VertigoKnight
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Yeah, that show is too much anything over 5 mins.
It does show you how desperate a lot of men are though, as every woman I've seen featured on that show has issues.
And yet these men line up to get rejected by them.
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Yeah, that show is too much anything over 5 mins.
It does show you how desperate a lot of men are though, as every woman I've seen featured on that show has issues.
And yet these men line up to get rejected by them.
Wargames
One Of The Last Real Ones To Do It
This is a lot of rejection for a short video.
Listen to all the toxic, red flag shyt she says to reject him
“Those guys who I use to date, they are still around. They just my friends”
“Girls fukk who they want, guys fukk who they can”
“I am just a home girl though if I like you I will take it there (and fukk)”
“I can’t do long distance (relationships)”
On the low the shadiest shyt she does is call him short and when he says he is taller than her. She then admits that she wish she could call him short.
That’s before he tells them what they make and the Host starts laughing at him.
Quick side note. He never should of said how much he makes. If a woman tries to do that to you it’s just like if a man did that to you. You got to say to yourself “that’s none of your business” then you can choose how you say it to them. Either change the topic, tell them nicely you rather talk about something else, or if the date is going like the one in the video be direct and say “that’s none of your business” and use it as an excuse to leave.
Anyhow then he starts begging…..Honestly, just watching this reminds me of my own salty bad dates, but that is how it is when you first start dating. Your not listening for subtext, your trying to be liked.
Is shorty from the Bay? She spitting a lot of game that women have in order to reject this man. She isn’t nice with how she does it but she was consistent if he was listening. She rejected him every step of the way. Another woman says any of the above things to a man and he should walk away. She says all of that to him. Also I don’t think she is projecting her issues. She’s being mean spirited, and she is rejecting him. On the low she barely talks about herself. That’s how bad that date is, she’s not even being prideful which in turn tells him how to make her feel vain.
The man in this video should find himself a girl around the way who is willing to build with him. The woman sounds like she is about that fast life, and he is in a slow and steady lane and he can find a wonderful woman who will respect him and appreciate that. This woman isn’t it.
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BigBlackSea
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It's junk admittedly, but I peep it sometimes to soak up some game on what not to do/ what to avoid.
Wargames
One Of The Last Real Ones To Do It
Don’t watch too much of that trash it will affect your mental. Go out there and experience it so you can learn it.
Dance_Like_A_Fiend
All Star
So I'm always reading about how Nicki Minaj's husband did this, or Cardi's husband did that. Like I wake up and hop on Opera, & the first thing I see is relationship drama. Has it ever occurred to these women to date, I don't know, Lawyers, or doctors, or business owners, or something? I mean they date, marry, and breed with men that make careers out of singing about how violent and promiscuous they are and how little they value women and life in general life, what do they think is going to happen?
Wargames
One Of The Last Real Ones To Do It
Those people are multimillionaires with brand awareness, drug problems, and bad spending habits. I don’t judge them because I don’t have those problems. Their dating habits mean nothing to me.
Also those Lawyers, Doctors, and Business owners work 50 - 80 hours a week. Even if there single they don’t got time and often marry women who are in their immediate sphere and can be part of their careers or a college/high school sweet heart who was with them when they made $35,000 a year.
Watching too much of that reality TV stuff will mess with your mental and make you too materialistic.
Duke Wy Lin
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You saying men are victims? How manly do you think that sounds? As a man, you should take ownership of your own choices and even your emotions.
Duke Wy Lin
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Well then it's on you to do your due diligence and proceed based on logic and a sound mind and not get swept up in some lovey dovey childish conception of romance. You can't truly love someone whom you don't know. It's why in most cultures, love is seen as something that comes later in life after years of ups and downs.
Duke Wy Lin
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No guidance from father figures.
Soldier
not redeemed with gold but with His Blood
Yep from September to april .They need someone for the colder months (fall winter)
We don’t call it « cuffing » season for nothing
September = start of fall/weather gets colder/new tv-Netflix shows
October= Halloween
November = thanksgiving
December= Christmas
January = New Year’s Eve
February = valentines day
March = St-patricks day
April = easter
May-August = they are single again, ready for another hot girl summer
NOSKI_DA_DON
Pro
Don't care how it sound. Men are victim sometimes
NOSKI_DA_DON
Pro
Emotions don't work like that bruh!l, especially with lack of experience
Which works better? Being non chalant and putting in just enough effort OR instant responses (within 5-10 mins), pursuing with a bunch of chit chat (good morning, have a good day, etc) ?
I've been trynna find the right balance. I get girls who I'm not interested in... I barely put in any effort...maybe they just find me very handsome... but the ones I like and pursue I get ghosted... I try to be direct tho-- tellin them I want to see them...
Her: "what you doin this weekend?"
Me: "I'm trynna see you"
she'll heart the comment then I don't hear anything back... I'm like damn...
What's a good balance? remain laidback and aloof while also being upfront about your intentions or what?
There’s no rules. If she likes you, she likes you.
Don’t try to play it cool & act all busy lol, text back on your terms. You’re the man, you lead the convo and do what YOU want.
Just don’t be a text buddy, set up meetings asap (24-36 hour time frame) Attention spans are short in this generation.
Dance_Like_A_Fiend
All Star
I wish SC had a bigger African Diaspora. Or if they do then I wish I knew where they were. Literally all my interactions and everything I know about them comes from internet and books.
The women hate AA men hard on tiktok and Twitter and the other social
Media sites and I’m beginning to hate them back. It also doesn’t help that I’ve read some pretty bad stuff, like them giving it up to Chinese men and Euro cacs. I also hear the diasporas in Europe and Canada aren’t much better, either.
The women hate AA men hard on tiktok and Twitter and the other social
Media sites and I’m beginning to hate them back. It also doesn’t help that I’ve read some pretty bad stuff, like them giving it up to Chinese men and Euro cacs. I also hear the diasporas in Europe and Canada aren’t much better, either.