Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Malik1time

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:patrice:i have a somewhat similar scenario and tbh im trying my darndest to play oblivious.

if she REALLY likes you and makes that push to try and kick it outside of work and what not, maybe play the game :manny: but im usually very cautious when it comes to in-office fukking. Have yall exchanged numbers or anything?
We already got each other number and everything :patrice:
So I kept it casual and shyt and told her I wanted to see Nope since I never seen it… I asked her to pull up but she said she gonna watch it with her sisters…but she immediately counter and said “well im free Friday we can do something if you want”:ehh:
I may be opening a Pandora’s box brehs:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
 

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We already got each other number and everything :patrice:
So I kept it casual and shyt and told her I wanted to see Nope since I never seen it… I asked her to pull up but she said she gonna watch it with her sisters…but she immediately counter and said “well im free Friday we can do something if you want”:ehh:
I may be opening a Pandora’s box brehs:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
lmao you in too deep now breh. Good luck tho :salute:

i work closely with some young hot white chic and im not even daring go near them waters :russ:
 

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Lmao how would a breh give away that he’s a PAAGer?

An over obsession on her asianness over her just being an attractive looking woman and being her own person. Not a stereotype.

Like I date a lot of asian women but I would never consider myself having yellow fever as I take a woman as an individual. Is every asian woman I’ve met great? Nope a ton I’ve met we have not gotten along at all.

But clued in asian women know what to look for.

It would be the same feeling you as a breh gets when you know a non black woman is over interested in being with black men. It's off putting and uncomfortable as it seems she's into your blackness not you.

Big any black guy will do energy. Luckily I have easily avoided those types.

And it's the same with yellow fever people any asian will do no matter how busted she is.
 

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she got her a dikk-in-a-glass playing 2K22 with Yung Mal blasting in the back. Probably told her YOU need to lower the volume when you drop her off:wow:


Real talk, just lay it down to her like you laying it down to us. No reason for the sneakiness.
So she finally took the Amtrak up here to Milwaukee last weekend. Spent Friday-Monday with ya boy. Had her in one of my t-shirts nothing on underneath cooking Sunday brunch for us. Sex was amazing:wow:

I asked her why we never chill at her place when I’m in Chi, she came clean, she has some bum ass cousin + her kid who got evicted in May staying in her living room.

Asked her why she ain’t tell me sooner, said she wanted to see how I reacted to getting bushed each time I tried to slide.
 

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We're not in our physical prime anymore.
Back in the MySpace era I drove 6 hours roundtrip just for some ass (and I had work the next day).
Left home around 9, got to her spot at midnight. Smashed, drove 3 hours back home. Dozed off for like 2 hours, then went to work like nothing.
Now? If she's more than 15 min away: yeah I'll catch you tomorrow, have a good night

:russ:

Yes. Something like that, but moreso like I’m taking my time in getting to know them. I’m not pressuring or counting the amount of dates needed to smash. If I feel it, I feel it. The connection has to make sense.

I’m about to hit 30 & being conscious of sexual health and understanding the quality of person I’m dealing with is #1.
 

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some other girl I’m talking 2… I asked her out but she initiated a reschedule.. so I’m like in my head “ ok ok she showing interest cuz she said no the time I said but she rescheduled another day immediately :ehh: :ehh: “ I told her I was gonna call her the day prior for more information about the date… I texted her early in the morning about something completely else.. no response:patrice:.. so after work I called her and got no response:patrice:(mind you this was yesterday).. now today is the day for our supposedly date that she recommended was the best time and I still haven’t herd anything from her :camby: (It is early in the morning but still) Should I do a follow up in a couple hours or just charge it to the game? She got me vex cuz I hate when people waste my damn time… especially when you initiated the new time:scust::scust:
 

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some other girl I’m talking 2… I asked her out but she initiated a reschedule.. so I’m like in my head “ ok ok she showing interest cuz she said no the time I said but she rescheduled another day immediately :ehh: :ehh: “ I told her I was gonna call her the day prior for more information about the date… I texted her early in the morning about something completely else.. no response:patrice:.. so after work I called her and got no response:patrice:(mind you this was yesterday).. now today is the day for our supposedly date that she recommended was the best time and I still haven’t herd anything from her :camby: (It is early in the morning but still) Should I do a follow up in a couple hours or just charge it to the game? She got me vex cuz I hate when people waste my damn time… especially when you initiated the new time:scust::scust:

Nah no followup. She been ignoring your calls and messages for 24 hours. Assume she's no longer interested and KIM.
 

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some other girl I’m talking 2… I asked her out but she initiated a reschedule.. so I’m like in my head “ ok ok she showing interest cuz she said no the time I said but she rescheduled another day immediately :ehh: :ehh: “ I told her I was gonna call her the day prior for more information about the date… I texted her early in the morning about something completely else.. no response:patrice:.. so after work I called her and got no response:patrice:(mind you this was yesterday).. now today is the day for our supposedly date that she recommended was the best time and I still haven’t herd anything from her :camby: (It is early in the morning but still) Should I do a follow up in a couple hours or just charge it to the game? She got me vex cuz I hate when people waste my damn time… especially when you initiated the new time:scust::scust:
Learn not to get so off your axis for someone not invested in you.
 

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some other girl I’m talking 2… I asked her out but she initiated a reschedule.. so I’m like in my head “ ok ok she showing interest cuz she said no the time I said but she rescheduled another day immediately :ehh: :ehh: “ I told her I was gonna call her the day prior for more information about the date… I texted her early in the morning about something completely else.. no response:patrice:.. so after work I called her and got no response:patrice:(mind you this was yesterday).. now today is the day for our supposedly date that she recommended was the best time and I still haven’t herd anything from her :camby: (It is early in the morning but still) Should I do a follow up in a couple hours or just charge it to the game? She got me vex cuz I hate when people waste my damn time… especially when you initiated the new time:scust::scust:
Consider that date cancelled. If she hits you up then maybe though. But let her hit you up don’t send her another text or phone call.
 

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some other girl I’m talking 2… I asked her out but she initiated a reschedule.. so I’m like in my head “ ok ok she showing interest cuz she said no the time I said but she rescheduled another day immediately :ehh: :ehh: “ I told her I was gonna call her the day prior for more information about the date… I texted her early in the morning about something completely else.. no response:patrice:.. so after work I called her and got no response:patrice:(mind you this was yesterday).. now today is the day for our supposedly date that she recommended was the best time and I still haven’t herd anything from her :camby: (It is early in the morning but still) Should I do a follow up in a couple hours or just charge it to the game? She got me vex cuz I hate when people waste my damn time… especially when you initiated the new time:scust::scust:

Charge it to the game breh.

Any date I setup, the chick is the one who checks in with me that it's still happening on the day. Once it's agreed on I usually dead any chit chat until we meet in person.

Out of interest what was the extra info you were going to tell her?
 

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Charge it to the game breh.

Any date I setup, the chick is the one who checks in with me that it's still happening on the day. Once it's agreed on I usually dead any chit chat until we meet in person.

Out of interest what was the extra info you were going to tell her?
Originally I planned to go to Dave and buster but the day I picked was bad for her so the day she rescheduled was the day dave and buster was closed(I have no idea why this particular one is closed on a goddamn thursday :mjlol: :mjlol: ) so I had to call a audible and I told her “ok imma call you tomorrow(which was yesterday)” what throws me off is she is the one who wanted to go on a date with me on Thursday:mjlol::mjlol: now you disappear like Casper:mjlol:
 
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