooting his shot. I only say public because someone out here getting these 7s and below pregnant and feeding them hella confidence in private lmao.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

Help me out here, when you do cold approaching do you just go in and hope she’s single or is there some kind of tell? Or does cold approaching only work where in places where most girls going are usually single, like clubs?

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Help me out here, when you do cold approaching do you just go in and hope she’s single or is there some kind of tell?

cold approaching is simply acknowledging an attractive/interesting woman and sparking a conversation. Your “tell” is revealed as the conversation progresses or honestly — sometimes it’s never revealed and you shouldn’t push for it

Or does cold approaching only work where in places where most girls going are usually single, like clubs?

Cold approaching works anywhere BUT use common sense. If shordi is the only clerk available with a long line behind you, it’s best to keep it pushing or catch her another day.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

^ pt.2 related to this

tellin’ dudes to not approach women in [insert any public space] was the dumbest piece of advice I’ve heard in my life. Y’all pops crept up on ya moms at the grocery store, disco club, leaving the gas station, church, funeral, hospital, yelled at her across the street — if he was a soldier he spit game overseas.. miss me with the singles mingles & DM’ing only.

Me & my mentor were talkin’ women and he told me back then you made a move because 9/10 you will probably never see her again. When you see shordi on ya timeline, what is the incentive to pursue when you could just DM her?

 

[Manolo]

I just read some girl on LSA say she was gonna mess with a guy until she saw his license plates were expired and he didn’t wear cologne (she said he “smelled like outside elements”)

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I just read some girl on LSA say she was gonna mess with a guy until she saw his license plates were expired and he didn’t wear cologne (she said he “smelled like outside elements”)

what’s exactly wrong with her post?

 

[Manolo]

what’s exactly wrong with her post?

I don't even have a comment, I just thought it was funny

 

[MikelArteta]

It’s easy to smash out here if you don’t care about anyones feelings but yours. It sounds fukked up, but in the context I’m about to use it’s true.

You should always be up front with saying you don’t want a relationship and you’re only looking for hookups. But let’s be honest, nine times out of ten the chick who agrees to that will end up catching feelings and will low key expect something more down the line. You really expect a chick to stay true to the agreement after your hookups? You really expect most of them to not feel a way that you’re done hooking up with them and that you’ve moved on to hooking up with someone else?

Feelings will be hurt even if you’re honest and you have the conversation. Don’t be out here trying to respect their feelings while out here trying to be that dude. Either be all in on thinking long-term on how this will all end and will make her feel or be ready to accept you’re going to break hearts to get a few off and raise up them stats.



And I have an unpopular public opinion/advice. Any dude can score out here if they quit aiming for 8,9, and 10s every time he tries shooting his shot. I only say public because someone out here getting these 7s and below pregnant and feeding them hella confidence in private lmao.

its true and the funny thing women follow this rule. Women don't care about hurting your feelings

 

[Apollo Creed]

this is why I always google a number when I get it. matched this bytch on hinge and she's an escort. Even if she wasn't an escort and wanted to date for free she probably wouldn't give me her escort phone number. what's the play here fellas? Do I act like I don't know and still meet up for a drink?

All men need to have a “business number” that they give everyone, a burner number for BS stuff, and then their “real number” for family/people you care about.