Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Yup, it was the first date, it was a board & Arcade games spot, something quick & cheap.

That's why first dates should be very cheap & minimal investment. You can quickly ended it if its not going as expected.

I would have left asap
I remember last year meeting up with this girl for lunch

She wasn’t dressed up and I didn’t find her attractive after we ate she had to go pick up something and asked me to wait. I just left

 

[MikelArteta]

I kept it at coffee or drinks. Even quicker and less investment for both.

Or even a walk no cost at all

 

[The ADD]

Or even a walk no cost at all

Correct

For me anything above that was too much potential for tome wasted and the women felt about the same

 

[NOSKI_DA_DON]

Sounds like you hyped it up in your head more than anything:

• Really liked
• Had my eye on 4 awhile
• Invested in

Need more details but reads as if you played it slow and then got shot down

Yup,the bold explains it all lol

 

[NOSKI_DA_DON]

Rejection always hurts, so feeling bad is normal, just don’t dwell on it to long. The best way to get over it is to do things to keep it out of your mind. Even if I am trying to hold down a rotation, I regret the ending of any relationship. Especially if I really liked the woman involved. So don’t stress feeling bad, you’re human.

If you do have to think about it, try to see if there is anything you can learn from it and apply in the future. Even if consciously you don’t think there was anything of value to learn. The experience will subconsciously help you spot those red flags sooner and move on quicker or not become so attached.

There will always be another woman out there who wil0 open to you. You just got to keep trying and don’t let your past fill your mind with self doubt or resentment against women. The perk of a rotation is it holds you down and allows you to gain perspective on rejection. She made a choice, it’s not a sign of anything but her opinion. You can always find a woman with a different opinion than her… in fact multiple if you put the work in.

I'm take it for what it is and keep it moving

 

[MikelArteta]

Rejection always hurts, so feeling bad is normal, just don’t dwell on it to long. The best way to get over it is to do things to keep it out of your mind. Even if I am trying to hold down a rotation, I regret the ending of any relationship. Especially if I really liked the woman involved. So don’t stress feeling bad, you’re human.

If you do have to think about it, try to see if there is anything you can learn from it and apply in the future. Even if consciously you don’t think there was anything of value to learn. The experience will subconsciously help you spot those red flags sooner and move on quicker or not become so attached.

There will always be another woman out there who will be open to you. You just got to keep trying and don’t let your past fill your mind with self doubt or resentment against women. The perk of a rotation is it holds you down and allows you to gain perspective on rejection. She made a choice, it’s not a sign of anything but her opinion. You can always find a woman with a different opinion than her… in fact multiple if you put the work in.

Yup its normal we all have emotions. Just have to keep pushing. It sucks but it's life everyone deals with it at some point or another. Rejection sucks, heartbreak sucks the thoughts of if I only did this or that, the hope that dies, the knot in the stomach, loss of appetite, thinking your in adequate but it's all just the heart and the mind not on the same level.

And yeah that is true, there will always be other women. I always say there is a woman somewhere praying on her hands and knees for someone like you.

I was bored the other day and just opened notepad and made a list of all the women I could remember that I've gone out with even just one date since my engagement ended. The list was long as hell, I'm not saying this to brag or boast but I remembered when my engagement ended feeling sad and down and out and ish to now since then I've been out with more attractive women, more accomplished women, younger women. Yeah I haven't found anyone that I could see myself marrying etc. but there will always be other women.

And at the end of the day as I always say a woman that likes and wants to be with you>>>>>>>>>>a woman that doesn't

 

[Brandsdale]

this is something I’ve learnt recently…getting her Snapchat is better than getting her number…

Young brehs reading this shoot for her Snapchat… u can txt her on there plus u see what type of person she is by what she posts…and if it don’t work out it’s gonna recommend girls that are near you

a woman giving you her social media can a lot of times just be avoidance

why give someone your personal phone number when they can do anything with it? Sure you can block folks and all that with iphones but we all know a nikka (me included) will just go to WhatsApp (or whatever 3rd party app) to try and backdoor try to text shorty even if you blocked.

If a woman fukked with you and you truly made her comfortable, there are not many hiccups like this happening imo

 

[VertigoKnight]

Or even a walk no cost at all

I love a walk. Great to just chat. If she's dry you only have to spend a short while together. If you're vibing you can suggest you grab a drink.

 

[King]

Where can you meet very attractive women during the day?

 

[Pseudo]

I wanna break up with my girl but I want to take as far as I can before calling it quits. We've only been dating a few months and I'm already feeling miserable and drained.

Her to a mutual friend: "You should totally date Pseudo he's a great guy "

Me:
The Mutual Friend:


Went to her house to spend the day.

Her: So Melissa really likes you

Me: Yeah probably

Her: Why don't you give her a chance. Don't you want two girlfriends?


Me: Decide to call her on her bluff and say yeah. She gets all and says she's joking


Brehs I have to deal with some variant of this bullshyt whenever I'm with her. A couple weeks back she accused me of hiding the true nature of our relationship from my relatives in front of our friends completely blind siding me.

Eventually I called her up with the intention of breaking up. Asked her if she saw a future in this relationship. Eventually she admits she does this bullshyt because she's deeply insecure. I knew that but it was refreshing to see her have that sense of self awareness. Decided to give it another shot...

I just wish she'd communicate more. Just talk and tell me what's up

 

[DA_LURKA]

I wanna break up with my girl but I want to take as far as I can before calling it quits. We've only been dating a few months and I'm already feeling miserable and drained.
Her to a mutual friend: "You should totally date Pseudo he's a great guy "

Me:
The Mutual Friend:


Went to her house to spend the day.

Her: So Melissa really likes you

Me: Yeah probably

Her: Why don't you give her a chance. Don't you want two girlfriends?


Me: Decide to call her on her bluff and say yeah. She gets all and says she's joking


Brehs I have to deal with some variant of this bullshyt whenever I'm with her. A couple weeks back she accused me of hiding the true nature of our relationship from my relatives in front of our friends completely blind siding me.

Eventually I called her up with the intention of breaking up. Asked her if she saw a future in this relationship. Eventually she admits she does this bullshyt because she's deeply insecure. I knew that but it was refreshing to see her have that sense of self awareness. Decided to give it another shot...

I just wish she'd communicate more. Just talk and tell me what's up

Sounds like she likes p*ssy too...

 

[Malik1time]

I know you not suppose to shyt where you eat but theirs this girl I been working with for a year now and we always arguing and playing around with each other… she’s like the baddest in the entire department but unlike the other nikkas I ignore her and call her out on shyt it’s clear as day we both like each other….. and she got a great personality she keeps hinting she got no boyfriend and is single
Should I shoot my shot everyone in the department know we like each other but no one will make the move first

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

I know you not suppose to shyt where you eat but theirs this girl I been working with for a year now and we always arguing and playing around with each other… she’s like the baddest in the entire department but unlike the other nikkas I ignore her and call her out on shyt it’s clear as day we both like each other….. and she got a great personality she keeps hinting she got no boyfriend and is single
Should I shoot my shot everyone in the department know we like each other but no one will make the move first

Don't do it man. Trust me, I've been there, the co-worker shyt never works out in the end. I did that so hopefully you won't have to go through that.

 

[MikelArteta]

I know you not suppose to shyt where you eat but theirs this girl I been working with for a year now and we always arguing and playing around with each other… she’s like the baddest in the entire department but unlike the other nikkas I ignore her and call her out on shyt it’s clear as day we both like each other….. and she got a great personality she keeps hinting she got no boyfriend and is single
Should I shoot my shot everyone in the department know we like each other but no one will make the move first

depending on how much you hate your job. Nothing worse than dating a broad and you break up yet still have to see her every sday.

 

[International Playa]

I know you not suppose to shyt where you eat but theirs this girl I been working with for a year now and we always arguing and playing around with each other… she’s like the baddest in the entire department but unlike the other nikkas I ignore her and call her out on shyt it’s clear as day we both like each other….. and she got a great personality she keeps hinting she got no boyfriend and is single
Should I shoot my shot everyone in the department know we like each other but no one will make the move first

If its a shytty job, that can be easily replaced, DO IT, if its a career job, DONT DO IT!!!!