Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The same way they made it taboo to ask a woman about her body count, Men need to be the same way about their finances. We dont know better un the beginning because we think thats the way to being liked. I dont tell em shyt about my finances

yup
unless you are getting married to that broad then maybe there you can disclose your finances if buying a house etc.
Besides that?
 

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yup
unless you are getting married to that broad then maybe there you can disclose your finances if buying a house etc.
Besides that?

Breh I went back on bumble for the first time in a while and goddamn there's a lot of ugly ass white women in the city. Is it just me or is this the case now
 

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Breh I went back on bumble for the first time in a while and goddamn there's a lot of ugly ass white women in the city. Is it just me or is this the case now

I've been off apps for a while
bumble sucks though because even if you match with a chick if she doesn't message you in 30 min it dissappears

hinge is the only app where there is some sort of quality look wise, but you can delete and come back months later and its the same women pretty much.
 

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I've been off apps for a while
bumble sucks though because even if you match with a chick if she doesn't message you in 30 min it dissappears

hinge is the only app where there is some sort of quality look wise, but you can delete and come back months later and its the same women pretty much.

yep i opened hinge and noticed it's the exact women from 6 months ago.
 

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The same way they made it taboo to ask a woman about her body count, Men need to be the same way about their finances. We dont know better un the beginning because we think thats the way to being liked. I dont tell em shyt about my finances
The biggest trick played on man is getting men to put all their cards on table meanwhile women can hide their real face, waist, age, body count, hair, etc and its deemed acceptable. Women can sell an illusion while men have to play straight up.. As long as you know and understand this the game becomes that much easier and you just laugh at the whole thing..
 
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The same way they made it taboo to ask a woman about her body count, Men need to be the same way about their finances. We dont know better un the beginning because we think thats the way to being liked. I dont tell em shyt about my finances
Didn’t know talking about finances was a thinking. Wouldn’t remotely entertain it.
 

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I've been off apps for a while
bumble sucks though because even if you match with a chick if she doesn't message you in 30 min it dissappears

hinge is the only app where there is some sort of quality look wise, but you can delete and come back months later and its the same women pretty much.
That’s my issue with hinge I be seeing the same women like 60% of the time :scust:
 

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That’s my issue with hinge I be seeing the same women like 60% of the time :scust:
Yeah they clearly changed the algorithm to try and increase matches. Specifically to try and convince people to spend more and give out roses to stronger matches. Hinge has moved on from the grow phase to the Harvest phase….

When it came out the best feature of the app originally was that it use to just match you on basic shyt and then you had to use some game to build up interest in a date.

I have not been on that app since 2021. It’s dead and app dating is bad until some new one comes out more focused on building their user base than pimping them out.
 

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Yeah they clearly changed the algorithm to try and increase matches. Specifically to try and convince people to spend more and give out roses to stronger matches. Hinge has moved on from the grow phase to the Harvest phase….

When it came out the best feature of the app originally was that it use to just match you on basic shyt and then you had to use some game to build up interest in a date.

I have not been on that app since 2021. It’s dead and app dating is bad until some new one comes out more focused on building their user base than pimping them out.

The roses was the worst thing to happen to it. Chicks you were able to match with before easily hidden behind a dumb rose.
 

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Realizing just because I have feelings for a woman does not mean I should attempt to have a more than a friendly relationship or even even attempt to just fukk. Right time, right place, and right feel (should) always prevails. Wow. :wow:
 
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Random thought I had while watching the Pineapple Show. Anyone think women do a kind of projection when they reject a dude? Like if they don't feel worthy of dude, they reject themselves by projecting their insecurities on to him. This vid I was watching, the girl was coming with all types of excuses, that almost felt like signaling. Dude's a square who's on the come up, and the girl sounds like a bird who rides the coattails of any celeb in LA. Maybe

So far I 've heard

  • "You look young"
  • "You far" (LA and Phoenix are only 5 hours away driving, but I can understand that)
  • Breh only makes $35,000, though he's still in school and on his way to a doctorate
  • 9:24 - "You don't need me, you want me." i.e. wake the fukk up simp, you lusting over a street girl busting it open the Hollywood nikkas
7:15- She says I don't want to stop you from your dreams. That only felt like a warning like, "You're a good dude, on your way to great things. I have a kid, I'm in the streets with celebs doing God knows what, allegedly making 35,000 in three months but still needs financial help (she didn't say what she does though:mjpls:)

Breh's a young cat, and I think he's wet behind the ears, cause he was campaigning hard for her, despite all the redflags. She sounds like a mess, and she's telling him not to get involved. I gotta give her props for laying her cards on the table (in as clear a way as possible as far as women do), and letting him know what her business proposition was. Son's gotta grind a bit, maybe get his heart broken once or twice, and he'll be good,


men dont respect themselves. it is what it is

its even worse now because instead of just focusing on the women that men come across around the way, social media and apps have given dudes enough reach to "shoot their shot" at women they have no business talking to. above is a perfect example of that.

dude live in a small city he said, he need to find himself a smart, humble. attractive chick at school or the gym and just build with her rather than beg some IG thot on a live youtube.

men really need to start respecting themselves more
 

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Which works better? Being non chalant and putting in just enough effort OR instant responses (within 5-10 mins), pursuing with a bunch of chit chat (good morning, have a good day, etc) ?

I've been trynna find the right balance. I get girls who I'm not interested in... I barely put in any effort...maybe they just find me very handsome... but the ones I like and pursue I get ghosted... I try to be direct tho-- tellin them I want to see them...

Her: "what you doin this weekend?"
Me: "I'm trynna see you"

she'll heart the comment then I don't hear anything back... I'm like damn...

What's a good balance? remain laidback and aloof while also being upfront about your intentions or what?

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this gotta be one of the dumbest things ive read in here in a while

what are you expecting her to say after? she hearted the message...tell her when you finna pull up or when yall finna link and set up the rendezvous.
 
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